How did you get that M-rated game?

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AetherWolf

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1. Convinced my mom into thinking it wasn't THAT violent/sexual/disturbing by explaining the game and showing the game's cover to her, helped by the fact that she didn't understand video game ratings at all. As long as the cover wasn't covered in guns or naked women, I'd get away with it. She knew I was a tough kid anyway, I wasn't disturbed that easily. By the time I was around 13 she stopped caring about what I was exposed to in video games altogether.

2. Well, depended on whether the game was actually good or not. It didn't affect me. I was allowed to play a Leisure Suit Larry game when I was barely 4 years old and that was probably my first exposure to sex and nudity, but I didn't actually understand it then.

3. I'd probably hold off on letting them play M-rated games until they're maybe 12 or 13, but it would also depend on the individual games and whether I think its content is something I'm okay exposing them to. And, well... if they really wanted to play an M rated game before that age I'd let them indulge in their curiosity anyway. Why the hell not.
 

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The_Lost_King said:
1. I never really got to play m-rated games. My dad was a gamer, so my parents new that I shouldn't be playing that. Once my babysitter let me play GTA though.

2. not really

3. I won't let them play m-rated games until they are around 8-10 years old. I don't want to let them play too young, but I think 18+ is rediculous. I understand when it's something like the witcher 2 where there is sex, but making it rated M just because there is blood is soooo stupid.
Care to explain your belief in this regard? Why is simulation of murder acceptable in a game but a simulation of the naked human body is not?
 

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1) Insofar as I recall, my first M-Rated was Ultima 7. Which my mom just gave to me as a birthday present. I doubt she even looked at the package or noticed. I'd played the first six anyway, though they didn't have the sexual elements that showed up in the 7th.
2) The elements in Black Gate really just kind of went overhead. I kind of got what was going in Serpent Isle when it was much more of a storyline point, but still didn't pay much attention to the pixel nudity really.
3) There's probably degrees to it. There's a step between violence or sexual themes as a storytelling component, and straight up glorifying it. Satirical games are probably the iffy middle ground, where the child wouldn't necessarily grasp a GTA5 as a parody of things.
 

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First M game (or "big but sometimes small 18" game as it is over here with our pegi stuff) was GTA: San Andreas. It was my brother who got it. I think he was 14 or something at the time, so he had some discussing to go through with my mum and dad, who okayed it without much trouble since he never showed any homicidal tendencies...

Of course, I ended up playing it, too. Great game. Never did much story stuff, just messed about with cheats and sandboxed it up. My little brother started playing M games even younger because he was exposed to the stuff a lot earlier, having two older brothers, 6 and 10 years above him. And of course, we wanted him to be part of the fun. We started him out on the 15 rated Oblivion, and held off a bit before ascending him to Fallout 3. And he's thoroughly a better kid than I ever was, so, I suppose my family experience supports the thought that violent video games's effect depends on who gets the hold of them. We're all a mellow sort. Not very impulsive.

If I were a parent, I'd hold off on them until the beginning of teen years. At that age, It's awful to be kept from joining in on the fun your friends are having...I'm soft, just like my own dad.
 

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PoolCleaningRobot said:
I can't fully remember my first M rated game actually. I remember convincing my mom to let me get Super Smash Bros Melee when I was 10 even though the game was rated "T". I think my first M rated game was Twin Snakes for the Gamecube. I had a friend with all the cool M rated games and I loved watching him play the Metal Gear franchise. He got it for me on my birthday so I circumvented my parents but I doubt they would have cared if they knew

Therumancer said:
The problem is that the ratings system isn't used properly. Simply put it's become easier for a company to simply slap an "M" rating on a game that at best deserves a "T" rating to avoid having to fight for it's release. When a company wants to release a "T" rated game they often try to sanitize if of everything remotely offensive and produces something like an "E" rating.
I'm under the impression that you're comparing ESRB to the rating system for movies and I see what you're getting at, a game like Halo is rated M even though it contains the same amount of content as a pg13 movie. The thing is, within the last few decades, movies for older audiences have been increasingly marketed to younger audiences. The kind of content shown in pg13 movies now is becoming more like the content that would have been shown in R rated movies years ago. ESRB is using the system correctly, its Hollywood that's misusing the rating system for movies.

Personally I like this. It means have M rated games that can snippets of mature content without going balls to the walls with it. I don't care if a kid can't play Mass Effect because it has a side boob in it. I'd rather it be that than a space fucking simulator with Dead Space levels of gore

The result is that this leads a lot of parents buying games for their kids to not respect the ratings, since they don't expect anything really bad to be in an "M" rated title. Thus when a game that really deserves that rating comes along they get upset. The same can to a lesser extent be applied to "T" rated titles which people tend to look at a lot less
I don't see how that's the rating's fault. It says in a quick blurb on the back of box exactly what content is in the game. You can look at the back of a Halo game and see that it contains blood and violence and know there won't be any sexual themes or drug references then see that GTA 5 does contain that. Why defend people who are too lazy to get educated?
Well in regards to the last point a big part of it is that the warnings are vague. "Blood and Violence" and "Sexual Themes" might include anything from some innuendo and side boob with cop shot gun fights, to something where you might graphically watch a dude get sodomized with a chainsaw while a bunch of hillbillies can be seen jacking off to it in the backround. In both cases the description was honest enough, it just didn't do it justice. Even throwing "intense"
in there doesn't help, because again what's "intense" is very subjective, that might be a "John Woo" like shot of a bullet from a sniper rifle hitting a guy in slow motion and showing part of the results before speeding up again, or again chainsaw rape.

As far as the ratings systems go, I think you have it backwards actually. The thing is that Hollywood tends to be more aggressive in terms of proper ratings, and is more willing to fight. Thus you see PG movies that actually take the PG rating to the limits that are allowed (which are higher than most people accept) as opposed to keeping it moderate, or simply accepting an "R" rating when the MPAA decides to try and give it one. In comparison, the gaming industry backs down and tends to take the easy path far more often than the movie industry does (though it does happen), you rarely hear about a video gaming company brawling with the ESRB the way you've heard some of the stories about movie
producers getting into it with the MPAA, and that is half the problem.

How far the ratings are pushed within their technical limits depends on current trends. When horror is popular for example you tend to see more people releasing stuff as PG that is on the high end of the spectrum, coming just short of an "R" rating on technical merits. In the UK for example there was a big crusade with their equivalent ratings system where movies in the 1980s were getting banned left and right and stuck on a "video nasties" list (though this was later repealed) in part because it shocked a lot of people... and this was actually a time period when a lot of horror movies (many current classics) were being made, much like how now your seeing some people complaining about "PG" rated movies (or ones potentially rated as such) because Hollywood now cares about the technical arguments and getting horror movies out to the new generation of fans that are demanding them.

At the end of the day people need to get more used to labeling games properly and get people used to how far a "T" rated game can actually go instead of just slapping an "M" label on everything so it becomes unusually shocking when a game that deserves the rating comes along. The descriptions on the back of video games should also be made more clear somehow, OR those selling video games should be required to post how far a specific rating can go near the area where they are sold.

For example, one of the big standards with movie ratings (which also applies to "M" rated games) is that you can pretty much do anything you want as far as violence and general nastiness in an "R" rated movie as long as you do not show actual sexual penetration. This means that you can show people being flayed alive, or two people having intense simulated sex that looks far better than the real thing could ever be, and it will never become "X" since the "X" rating has that very specific requirement (and "X" rated movies can as a result be a lot tamer than "R" rated ones oddly enough, the major appeal being that you "know" the sex is real). When you go from "PG" to "R" is touchier but as a general rule it needs to feature unusually intense content, which doesn't include people being stabbed, shot, making out, or even showing breasts, even when there is blood. Basically you need to be going into unusual territory to really hit "R" things like elaborate, sadistic, gore effects and the like... for example someone being sodomized by a chainsaw is "R" rated material, someone having their throat cut (even if there is blood) is not.
 

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The M rating wasn't invented until I was about... 14ish. I had a beard by then so nobody questioned it, nor did anyone understand the ratings at that time. I think the first M Rated game I played was Mortal Kombat II or possibly Wolfeinstien 3D. W3D made me super motion sick.

My wife and several of my friends are teachers. It's amazingly common for parents to allow children to play M+ rated games yet not let them watch say... 'the simpsons'
 

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You know, I don't know when I played my first M Game. I remember my parents were a little frustrating with T games when I was little, but never too much so. I really wonder what my first M game was.

Anyway I'd seen R movies WAY before playing an M game. My parents knew I could handle it.
 

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Only M-rated game I got before I was old enough to get them was Diablo 2. And I got that by asking my mom if I could get it, and explained to her that I doubted that some silly, over the top blood spatters were going to scar me for life. She was fine with it.
 

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1) My first M-Rated was Resident Evil 4, fallowed by God of War. I was about 14 years old. My Dad got me for me after I convinced him

2) No, not at all. I heard a lot of people said it was scary, but it was more shocking than scary.

3) I wouldn't mind if they played M-Rated games; hell I helped my Neighbor's 7 year old get Far Cry 3 over 50 cent.
 

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1. By asking.
2. Well, I had a somewhat callous sense of humor growing up, but whether that can be attributed to the games I played is tangential to this topic.
3. I will find reviews and/or previews of the game to determine if it's appropriate.

Hell, I grew up playing Doom and Warcraft 2, which were very violent games for a 4-year-old. My parents were mostly concerned with how the games handled drug use and sex/nudity, if at all. It was a good while before I was allowed to own GTA.
 

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I've been playing Mature rated games since I was 7 (started with Mortal Kombat, Carmageddon etc.) My parents just made sure that I knew the difference between the fantasy and reality and that violence is not an acceptable answer to most problems in life. I'm well adjusted and so are my brothers.

In most cases it's not the games themselves that are the problem, it's the fact that most parents are ill educated about video games and what is suitable for kids of a certain age group, granted children under 12 shouldn't be playing games like GTAV, the 2011 Mortal Kombat or Manhunt, but it's up to the parents to monitor what their children play and make decisions based on your child as to what games they should play.
 

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Oh boy, Doom 3.

My mom was clever, she checked the content before buying it for me, but I guess she figured that violence and gore weren't too bad for me, and she was right. She and I already watched tons of horror.
 

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MorganL4 said:
The_Lost_King said:
1. I never really got to play m-rated games. My dad was a gamer, so my parents new that I shouldn't be playing that. Once my babysitter let me play GTA though.

2. not really

3. I won't let them play m-rated games until they are around 8-10 years old. I don't want to let them play too young, but I think 18+ is rediculous. I understand when it's something like the witcher 2 where there is sex, but making it rated M just because there is blood is soooo stupid.
Care to explain your belief in this regard? Why is simulation of murder acceptable in a game but a simulation of the naked human body is not?
Wow, I couldn't even tell you why. It's just something that is drilled into our brains by society, "Little kids shouldn't see boobies!". I do wonder why that is...

as to the simulated murder being fine, well hey, it's better than real murder and I really don't think simulated murder is an issue. I can play a mass murderer in a game, doesn't make me want to become a mass murderer, and I would bet I've had at least 1 or 2 fantasies in my brain where I am a mass murderer, does that mean I am one? No(as far as you know). Just because I think it is cool to do something in a videogame doesn't mean I would like to do it in real life. There is no way in hell I'd become an adventurer, do you know the odds of dying are! fuck that shit. That doesn't mean I don't love to play games where I'm an adventurer. What you fantasize about doing and what you actually want to do can be two completely different things, not saying they are all different, just that they can be different.
 

Mikejames

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I think RE4 was the first M-rated game I can remember officially buying.

My older sister picked it up for me, and I treated that crap like a smuggling operation.
 

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1. First "M" Rated game would be Halo 2. My parents wouldn't allow me to play any sort of "M" rated game at all ("T" rating's were all right). Of course my Uncle didn't care about that and just got me the game for my birthday; probably because he saw whatever the most popular thing at the time for the Xbox since I had one. My Dad had to test it out if it was too violent for me(really, Halo isn't that violent compared to other games). Luckily, he let me play it.

2.N/A

3.Probably do the same as my parents and let them play anything up to a "T" rating. "M" ratings are off-limits until I think they are ready.
 

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1.Well, i played Halo since i was seven and played GTA: san andreas when i was nine. When ig ot those games, i didn't knew what they were and actually i didn't care. Halo learned me too play games, and in GTA I gnored the missions. For me, it was kinda like the sims: i bought houses, drove to shop, went to the gym etc. My parents didn't really knew what they bought really.

2. I only played singleplayer (and still mostly do) And I don't really believe that those games had a nagative influence. I was even sad for the marines in halo, because none of them survived...
I do believe that children can get agressive if you let them play multiplayer when they are small. It seems it fuels them with rage, from what i saw.

3. Solution: Well i Think i would buy my children SOME more grown-up games (within reason ofcourse, GTA was not okay...) and would have no problem in buying them an action game wich involves combat. There is nothing wrong in buying a game in which they save the universe or whatever, they do that when they play with friends anyway. It's not like they don't understand violence.
But i wouldn't let them play those games (like Halo,COD,...) online until they are old enough. Why? because in SP you have a goal to achieve, and it is about reaching that goal. But in MP it purely resolves about killing. It teaches you only that you have to be better than your fellow man. Just my two cents though.
 

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My parents never gave a shit what we played. They hardly ever even used our computer, so they had no idea what we played on it back in the day (I'm pretty sure they thought all games were Pong and Mario).

And now, well, I'm 31 so I buy whatever the hell I want ;p It still wigs me out to hear little kids playing M-rated games, but I know I was at that age, so what can I say?
 

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I think the first game I played that would have deserved an age rating, was before ratings became a thing. I'd confirm or deny this, but I can't find the box anywhere. I remember playing Crusader: No Remorse on my dad's new 486 and having a blast. For context, it had some pretty visceral things for the time: Bodies would bleed out, people were set on fire and there was an infamous teleporter that disintegrated you into a gooey mess if you used it.

So, to answer:

1. It was in my dad's library.
2. None whatsoever. I thought it was the coolest thing since Power Rangers.
3. Pretty big if, but if I did, then I would probably allow my kids to play the same kinds of games I was playing at whatever age they would be at the time. I might even be slightly laxer in that regard, since it was my mother that was always the one blocking me from playing certain games. My dad was far cooler about the whole thing. Hell, we used to play Mortal Kombat 4 when I was...12? 11?

Ah, good times.
 

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I got Resident Evil 1 and then Resident Evil 2 on Playstation when i was in elementary school. the only impressions it left was that I like horror games and this along with watching films like Friday the 13th, Nightmare on Elmstreet and Halloween while in elementary school has unfortunately desensitized me a bit to most horror movies and games.. If i was a parent i'm not sure if I would have let my son or daughter play those games or not... it would depend on if they were mature enough I guess