dimensional said:
The only games I will play against strangers are those that require no cooperation such as deathmatch on fps (which I rarely play) and numerous beat em ups but again I prefer these with friends its just so much more fun for me.
That's usually how I feel too, unless I get lucky and find a really great server with awesome people, like the TF2 one I hung out on for the better part of a year. If I hadn't found them within the first few days of getting the game way back whenever, I probably wouldn't've kept playing it for more than a week.
Random strangers in games are pretty much the bane of my existence if I'm expected to actually interact with them at all in any way beyond putting everyone on mute and just playing the game, which mostly only works for competitive games, and even then only for non-team-based ones. I really do like co-op games a lot, but I almost exclusively stick to playing them with my friends (and rarely people I meet on forums for the games, if I get a sense that we'd get along and are reasonably well matched), because I'm just so tired of the endless number of people out there who just ruin my day, intentionally or not. Some of them are on purpose, griefing or trolling, and some of them are well-intentioned but accidental, just because of poorly matched skill levels and personalities between us, but I'd rather just go do something else and wait for someone I know to show up than take my chances based on the number of failures I've had. It's not like I don't have more than enough things to catch up on from the last Steam sale in the meantime, or plenty of non-game things to do while waiting. Heh.