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I don't know what to tell you...Do like the stressed out English people,and curb stomp people when they get off the subway?dib_dib_9@hotmail.co.uk post=18.69486.661291 said:
Serious question.Do you have a anus?If so you can smuggle feminized white widow seeds to England,and grow weed in your closet with a hydroponic system costing 20 bucks....dib_dib_9@hotmail.co.uk post=18.69486.661298 said:
Don't worry m8. You're not the only one, although i am starting uni again this year. Not open uni. Thats too hard. You need a lot of self discipline to be able to pull that off. I tried last year and failed. Coulden't be bothered to study anymore because nobody was pushing me. That and i had chick problems ending a 2 year relationship. Blargh.
I also have the same problem with finding a little job. Nobody rings back for the jobs you would like but the jobs that are impossible like working from 17:00 till 23:00 25 miles away are begging you to work there. Sorry, i have no DAMN CAR! and public transport stops in my town at 20:00.
I don't have any "friends" as such either. I do know a lot of people though and if i get ultra bored i can call someone to go out with but can't really relate to the people i know so i just keep to myself 99% of the time which produces a lot of lonely boredom. I live near small towns that never have anything i would call "cool" to do and have no stamina to keep a hobbie.
Socialising round here (Belgium) is out the window too.
The people here are dumb as hell and never have anything fun or interesting to say. Shit like "Lets take drugs", "Lets go to a festival", "Bla bla bla about some shitty band they like". None of that interests me. In actual fact i feel like murdering the lot of them.
Can't move to another city either. The problem, NO MONEY. So i'm stuck with my parents again since mid May of this year. Yay. Living with mom and dad hooooraaay....... *shoots himself*
Although i don't have to cook or do the washing (^_^) which is a plus+++.
We should form a club and take over the world.
I also have the same problem with finding a little job. Nobody rings back for the jobs you would like but the jobs that are impossible like working from 17:00 till 23:00 25 miles away are begging you to work there. Sorry, i have no DAMN CAR! and public transport stops in my town at 20:00.
I don't have any "friends" as such either. I do know a lot of people though and if i get ultra bored i can call someone to go out with but can't really relate to the people i know so i just keep to myself 99% of the time which produces a lot of lonely boredom. I live near small towns that never have anything i would call "cool" to do and have no stamina to keep a hobbie.
Socialising round here (Belgium) is out the window too.
The people here are dumb as hell and never have anything fun or interesting to say. Shit like "Lets take drugs", "Lets go to a festival", "Bla bla bla about some shitty band they like". None of that interests me. In actual fact i feel like murdering the lot of them.
Can't move to another city either. The problem, NO MONEY. So i'm stuck with my parents again since mid May of this year. Yay. Living with mom and dad hooooraaay....... *shoots himself*
Although i don't have to cook or do the washing (^_^) which is a plus+++.
We should form a club and take over the world.
OK im going to stop being a prick and tell you some vital info
1.Set goals
2.state way you can achieve those goals
3.work it out,you will find a way.
1.Set goals
2.state way you can achieve those goals
3.work it out,you will find a way.
I have tried studying....I have something wrong..I can't get my words down on paper.... is there something that can help with that?
hmm, might I suggest joining the army? They will give you the discipline you need to sort out your life and you can save up some money for a few years. Then move to dubai or japan and do as I said before. (I might suggest dubai now that I think of it because they have no taxes. Just don't get caught doing anything. A friend of mine spent three months in prison then got deported because he had one beer then got into a car.)
This is the internet, generally people asking for help are treated with little respect. Until you accept that there is no mystical solution, the only help we can give is simple advice like "apply yourself" and "do everything you can find in the classifieds".dib_dib_9@hotmail.co.uk post=18.69486.661333 said:
Its true mate. you need to get off your ass and try again. I know you feel down right now and that tends to make you lazy, bored and mentally retarded. The "Nothing works" and "Its not my fault that everything i do fails" attitude won't cut it. You need to be strong and fight on.
So, as A29inchbeefstick said:
1.Set goals
2.State a way you can achieve those goals
3.Work it out, you will find a way.
So, as A29inchbeefstick said:
1.Set goals
2.State a way you can achieve those goals
3.Work it out, you will find a way.
What are you expecting out of this forum? You shoot down advice, you deny you have any abilities of any sort, you give nothing but reasons while nothing will work, so at this point, what do you expect a bunch of complete strangers at the other ends of a series of tubes to do for you?
You have to understand he's in a dip and thats how people react when feeling down. So don't blame him. Even is he does not take our advice, he will see for himself sooner or later we're right.mshcherbatskaya post=18.69486.661360 said:
Back on subject,
I'm sure you can find other courses to do at the unemploymency office. I'm not completely sure how things work in england but here you can follow courses without the need of a diploma.
Well there are other ways of learning other than going to college or uni. Im doing a home study course with the skills train, you dont need fantastic GCSE's (i only got 2C, 6D, E and a F. not sure that yours are)but you do need some money. im paying about £50-£60 a month for it and im sure you could get a job in retail, that's how im paying for mine.
But if you are interested in skills train go to www.skillstrain.co.uk
But if you are interested in skills train go to www.skillstrain.co.uk
I sent off for an information pack
I will look at learn direct also....
Juts so everybody who has posted to help in this thread...you have helped a lot.....
I will look at learn direct also....
Juts so everybody who has posted to help in this thread...you have helped a lot.....