I find that the Monster Hunter series is a pretty good simulation of, err, monster hunting. If not that, it has a firm grasp of the mechanics and physics behind swinging a gawddamned, gigantic sword as though it's actually a friggin' gawddamned, gigantic sword rather than something with the weight of a Q-Tip.
Mount & Blade (as well as M&B: Warband) is a pretty good medieval combat simulator that's oft labelled as an RPG, but it's fun and not too hard to get into (has a nice way of scaling the difficulty beyond Easy/Med/Hard), and the horse mounted combat is fun in itself.
Or there's always The Sims. I hear that's not too complicated. And pretty Sim-y.