I don't care too much about how I look because I'm married, and even though people fake this all the time, I really don't care what a woman looks like, and my wife is the same way. Everyone gets old N ugly sometime, so I don't care that you married that airhead that has a double D, because she's fugly now.
Then again, when I head to meetings and such, I try to be as presentable as I can. But once again, once you find someone that loves you no matter what, it stops becoming important.
That's not to say she's ugly. She's a knockout. But, it's a plus, not a requirement.