Abedeus said:
Shepard is a lesbian, if you are playing female.
While the Asari do not consider themselves Female/Male, they do look female. And, well, that makes our Spectre a homosexual.
First I will make clear that I am a straight male to help put my points into perspective.
I tend to actually play female protagonists more if given the choice, mostly out of my admiration for strong female heroes that can be interesting and likable without getting their breasts out. I have no patience for the "rough, bad-ass" under-charismatic male leads that litter so many mainstream titles. It's one-dimensional rubbish for the chauvinist pig demographic who, themselves, imagine they are some kind of faux-macho action hero with a magnetic attraction to danger and skinny blond women outfitted with medicine balls for breasts.
In Mass Effect, I did play as the female Shepard and did pursue the romance dialog with the male NPC (his name escapes me). I saw no problem in doing so, after all, their intent was for a smooth cinematic presentation, right? It was well-written if anything though I couldn't shake the niggling fact that the male NPC's voice actor was the guy who did Carth and female Shepard's actress also did Bastilla, both from Star Wars: KOTOR; I kept waiting for a 2 hour dialog of Wookie growling.
In my second play-through I was the female Shepard again and chose the dialog path with the Asari instead, and honestly, their "love" scene was just creepy as hell with all the psychedelic effects and her coal black eyes. By the end, having the realization that I just made Shepard a Lesbian didn't really bother me at all. It becomes a footnote when compared to the rest of the main plot and her role in the story, besides the fact that neither your nor Llara's dialog for expressing your feelings for each other aren't very well written or characterized.
The problem with Mass Effect is that you cannot have a male/male relationship, but you can have a female/female one. It demonstrates that as far as this stuff is concerned, the mass media is far more comfortable with lesbians than it is with gays - especially when that lesbian relationship culminates in a sex scene that can be validated by the male gaze.
Honestly, I think that is a unfair for any homosexual male players who were unable to pursue a romance arc to their tastes. I thought everyone within the 20-40 age group that works in the game industry were mature adults, I guess I was wrong. I'd have no problem if it were included, this is all optional side-quest material anyway. And even though it's optional, it should still be fair to everyone's preferences.