Let's go down the list for those just joining us. And I'll try to be inclusive, because this isn't just about women gamers sadly.
1. BUT BUT BUT FREE SPEECH.
Nope. Free speech exists in the public sector, not the private. You have the right to say whatever you want (so long as it does not endanger the lives of others), but you do not have the right to broadcast abuse and harassment using someone else's platform. The servers are privately owned and they have a code of conduct. You are not entitled to continue using those servers after breaking the code of conduct.
2. But sexist/homophobic/racist talk only offends thin-skinned people! Be less sensitive!
Nice victim blaming there.
We are not talking about isolated incidents. Let me say that again in bold tags. WE ARE NOT TALKING ABOUT ISOLATED INCIDENTS. We are talking about XBL, which is so virulently, ardently abusive and proud of it that it's a fucking no-fly zone for anyone who isn't white straight and male (SWM). We are talking about systemic, ingrained harassment. We are talking about people who are dogged out of games for having the audacity to not be SWM. This isn't about one badly timed "stay in the kitchen" joke.
3. I'm gay and I'm not offended by people calling me fag!
Oh my god, did I miss the last Queer Club meeting where we elected you our spokesperson? Darn, sorry about that.
But seriously, if you're not bothered by this shit, that's great and I genuinely envy you're ability to not internalize it. That doesn't mean that everyone is that lucky, and that doesn't make the people who are offended less important.
4. I'm gonna get banned by feminazis!
With every ban system, there are abusers. You can report someone for cheating using mods and get them banned when they're innocent. That happens on occasion. If that happens to you, I'm sorry, and that really sucks, but on the cost-benefit analysis, you kinda lose.
And since you have about another 500 multiplayer-focused FPS games that don't care about protecting their userbases from abuse, I'm sure you'll find safe harbor.
5. But trash talk is a part of gamer culture!
This is probably the worst.
If your culture is dependent on driving out anyone who isn't SWM, if it cannot exist without being able to drive anyone with a feminine username out of the game, if it will crumble without being able to hurl invectives, if it feeds on an environment that tells you it's okay to harass people to "let off steam"
then that culture deserves to go down. Any culture that fosters exclusiveness and hate isn't entitled to shit.
Gaming culture has gotten a free pass for a long time. In recent years, people have been deciding that's not okay. Just because you are suddenly under scrutiny now doesn't mean you shouldn't've been the whole time.
This is one step forward. If you don't like it, don't get the game. Me, personally, this will likely be the first Halo game I ever purchase, and if this system is in place, I'll buy it at full price. Things like this need to be encouraged.
Dem's the breaks.