Help me see into the mind of a guy.

[Yoshemo]

I stare at everyone. Its not cuz I like em or anything, I just zone out a lot and my eyes naturally fix to the most familiar thing which is a human face

 

[Zhalath]

I'd say he's either interested or bored. Probably the latter.
If you want to talk to him, go ahead.

 

[TheGreatCoolEnergy]

Talk to him. I know if I was in his position, I would want the girl to talk to me

 

[Ganthrinor]

Alright, I need your guys' opinion on something.

There's this guy in my college math class who's always staring at me. We sit on opposite sides of the room, and I'm constantly catching him looking over at me. I'm one row behind him, on the opposite end. Unfortunately, I've never really had the chance to talk to him or anything like that.
Note, if it helps: Yes, he looks away when I look back. Dunno if that's a good or bad thing.

My sister is convinced he's got a thing for me. I'm not sure, and I don't want to try anything and sort of "jump the gun," so to speak.

So, I'm asking you guys because I don't really know how the male mind works with that sort of thing. Can staring really equal interest? I thought maybe it was only girls that did that, but I could be wrong...
Help me, please? :/

He's shy. Talk to him.


Barring that, flash your tits and grin.

 

[NeutralDrow]

But he's a kid

...in a college class?

 

[Bruin]

But he's a kid

...in a college class?

Must have missed that.

I change my opinion to my first statement.

Wear sweatpants and a sweatshirt to class and it'll end pretty quickly.

 

[teutonicman]

Clearly you have his interest. Either he thinks there is something abnormal about you or he has a boner for you. Probably the second option.

 

[Polaris19]

Alright, I need your guys' opinion on something.

There's this guy in my college math class who's always staring at me. We sit on opposite sides of the room, and I'm constantly catching him looking over at me. I'm one row behind him, on the opposite end. Unfortunately, I've never really had the chance to talk to him or anything like that.
Note, if it helps: Yes, he looks away when I look back. Dunno if that's a good or bad thing.

My sister is convinced he's got a thing for me. I'm not sure, and I don't want to try anything and sort of "jump the gun," so to speak.

So, I'm asking you guys because I don't really know how the male mind works with that sort of thing. Can staring really equal interest? I thought maybe it was only girls that did that, but I could be wrong...
Help me, please? :/

As a guy I will answer it easily.

Yes.

Unless he just spaces out a lot and happens to be looking at you when he does so, he's got a thing for you.

 

[ICs2Xist]

Well, interested sure, unless it's a glare rather than a stare (in which case you probably wouldn't be wondering), but you need to ask yourself what kind of interest. If all he's interested in is your looks, it's safe to say he probably looks at plenty of other girls the same way.

 

[ethaninja]

And how is she supposed to see his pupils dilating from across the room.......

It was sarcasm. It's hard to sort of put emphasis in text

 

[Strumthund]

Don't really have anything to add, but I agree with a majority of the responses. From experience, he's probably interested in some way.

 

[BrownGaijin]

I'll say what every one else has said (in one way or the other), he's probably into you and he's too shy to confront you. It could be the colorful clothes you wear, and the way the sunlight plays upon your hair. The real question is what do you want to do about it?

Do you want to:
1. be "just friends"?
2. have him sweep you off your feet?
3. mace him?

 

[cocoadog]

I would like to help. Unfortunately I don't really know what is in our minds because there are to many tits to sift through.

 

[Hollock]

he's into you.

 

[Zhukov]

So, I'm asking you guys because I don't really know how the male mind works with that sort of thing. Can staring really equal interest? I thought maybe it was only girls that did that, but I could be wrong...
Help me, please? :/

The male mind isn't much different to the female version, if at all.

If he's looking at you a lot it's because he finds you attractive. If he's quickly looking away when you meet his eye it's because he's thinking, "Oh crap ohcrapohcrap, that cute girl just caught me staring at her! Quick! Look away, act casual!"

If you want proof, smile at him and observe the results.

 

[blankedboy]

He likes you he's just shy...<.< No other explanation unless you have a brain slug on your head...

I wish... maybe I can trade my Towering Pillar of Hat for one.

Ontopic, I'd say he likes you. Chat with him at some point.

 

[Sacman]

He likes you he's just shy...<.< No other explanation unless you have a brain slug on your head...

Damn brain slugs. Always latching on to people's heads.

OT: He's interested in you in some way, and is probably thinking of an excuse to talk to you right now.

If he's anything like me he's not gonna come up with one, he's just gonna tell himself, " she doesn't care what I have to say, there is no reason for her to talk to me." or something like that, than go home cut a little bit get beat by his step dad and cry himself to sleep alone and unloved only for the same thing to repeat itself for the next year until he finally comes to the realization that life isn't worth living and try to off himself with a fist full of extra strength advil only to vomit it up and go on living a miserable existence in a hollow emotionless body...<.< you know if he's anything like me...
but saying he isn't like me he will probably talk to you about the weather or what ever mentally stable people talk about these days...

Why would you- Just-

...

):

It was a dark joke, don't think too much about it... It's only mostly true...<.<

 

[clockout]

If you are attractive/cute to said person

1: He'll try to subtley scope you out
2: After number 1, He is now wondering what you look like naked
3: Now He'll wonder what you'd look like naked bent over something

 

[Saltyk]

Alright, I need your guys' opinion on something.

There's this guy in my college math class who's always staring at me. We sit on opposite sides of the room, and I'm constantly catching him looking over at me. I'm one row behind him, on the opposite end. Unfortunately, I've never really had the chance to talk to him or anything like that.
Note, if it helps: Yes, he looks away when I look back. Dunno if that's a good or bad thing.

My sister is convinced he's got a thing for me. I'm not sure, and I don't want to try anything and sort of "jump the gun," so to speak.

So, I'm asking you guys because I don't really know how the male mind works with that sort of thing. Can staring really equal interest? I thought maybe it was only girls that did that, but I could be wrong...
Help me, please? :/

I'm going to use the Occam's Razor approach. Basically, the simplest answer is usually the correct one.

The simplest answer is that he has some attraction to you. Basically he thinks you're cute/interesting/smart/etc or some combination thereof.

The best way to test this would be to talk to him. Especially if you are interested. Otherwise, just ignore him.