So I'll post from my perspective, and more saying what I prefer in a man. Since I am with the irritating stereotype of the 'hot chick' I prefer someone who is willing to keep up both their physical and mental/emotional fitness. I'm rather tall 5'11" to be exact and for me I try to gravitate to dating taller guys that way I'm not towering over them if we go out and I'm in heels. I love either dark eyes, or blue eyes it's more of the passion within them that shows through their eyes and makes my knees weak. I find confidence such a turn on, not arrogance, confidence comes with a smile, knowing their strengths and weakness, and kindness. Also, I tend to date (like currently am!) military boys, fly boys or jarheads tend to fit into my category.
In general too there is nothing because I'm defending some of the girls that are like me and stuck with the title 'hot chick', there is nothing wrong with being proud of looks of physique. Shit, sure there is another thing when that is all you gab about, but like me when you are at the gym, working full-time and slaving to become a better person inside and out give us some credit. Being fit and with DD's isn't easy, and it comes with a price when people glance your way the ridicule isn't easy to go with on some days. The glares and assumptions just cause headaches, guess to it's all in the gal that you're talking to in the end.