RootbeerJello said:
My dad's always been skeptical about me playing any games with guns in them, and I've always tried to let it go and not get pissed, but today we had a conversation that made me realize I had to do something. I started up Urban Terror, a Quake 3 Arena mod with blood turned off. The conversation went like this:
WARNING: Big wall-o-text
Dad: Is that the gun game?
Me: Yes dad, this is the "gun game"
Dad: -in a normal, perfectly conversational tone- I hate that game. It's evil.
Me: What?
Dad: It's a game about killing people. It'll make you want to kill people.
Me: No it won't. I'm not that easily influenced.
Dad: It's not about how easily influenced you are. That game will make you evil.
Me: No it won't.
Dad: Yes it will. Games like that make you violent.
Me: I'm not violent!
Dad: Yes you are. You're using a violent tone right now.
Me: so I can't play it anymore?
Dad: You'll stop eventually.
Me: What does that mean?
Dad: Someday you'll understand and stop playing that game. -leaves-
So have any of you Escapists had a similar experience? And what can I do to change my Dad's mind about video games?
here's the simple way of doing it
ask him if there was violent video games during the Roman period cause they liked to chop people up with swords and had the gladiator games
then ask him if they had them during the Crusades and medieval period cause they were a pretty violent group of people and time as well
then ask him if they had them during the American Revolution because they liked to shoot people then
then ask him if they had them during the Civil War in America because they encouraged people to shoot people from the North or South and them some <insert racial slur for non-white people here>
then ask him about WW1 and WW2 if they had them during those wars because they sure encouraged people to shoot Germans or Japanese during those wars
after he says no to each and every single one of them, which he has to, you will say how did video games contribute to violence that has been around for millennial
also you can ask him if watching westerns on tv and war movies and such made him any more violent as a child because during the 50 and 60s those movies and tv shows were the target of parents who said it would make their kids more violent.
just a word of warning that you might piss him off with that approach because you'll make him look like a total idiot and show that you are a bit smarter than him