Hey, uh guys? Can I have some help?

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The Lawn

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capin Rob said:
The Lawn said:
You're 14, you're barely out of elementary school, you should be out having fun.

Go climb trees, make some mischief.

You're still a kid, girls are the least important thing at your stage of life.
Girlfriends come and go, but childhood only comes once in a lifetime.
I'm 14, and my chilhood is longgone
No it's not, childhood is a state of mind.
Just the age range that you can get away with shit does.

Like egging cars, 14 year old gets grounded for a week or 2, 22 year old has to pay to clean everything up.

Climbing trees, 14 year old is just being a kid, 22 year old is WHY IS THAT GUY IN A TREE?!


My friends and I still uphold our tradition of going to Ralphs, buying a cheap kite from the toy isle, and seeing how far we can get it.
Last year we got it a good 3 miles away.

So no, your childhood isn't gone, you just think it is.
It's not gone until you let it go.
I still haven't let mine go, and I had an 8 year head start on you.
 

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dragon_of_red said:
Just ask her out, dont be a wimp or try anything stupidly over the top, just simply ask her out, your 14, nothing bad is going to happen, if she says no youll move on.

Simple as that.
This is the best advice you will get for this.
 

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pyrosaw said:
capin Rob said:
The Lawn said:
You're 14, you're barely out of elementary school, you should be out having fun.

Go climb trees, make some mischief.

You're still a kid, girls are the least important thing at your stage of life.
Girlfriends come and go, but childhood only comes once in a lifetime.
I'm 14, and my chilhood is longgone



join the club.we have cookies


What kind of cookies?
 

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BeefStu128 said:
Sooo, i haven't been having much luck with girls lately, and there is a new one, that I want to devote all my time to. But as the story goes: I'm not sure how she feels about me. I myself believe I'm stuck in a rut. Does anyone here know any ways to sweep her off her feet, so that she may possibly fall in love with the nice guy I am?


P.S. We are both 14
HAHHAHAHA

Oh wait you're serious. Let me laugh even harder. HAAAA HAHAHHA

Seriously, 14? I mean Jesus Christ, you still have no idea what love is and isn't. You are thinking about "attraction". If you have actually loved someone, you wouldn't have come here begging for advice.

Especially that 95% of the relationships that start while you are in middle/high school fall apart in less than a year. 4% after two or three years. 1% is pregnant kids whom parents forced to get married.

Hell, even in the 20-25 bracket it's more likely you will split than not.
 

Toar

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You are in the wrong place to be asking for girl advice. BUT... do the usual, take her to lunch/dinner, take her to a movie (HER CHOICE), meet her parents, play with her dog/cat, beat her enemy at her request, protect her from stupid stuff (Be protective to a point, you know, let her have friends, but not Friends with benefits), and be yourself. If she doesn't like you then to hell with her.

This is coming from a guy who, for his whole life, has NEVER been laid. I'm almost twenty and I'm still a vergin... not by choice... *sigh*...
 

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Abedeus said:
BeefStu128 said:
Sooo, i haven't been having much luck with girls lately, and there is a new one, that I want to devote all my time to. But as the story goes: I'm not sure how she feels about me. I myself believe I'm stuck in a rut. Does anyone here know any ways to sweep her off her feet, so that she may possibly fall in love with the nice guy I am?


P.S. We are both 14
HAHHAHAHA

Oh wait you're serious. Let me laugh even harder. HAAAA HAHAHHA

Seriously, 14? I mean Jesus Christ, you still have no idea what love is and isn't. You are thinking about "attraction". If you have actually loved someone, you wouldn't have come here begging for advice.

Especially that 95% of the relationships that start while you are in middle/high school fall apart in less than a year. 4% after two or three years. 1% is pregnant kids whom parents forced to get married.

Hell, even in the 20-25 bracket it's more likely you will split than not.
That is pretty much true there.
 

Brad Shepard

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BeefStu128 said:
Sooo, i haven't been having much luck with girls lately, and there is a new one, that I want to devote all my time to. But as the story goes: I'm not sure how she feels about me. I myself believe I'm stuck in a rut. Does anyone here know any ways to sweep her off her feet, so that she may possibly fall in love with the nice guy I am?


P.S. We are both 14
have faith in yourself first, then the girls will come, i know this first hand, i was a way to shy teen untel i got into my 3rd year of high school, when i said to myself, and im being real here "Fuck it" and stoped being shy, a week later i had 3 dates, it was cool i guess, but the way i am is i wanted a nice, sweet girl that would love me and i would love her, and you know what? i found her, shes amazing and she is a gamer too, which is a plus, but what im trying to say here is give it time, come out of your shell, and dont be afraid of the word no, because thats the worse you will hear if you get what i mean.
 

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Old Trailmix said:
Treat a girl like dirt and she'll cling to you like mud.

Although everyone else will think your an asshole.
thats a sad sad sad fact is it not?
It's true, I tried it on a girl for fun and it worked.

But I fucking dislike her with great intensity. We now regularly get into piss fights. Which are undeniably hilarious.
 

Brad Shepard

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Old Trailmix said:
Brad Shepard said:
Old Trailmix said:
Treat a girl like dirt and she'll cling to you like mud.

Although everyone else will think your an asshole.
thats a sad sad sad fact is it not?
It's true, I tried it on a girl for fun and it worked.

But I fucking dislike her with great intensity. We now regularly get into piss fights. Which are undeniably hilarious.
Piss fights... please tell me it just involves being angry at each other and yelling...
 

cheese_wizington

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Brad Shepard said:
Old Trailmix said:
Brad Shepard said:
Old Trailmix said:
Treat a girl like dirt and she'll cling to you like mud.

Although everyone else will think your an asshole.
thats a sad sad sad fact is it not?
It's true, I tried it on a girl for fun and it worked.

But I fucking dislike her with great intensity. We now regularly get into piss fights. Which are undeniably hilarious.
Piss fights... please tell me it just involves being angry at each other and yelling...
I'm not that weird.

At least I THINK I'm not that weird.
 

Brad Shepard

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Old Trailmix said:
Brad Shepard said:
Old Trailmix said:
Brad Shepard said:
Old Trailmix said:
Treat a girl like dirt and she'll cling to you like mud.

Although everyone else will think your an asshole.
thats a sad sad sad fact is it not?
It's true, I tried it on a girl for fun and it worked.

But I fucking dislike her with great intensity. We now regularly get into piss fights. Which are undeniably hilarious.
Piss fights... please tell me it just involves being angry at each other and yelling...
I'm not that weird.

At least I THINK I'm not that weird.
i mean, dont get me wrong, theres this ex of mine that i would throw piss at if i ever got the change (Crazy whore cheated on me, broke up with me ((her best friend told me she cheated on me no less)) and then tried to get back together with me by seting up rules!) but i will admit, i would pay money to see two people that hate each other that much to throw bottles of urien at each other.
 

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Dude, you're only 14. Relationships don't really start meaning anything until your in your twenties. Take it from me... I know from experience. Hell, you're still practically in diapers. You shouldn't be worried about girls at this stage in your life! Wait until college. Then start looking.

But if you really want this girl, then here's my advice: just start talking. If she likes you, she'll come to you. Just look for signs in her body language, the way she talks to you, haw often she makes an effort to be with you... that kind of thing.

However, be careful not to be overbearing... this will definitely drive her away. Just act normal, show that your interested, but not desperate. A guy did this to me once, and all it did was irritate the hell out of me.

Just be you. If she likes you, she'll likely make it known. If not, oh well, there are PLENTY more where she came from.
 

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Do things the old fashioned way!
Get girls the caveman way!
With a big piece of wood!
Though that probably won't work. All I can say is talk to her and go with your gut feeling, who knows she may be interested. There's really no way to "sweep someone off their feet", if there is then we haven't found it.
 

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BeefStu128 said:
Sooo, i haven't been having much luck with girls lately, and there is a new one, that I want to devote all my time to. But as the story goes: I'm not sure how she feels about me. I myself believe I'm stuck in a rut. Does anyone here know any ways to sweep her off her feet, so that she may possibly fall in love with the nice guy I am?

P.S. We are both 14
I suggest a broom. Relax, and go with what's natural. You're both 14, so don't expect anything. Go with 'fun to hang out with'. That's about all you really go going for you.
 

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Chase Yojimbo said:
Just do your thing... go with the guitar some more! booya!
In the end, the singer gets all the chicks, just to let you know.