Have you ever had a gay (same sex) experience?

[GroovySpecs]

Y'know, it's a mystery to me how anybody, man or woman, can find the male body attractive, even a perfectly formed and healthy male body. It's all squarish at the top, the sides are too straight, the limbs are all lumpy and there's no squishy bits, unless he's fat. Also, male genitals are just downright comical.

Funny, I felt the same until I asked a girl what she thought about guy's bodies...and...it was the wrong move on my part! And she nearly blew my mind.

Let's just say girls are a HELL of a lot more perverse than guys would want to imagine. She was anything but modest or gawky about it, and when she went into super detail about things that turned her on...well...what's been heard, can't be unheard. Shit that's never crossed my mind. Shit that would have /b/ on 4chan going...0.o

We sure are, and you can bet there was still more she didn't tell you. Trust me when I say that in 99% of cases where a man complains his wife or girlfriend isn't adventurous enough in the bedroom, its either because hes never had the courage to actually talk to her about experimenting sexually or because she doesn't believe he will react well if he she tells him what she really wants. Women are just as perverse and have just as many kinks as men, we're just more private about it.

 

[TallanKhan]

I haven't ever had such an experience myself. I am not fundamentally opposed to the idea, if I met a guy I was attracted to I wouldn't rule out anything just because of his gender, however, to date I have never met a guy I have had any attraction towards.

 

[an annoyed writer]

I did once, it was with a long time friend when we were in our last year at univerity. I had never questioned my sexual identity up to that point and even now I wouldn't really identify myself as bisexual. I find other women asthetically pleasing and the fact I grew up in a household with a very conservative mindset made the whole thing feel exciting and naughty, like I was breaking the rules, but I don't feel the same purely sexual attraction to other women that I feel towards men.

That said it was a very eye opening experience and quite enjoyable. I am confident I know what I want from a relationship and that I want a relationship with a man, there is something about the emotional dynamic between a man and a woman that really makes a relationship what is it (I'm only speaking for myself here). That said, being single I wouldn't be oposed to repeating the experience with the right person.

The friend with whom I shared that experience decided a short while afterwards that she was in fact gay and was far happier in herself having discovered that. While nothing else happened between us (obviously) we have remained very close friends and we both regard it as something very special we shared.

Addition - Having read that back to myself and considering how I have never shared any of that before I'm suddenly quite taken aback that I just did

I can see why you were taken aback by what you did. You did more there than just have some gay experience: you helped your friend find herself! You deserve a puppy fistbump!

 

[Patrick Buck]

Kissed a dude once. That was about it. It was a jokey thing.

'part from that, no, not really.

 

[Julius Terrell]

I've had quite a few experiences I'd much rather date someone transgendered. Someone passible. I love tits and ass like other men, but I do love really pretty boys. I just don't meet them too often. I'd date a really pretty guy if he was attracted to me. I'm still attracted to femininity by and the more feminine the better in my book.

I watch a lot of yaoi and a lot of the boys on those shows are really pretty! ^_^

I guess it's a good thing I'm bi. I've struggled a lot with women in my adult years.

 

[Starik20X6]

I've never done anything with another guy, find nothing attractive about men, and the thought of kissing a guy almost makes me want to gag[footnote]Just to be clear, I've got no problem with other guys kissing each other, it's just the thought of another guys lips touching mine that makes me squeamish somehow...[/footnote]. However, I have had curious thoughts more than once. I doubt I'll ever act on it though, seeing as any and all curiosity evaporates the moment a pretty girl crosses my path.

 

[MrMixelPixel]

I'm married to another woman... I think it answer it

Ah I see, polygamist eh?

OT: ehhh, not really, I've gotten up close with males and the like, hugging, kissing, etc. But never really in a sexual way. I licked a guys face once, but was to prove a point. Nothing sexual about it.

 

[Shocksplicer]

Depends on what you mean by "gay same sex experience", but i've been felt up by a guy, and recieved a couple of lap dances. All from the same guy now that I think of it... I think I may have a chance here...

 

[Talvrae]

I'm married to another woman... I think it answer it

Ah I see, polygamist eh?

euh no not at all, we are only us 2, 2 girls

 

[Sacman]

Gay guys seem to be the only people ever interested in me, despite not being gay myself... Men, have asked me out more times than I care to remember... <.>

 

[Xisin]

Nope.

Y'know, it's a mystery to me how anybody, man or woman, can find the male body attractive, even a perfectly formed and healthy male body. It's all squarish at the top, the sides are too straight, the limbs are all lumpy and there's no squishy bits, unless he's fat. Also, male genitals are just downright comical.

I love the hardness of it and the lines. Especially the ones at the hip that taper off as you go lower.

OT: I've never had sex with another woman before, but I did a bit of kissing and groping with a few girls when I was in middle and high school. I think breasts are quite lovely, but the vagina is a frighting thing. I love men too much to swing a lot.

 

[Archer666]

I'm into dudes. I hug plenty of dudes every week. Tis fun.

 

[nomzy]

Well, in my defence I thought they were women.
After I saw their err 'packages' I had some issues, took viagra and did it anyway cause I was there so I figured I may as well finish what I started.
Can't say I'd do it again but hey now I have a funny story to tell my friends, and they don't know if I'm kidding when I make gay jokes.

 

[Mahoshonen]

One time I saw a pic of Tom Brady and his girlfriend, and thought that Brady was the more sexually attractive.

That's all I got.

 

[Relish in Chaos]

I think I once accidentally kissed my male friend when we were randomly messing around in Science class. I can barely even remember how it happened, but my friend still tease me by saying my first kiss was with a guy, even though it wasn't (or perhaps, they don't count first kisses below the age of 13).

 

[FieryTrainwreck]

I'm a firm 0 on the Kinsey scale. Never had a homosexual experience, and I've never entertained a homosexual fantasy. Not in my constitution, much to the dismay of a particularly randy gay friend. Apparently red beards are a thing?

 

[leviathanmisha]

I've been in both same and opposite sex relationships, so I guess you can say I'm bi (but I lean heavily towards the ladies).

I'm currently in a committed same-sex, long distance relationship (I'm off at school and she lives in our hometown), so we've got a lot of pressure on us, but we make it work.