You've never met my mom. She hates it when we say kill instead of KO in fighting games. I honestly don't understand it. She never played video games as a kid, so that may contribute to her thought of it's influence.feather240 said:HL2 Never appeared that violent to me. Maybe the Ravenholm part was scary, but that's it.TheYellowCellPhone said:My mom is very anti-violent games. She hates any game that recieves an M rating. I was playing Half-Life 2 and she walked in to see me give a Combine soldier a face full of buckshot and that was it. My dad is very easy going, but told me my mom complained to him about it, and now I can't play them when my mom is around and I can't buy M rated games. It sucks, now the only games I can play are Flash games, and to think I could be playing Borderlands or Fallout 3.
Common ground, and work your way up from there.RootbeerJello said:-Snip-
I personally knowing your dad can say that he is indeed unreasonable and as you have said yourself "a dumbfuck". There is like a 0.008% chance of convincing this guy of anything, indeed that's under 9 thousandths!RootbeerJello said:My dad's always been skeptical about me playing any games with guns in them, and I've always tried to let it go and not get pissed, but today we had a conversation that made me realize I had to do something. I started up Urban Terror, a Quake 3 Arena mod with blood turned off. The conversation went like this:
WARNING: Big wall-o-text
Dad: Is that the gun game?
Me: Yes dad, this is the "gun game"
Dad: -in a normal, perfectly conversational tone- I hate that game. It's evil.
Me: What?
Dad: It's a game about killing people. It'll make you want to kill people.
Me: No it won't. I'm not that easily influenced.
Dad: It's not about how easily influenced you are. That game will make you evil.
Me: No it won't.
Dad: Yes it will. Games like that make you violent.
Me: I'm not violent!
Dad: Yes you are. You're using a violent tone right now.
Me: so I can't play it anymore?
Dad: You'll stop eventually.
Me: What does that mean?
Dad: Someday you'll understand and stop playing that game. -leaves-
So have any of you Escapists had a similar experience? And what can I do to change my Dad's mind about video games?
You, my friend, have won several interwebs.thiosk said:Play animal crossing and wear girl pants.
He'll start begging you to shoot things in no time.
Make him a bet. Tell him you'll give him a billion dollars when any professional (psychiatrist or someone like that) can say that you are undoubtedly evil and that this was undoubtedly caused by video games.RootbeerJello said:My dad's always been skeptical about me playing any games with guns in them, and I've always tried to let it go and not get pissed, but today we had a conversation that made me realize I had to do something. I started up Urban Terror, a Quake 3 Arena mod with blood turned off. The conversation went like this:
So have any of you Escapists had a similar experience? And what can I do to change my Dad's mind about video games?
I had a partner who was kind of like this. Needless to say we're not together anymore.RootbeerJello said:So have any of you Escapists had a similar experience? And what can I do to change my Dad's mind about video games?
This times a thousand. If your dad still acts like a tool when you try to reason with him with these books and studies, well, you'll just have to accept that your dad is an idiot and go back to enjoying your games. Turn the gore to maximum if possible just to annoy him further.LimaBravo said:Buy him a copy of 'Grand Theft Childhood: The Surprising Truth about Violent Video Games and What Parents Can Do' by Lawrence Kutner and Cheryl K. Olson and I highly recommend 'Killing Monsters: Our Children's Need for Fantasy, Heroism and Make-believe Violence' by Gerard Jones.RootbeerJello said:My dad's always been skeptical about me playing any games with guns in them, and I've always tried to let it go and not get pissed, but today we had a conversation that made me realize I had to do something /snip. And what can I do to change my Dad's mind about video games?
Fantastic reads & very informative & critically unbiased.
Oh yeah & the ESA report about the Average gamers should help as well what with the average gamer being 35, working & a voter.