Sucks to be you man... but trust me:whaleswiththumbs said:
YOUR BEST FRIEND CAN BE YOUR GIRLFRIEND/BOYFRIEND!!! I ACTUALLY MAKES SENSE SINCE THEY ALREADY KNOW YOUR REALLY WELL!!!
(You can send me those 200 bucks later.)
Has a relationship ever ruined something completely for you?
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YOUR BEST FRIEND CAN BE YOUR GIRLFRIEND/BOYFRIEND!!! I ACTUALLY MAKES SENSE SINCE THEY ALREADY KNOW YOUR REALLY WELL!!!
(You can send me those 200 bucks later.)
I totally agree, and it does make sense, in fact, when you start looking for long term, close friend who share similar values and outlooks become the most desired partners.whaleswiththumbs said:
HOWEVER: If you're at the point where you're using an internet forum to try to make the break out, dude, then it's a lost cause. Additionally, if you're at an age where you utilize the term "The friend zone" then you're at an age well before 90% of women grow out of the friend zone.
On topic, it took me 3 years to be willing to listen to certain bands after one of my first relationships. That one lasted a week.
On the other hand, the one that lasted on and off for 2 years and at it's longest full run was 10 months left virtually no wounds, and I was out feeling fine within a few hours of the breakup.
I think in a lot of cases (not all) it's the closure aspect. If you get dumped early on, when you're still trying to figure things out, or even later on out of the blue, the scars cut deeper. If you see it coming, or are the one to do it, it's easier to shrug off. Admittedly, seeing it coming often isn't good enough, but it can help you be ready.
On the other hand, the one that lasted on and off for 2 years and at it's longest full run was 10 months left virtually no wounds, and I was out feeling fine within a few hours of the breakup.
I think in a lot of cases (not all) it's the closure aspect. If you get dumped early on, when you're still trying to figure things out, or even later on out of the blue, the scars cut deeper. If you see it coming, or are the one to do it, it's easier to shrug off. Admittedly, seeing it coming often isn't good enough, but it can help you be ready.
Well, I didn't technically go out with her, but we almost did. And because of what happened, I ruined most of my friendships, a good deal of music and any chance of ever being with her. Plus the entire two years it took for the entire thing to entirely unfold. I had liked her for about a year and a half before I got enough courage to ask her, but because of something I had done, she said no, even though she liked me, and it took me another 5 months to get over her.
As sad as that is, that's to closest I've ever been to getting a girlfriend.
As sad as that is, that's to closest I've ever been to getting a girlfriend.
You think your life is messed up? HA!Glamorgan said:
I used to live in Minnesota and met this really great girl. After our first date I had to move back to Germany and we lost contact. After 5 years I found her on facebook and I decided to visit her again. On our first date nothing really happend, we went to the mall. On our second date we went to go see inception and it really sparked. I held her hand and everything. We hung out for 4 more days and then I had to go back. Once I was back I asked her how she feels about me and she told me she doesn't really love me anymore. FUCK!!! It took 2 years for me to get over her for the first time, but I think it's going to be easier this time. =)
During my first-ever relationship, Every Little Thing by Hawk Nelson was pretty much my theme song. The band was awesome, and one of my favorites. After the breakup, however, I could barely listen to them at all. Maybe if they had kept up the quality of their first few albums I would have tried to tough it out and get into them again, but seeing as they went downhill pretty quick in my opinion (why are great punk rock bands afraid to be punk rock now?), I never really tried. I still have their music, but I don't really listen to them.
My most recent ex. I keep thinking of her whenever I would play Socom, since she would sleep over and I'd crawl out of bed to play, and she would never mind and surprisingly rarely wake up (and I crank the tv, too. the tv is also in the same room). So playing it makes me happy that I'm playing but I keep thinking back to those (recent) days.
