What an idiot. Ill admit, I've wanted to duct tape my nephews mouth shot on no less than 569 occasions but you need to be half retarded to do it.
Haaaaaah! I see what you did there!Grey Carter said:One man's dumb decision to tie up a four-year-old girl so he could play games was bound to end in tears.
Yeah, you need too. Luckily I have an understanding wife, so when I want to pop in a game and kick back (Usually now reserved to the weekends) then she will keep an eye on the kiddo and gimmie an hour or so after work. Same with her, if I see she needs a break I take the baby. It's all about teamwork and communication and smothering the kid (With love of course!).=y said:When I'm a father I fully expect to give up gaming at the rate I do right now. I don't think this guy got the memo that children require constant attention even if he is just a babysitter instead of the father. I hope I never get video game addiction to the point where I'd tie up a child to maintain concentration.
Thought 1: Think you're using the term gentlemen a little too loosely there buddy.Grey Carter said:...a 27-year-old gentleman from Sarasota...
What for? For revenge? Seems pretty pointless to me.RT-Medic-with-shotgun said:As retribution i propose...
We cover his entire body in duct tape & rip it off violently. No less than 7 times.
It's to answer the inevitable question of "Well why did he tie her up like that?" Whether he was read, watching TV, or whatever, the reason for him tying her up is listed purely because people are going to ask anyway. People need to stop with the knee-jerk "Oh they only mentioned the reason because it's video games" reactions to these. They don't mention the video games just for the sake of placing blame, they mention why he tied her up because they know that people reading the article are going to be asking themselves why he tied her up in the first place.Buretsu said:I question why Video Games was even mentioned at all. I guess it's another intent to paint video games as evil things that cause people to do bad things, which I really wouldn't expect from The Escapist... Shame.
The term is "site", as referring to a location.Mikeyfell said:This story shouldn't be on this sight for one simple reason.
Because plugging our ears and yelling "LA LA LA LA I CAN'T HEAR YOU" over and over again isn't going to make a problem go away. I can assure you that any hobby site that talks about news talks about parenting mishaps within their own community. And why? Awareness. If we ignore a problem and pretend it isn't there, it can only get worse.If this "Howe" guy tied up a 4 year old girl so that he could go crochet a wool hat would it have ended up on The Escapist.
NO!
So why is it here now?
Depending on what game this is, the kid might not be able to play the game (both for content and complexity reasons). Anyway, if this 4-year-old is anything like my niece, I can see how he might get bothered having her in the room while he's playing the game. Kids that young aren't known for being quiet, even if she was "amused by what's going on", she'd still be making a lot of noise. That said, anyone who's SO bothered by a noise a kid makes that he feels obligated to tie her up in another room (not to mention other horrible things parents have done), then that person has no right being left alone with a child. Ever.Caramel Frappe said:.. Wait, why did this guy tie up the girl for if he's playing a video game?! Video games are very entertaining and I know they're not for everyone, but if I was him I would of lad her on my shoulders while I played a video game. She's 4, she'd be amused by what's going on (even if it's rated Mature, much better then doing what this guy did which is unacceptable.)
Heck I have a 1 year old niece who watched My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic with me the whole time. If I can manage that, this guy could of easily done something. Let the 4 year old play the video game! She'd get a kick out of it (maybe). But you know... obviously the mom and the dude aren't meant to be parents. Society needs to step it's game up, I am afraid the Government will have full control of how kids are raised and it already feels like it's at that peak. Just me maybe, but I doubt it since you're never alone in anything you think or do.
Oh I agree, completely. Hence the entire second half of my reply. He wants to game while keeping an eye on the kid, then that's fine, but the kid comes first. If she's being loud, then either put up with it, or play the game later when she isn't around and/or sleeping if you really don't like background noise while playing. But we could write a whole novel about this... in fact, I'm sure plenty of people already have. So 'nuff said.Caramel Frappe said:But the thing is- a child is a responsibility. You have to give up some freedoms and free time to raise the child.