Jedihunter4 said:
Seriously does nobody read my whole post, pretty much every 16-30 bloke rips the shit out of each other for a laugh! Thats not a regional thing! that's a british thing! Also as I said already two of my house mates are from Yorkshire so believe me when we have had the North-South argument pretty heated after a few to many, seriously that anchorman quote "boy that really got out of hand quickly" applies lol.
Well, maybe I didn't. It's been a while now. But I looked mainly at what you wrote in that section and the parts immediately after didn't seem to change it... I mean, it's a good warning to someone from a different culture that may not necessarily have such elements, but being surprised about it yourself seemed off
Anyway yer I was talking about mainly some of the pubs I've been to in Manchester where its like "wtf he's not from round here" okay maybe too much of a broad example in the way I put it, but the point I was trying to make was you don't go into Sheffield an its like a welcoming small village.
On that front I totally know what you mean. You do have to be careful about picking your pubs in some places, and on occasion quickly changing your approach to be pretending to look for someone and bolting when "they" prove to not "be there" is wise. Try some of the more backstreets places in Bangor for example ... 3 years I lived there and some of them were never that comfortable to visit unless you were in a group of 5+ on a pub crawl. (even worse because in at least a couple you'd hear people talking english as you pushed the door ... soon as they clapped eyes on you it'd flip to welsh. thankfully not that often however, and the best, still heavily traditional pub in town was run by and frequented by people who didn't care who you were so long as you weren't a complete tosser)
Always best to check out an unfamiliar bar with a buddy anyway though, isn't it?
Yes yes Coventry is a hole everyone who lives here agrees
Phew ... I'm so glad I can now get away with saying that without feeling so guilty (I'm a filthy brummie

).... unless it's one of those "only black/gays can use the N-/F-word" things.
It's a great place to use to get between various midlands towns, if you can't go on the M6, I'll say that much. It's well engineered for such a purpose.
The amount of times I have actually herd locals use the phrase "I wish the Germans had finished this place off, so I lived somewhere else" is depressing.
Heh ... I wonder what it'd be like if they'd missed it entirely, and flattened more of Brum instead?
Also WE HATE Warwick their our rivals so ill be dammed if i'm going there. plus there is the fact they all come here for nights out so can't be that great.
Never even been there. I don't really know what it has. I figure it was probably mainly a coaching and market town that's since been bypassed... Both N-S AND E-W...
What I do know however is that Warwick uni is in Coventry, so how does that work?!
I never said anywhere in the UK does not have at least something to offer, but if ur just coming here for a short trip stay in london as its not worth the travel time which could be spent in London
Well if they're only here for a week or less, fair play. There is a lot to see, and it'd be stupid to cut out any of the sights when you're only around for a limited time and that's specifically where you've "gone".
But if it's going to be a longer trip - 10 days or more - I'd counter-argue you're missing out by staying stuck in there all the time. You'd surely either exhaust it or just get burnt out from hitting all the typical tourist spots. But then, that's maybe just my nature. If I'm on hols somewhere I can't last two weeks in the same resort without at least catching a bus/train or renting a car/scooter/bicycle to go off for a bit of independent exploration further afield, out of the tourist trap (or at least, out of the local one). I've seen some awesome things in, say, Sardinia or Andalucia that you'd never get on the usual package deal, and it made things a lot more interesting even though the remainder of the trip was spent back in the original "base". (And similar on a trip to France with friends where we had a coastal house to stay in but would bust out every couple days and go find what a nearby medium-large town had to offer, at random)
GPS makes it a lot less risky nowadays, too!
Plus, otherwise you'd go back home as yet another foreigner who's been to central Larrrrrnden and thinks they therefore know "England", when it may as well be the fifth kingdom of the union. I don't claim to know Spain, Italy, France from the slivers of them I've seen, even with those extra excursions. Because what I've mainly seen is their tourist resorts. Central London is a lot like some kind of wierd theme park based on itself. Walking around Canary Wharf, for example, is just
bizarre and the tube is unlike any other form of transport I've experienced.
At the very least ride out to the end of one of the "spoke" tube lines and wander round the environs of that terminal station for a bit

The suburban areas of London are far less Wonderlandy.
Also i've never been to london an been like, you know what this place is really up itself? seriously your putting your own ideas on the city if that's what you want,
I can't remember if that's what I said or someone else, now

But it maybe wasn't meant so seriously if that's how it came across.
There does seem to be an endemic thing of "this is how things work here, therefore that's how the rest of the country also works, or at least, should...", even though such things are largely wierd. But it is also just a city with people in it. I don't have a problem with people who live in London (I know a few, and they have been affected by its madness to various degrees - one of them is just A Guy who happens to have a flat within spitting distance of Gordon Ramsey's pub but is otherwise perfectly real, another has gone Full Hackney Hipster and there's barely a week goes by I don't tell him to move back to the midlands before his brain finally melts out of his ears... the way his life runs simply wouldn't wash in the provinces...), more those who are identifiable
londoners, massively over and above even the characters portrayed in Only Fools & Horses

(much like identifiable Brummies always strike me as a bit off - I only said I was above for comic effect and to show where I am. Hardly anyone has that strong an accent, a Timothy-Spall-in-Red-Dwarf outlook, or a true hatred of the yam-yams).
Some of them are well up themselves, and often they're the ones who wield the influence. So the whole place can come across similarly. There are millions who aren't...
And it is an amazing place ... but boy, I wouldn't want to live there. Or stay for more than two weeks. If nothing else, I'd be skint!
Redlin5 said:
Best of the 3 said:
If you're driving, you better not cock up. I hear it will get bad if you do.
Driving in Europe scares me. When I was on my ten day battlefield tour, our bus driver scared me.
He always played German techno and yes, he was insane. But we didn't crash once although we did see another bus in an accident
Foreign bus drivers are terrifying. Same as their taxi drivers. British (or if you like, London) ones are a little less so, but may still come as a shock if you're used to taking buses/taxis anywhere other than New York. Despite the reputation for a somewhat gruff demeanour, the bus drivers I see depicted in American media (for example) seem INCREDIBLY laid back in outlook and driving style compared to ours. And all the same, the continental ones scare me in a way Brit ones never could. They're fearless. The only worse ones may be the Indians.
However we don't tend to have a culture of road rage (or queue-/register-rage, out of the cars, etc) the same way that America does. There was a brief flare up in the late 90s but it never really caught on. I think we're still just too reserved to really get that mad for that long. There may be some shouting and exchange of hand or light signals, but it dies down quickly afterwards. And driving standards seem to be largely a lot better. If you see someone doing something really retarded, everyone else will be thinking the same, rather than shrugging it off as "oh well... it happens". Brake/throttle confusion, driving the wrong way round a roundabout or down the wrong side of a divided road is incredibly rare (I had my first, and so far thankfully only encounter with the latter a couple months ago, when some old dear got confused by one side of a dual carriageway being shut and so figured she'd contraflow on the other, still-open side, rather than the service alley everyone else was being shuttled down), people tend to have slightly better lane and signal discipline, etc. But never, ever trust someone's signal or highway-code mandated lane progression over what their wheels, speed, in-lane positioning and your own gut feeling suggests they're actually going to do...
And again, have a nice time
