How do you deal with your partner's exs?
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My girlfriend only has one ex, and he's a scrawny little turd. He doesn't mouth off to my face, and she always reminds him that I'm 6 inches and 40 lbs bigger than him when he starts irritating her.
She also says thing to me like "You're so much sweeter than him" and "You last so much longer in bed", so I end up feeling good whether or not it's the truth.
She also says thing to me like "You're so much sweeter than him" and "You last so much longer in bed", so I end up feeling good whether or not it's the truth.
I'm 99.9% certain that I was the first boyfriend my first girlfriend had. I wouldn't know for sure though. We didn't really talk about it.
As for my second girlfriend, she didn't have a boyfriend in high school until senior year (i.e. me). I don't know about anything prior to freshman year though.
*For the record, I'm currently single, so the question doesn't really apply to me, does it?
As for my second girlfriend, she didn't have a boyfriend in high school until senior year (i.e. me). I don't know about anything prior to freshman year though.
*For the record, I'm currently single, so the question doesn't really apply to me, does it?
If you are asking what you should do if the guy in question makes a move or acts rudely, the answer is simple. Tell him to fuck off, and if he doesn't, beat his ass.
If you're asking how to handle a girlfriend who spends lots of time with her ex, the answer is still simple, dump that ho. There is no just friends, one day they'll fool around, that's how things work.
If you're asking how to handle a girlfriend who spends lots of time with her ex, the answer is still simple, dump that ho. There is no just friends, one day they'll fool around, that's how things work.
I'd forget about them, and only remember them whenever I meet them or they're brought up. It's trivial information, unless they did something bad to my significant other.
My wife's first and only ex-boyfriend is actually a pretty nice guy. He knows he blew his chance with her and we actually get along pretty well. There are times when he regrets things and wishes he'd wound up marrying her himself, but we have come to terms with that like adults and it doesn't affect my relationship with my wife in any way.
In part, I think he behaves himself because he's afraid of what I'd do to him if he tried anything. I haven't bothered to try and reassure him I mean him no ill will.
In part, I think he behaves himself because he's afraid of what I'd do to him if he tried anything. I haven't bothered to try and reassure him I mean him no ill will.
Well, coming from a guy who is actually planning on sleeping with a girl who currently has a boyfriend (who she doesn't think will last long as he keeps ditching her, and yes, she's planning on sleeping with me too) take my advice.
Ask her if you're better, then hold up a piece of paper telling her to just nod and smile.
Works every time.
Ask her if you're better, then hold up a piece of paper telling her to just nod and smile.
Works every time.
Welp, if they're the kinda guy/girl that likes undermining our relationship, I'll talk to her, and be like "hey, this person obviously is trying to undermine our relationship, you need to regulate that shit" Where as, if it's a semi decent guy/gal I try making friends with them, 'cause a lot of girls know guys get insecure about that, and showing that you're willing to build bridges with the guy/gal she was with before makes you look mature, and making that person like you helps to cut down on the aforementioned undermining.
TL;DR, Talk to you girl/guy, it'll solve 99.9% of all your relationship problems.
TL;DR, Talk to you girl/guy, it'll solve 99.9% of all your relationship problems.
well honestly its especially tricky as she has been with them "hey-ho" style and not with me since she has become a commited christian (same as me) since then. So yeah basically, I just tried to be as understanding to her about it as possible, I mean it's still upsetting for alot of women knowing that they have shared themselves with other people, so I just try and be supportive to her more than anything 
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(I mean I would looove to go to town on the several jackass' who keep contacting her since then but I let her decide what she wants to do with those situations and what ever happens just plain does. So far it's working pretty well, a year and a bit on and it's smoothe sailing despite hounding ex's even without the occasional "joy-ride")
If you need anymore evidence of my chosen virginity see other interesting symbolic metaphors for sex in other posts.
...Pogo sticking.
.(I mean I would looove to go to town on the several jackass' who keep contacting her since then but I let her decide what she wants to do with those situations and what ever happens just plain does. So far it's working pretty well, a year and a bit on and it's smoothe sailing despite hounding ex's even without the occasional "joy-ride")
If you need anymore evidence of my chosen virginity see other interesting symbolic metaphors for sex in other posts.
...Pogo sticking.
I'd wanna meet them if allowed, otherwise I wouldn't have to deal with it. Why bother myself on her past relationships? She is with me now, time to focus on that.