I'm extremely open. Mostly because I kind of need to get my kinks and preferences in the open so no one is surprised later.
How open are you with sexuality?
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On a scale of zero to The Culture [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Culture] I'm right up there at the top.
I don't even really find sex that interesting or fun, it's just cool to be able to talk about it with other people. Especially so if they feel uncomfortable.
I don't even really find sex that interesting or fun, it's just cool to be able to talk about it with other people. Especially so if they feel uncomfortable.
I'm open but discrete. Meaning I don't scream it from the roomtops, but if you ask me a direct question, I'll answer it.
It depends; if I'm tired, I probably will, because it's hard to keep up the personality of what I was a few months ago. But normally, I'm very reserved; it's a romantic, private thing for me, and the most I ever really talk about on the topic is sex jokes. I never say people on TV are attractive (unless I'm tired/drunk) and sex just doesn't really interest me.
Too bad I'm an apathetic asshole when I get tired.
Too bad I'm an apathetic asshole when I get tired.
If it's the topic of conversation and someone straight up asks me, I'll be honest. Probably because I have nothing on the subject to speak of. But I don't like to discuss sex and sexuality with people. I'm a bit of a prude on things like that.
I am completely open to it.
Just think, before the rise of certain religions, in MOST civilizations homosexuality was as common as heterosexuality. Only thing is, they didn't even distinguish between the two. It was completely normal to experience a pleasurable ritual of love with the person whom your heart belonged to. If you where gay, so what? Do what you do best, if you're straight cool, babies! And if you were Bisexual, then even fucking better!
Homosexuality was as widespread as wide spreadington, but as soon as Christianity hit the scene in Europe, all evidence of Homosexuality and bisexuality (in Europe) suddenly went incognito. Because it just wasn't allowed...
Same story with the middle east and their various Persian empires, it's a bit pre-historic and stuff but there is plenty of evidence homosexuality was a common practice, but as soon as Islam came along, and empires operated under it's rule, it suddenly took a dive. Although not to the same extent as Christianity. I dunno, are Muslims more lenient toward homosexuals?
Is it just coincidental? Did homosexuality go out of fashion immediately, as the religions of peace and love became popular? I'mma call bullshit on that.
I think this entire stigma, disbelief and hatred toward homosexuality is religions fault. Prove me wrong. It is 100% perfectly natural to be homosexual if you are one. And it's incredibly stupid to deny that there will ever be a homosexual in your race, locale, friendship group etc, it's just GOING to happen. most species that aren't even human have members that are homosexual. In fact, there seems to be a correlation between how intelligent that animal is, and a higher homosexuality count. Dolphins are known to have a high count of homosexuals, same with lots of primates.
Now don't get all worried about how nobody is going to be straight in the future, it's just not like that. The gay population has always (as far as I know) Been under 10% of the population. In Britain where I live, the gay population is hovering at around 5%, if the survey is to be believed, so it may be higher.
Also, i'm straight. For arguments sake.
Homosexuality isn't bad, disgusting or destroying your fucking family values. People are different, and if you can't accept that, you may as well hang yourself.
Just think, before the rise of certain religions, in MOST civilizations homosexuality was as common as heterosexuality. Only thing is, they didn't even distinguish between the two. It was completely normal to experience a pleasurable ritual of love with the person whom your heart belonged to. If you where gay, so what? Do what you do best, if you're straight cool, babies! And if you were Bisexual, then even fucking better!
Homosexuality was as widespread as wide spreadington, but as soon as Christianity hit the scene in Europe, all evidence of Homosexuality and bisexuality (in Europe) suddenly went incognito. Because it just wasn't allowed...
Same story with the middle east and their various Persian empires, it's a bit pre-historic and stuff but there is plenty of evidence homosexuality was a common practice, but as soon as Islam came along, and empires operated under it's rule, it suddenly took a dive. Although not to the same extent as Christianity. I dunno, are Muslims more lenient toward homosexuals?
Is it just coincidental? Did homosexuality go out of fashion immediately, as the religions of peace and love became popular? I'mma call bullshit on that.
I think this entire stigma, disbelief and hatred toward homosexuality is religions fault. Prove me wrong. It is 100% perfectly natural to be homosexual if you are one. And it's incredibly stupid to deny that there will ever be a homosexual in your race, locale, friendship group etc, it's just GOING to happen. most species that aren't even human have members that are homosexual. In fact, there seems to be a correlation between how intelligent that animal is, and a higher homosexuality count. Dolphins are known to have a high count of homosexuals, same with lots of primates.
Now don't get all worried about how nobody is going to be straight in the future, it's just not like that. The gay population has always (as far as I know) Been under 10% of the population. In Britain where I live, the gay population is hovering at around 5%, if the survey is to be believed, so it may be higher.
Also, i'm straight. For arguments sake.
Homosexuality isn't bad, disgusting or destroying your fucking family values. People are different, and if you can't accept that, you may as well hang yourself.
Not very. There's not much material for me to go through. Normally I normally respond with grunts.
I'm an open book. I don't shy away from the subject and answer when asked about it. However, I'm rarely the one who initiate a conversation about it. Unless asked about it or someone brings the subject into focus, then I don't talk about it.
One thing I do NOT do, is to talk about or name people I have had sex with. I'll tell about what I think about sex and/or other sexual and erotic relevant subjects. The persons my sexual activities are shared with are between me and the partners, because I don't kiss and tell.
It takes a lot to embarress me I guess, as well as me being part British and therefore somewhat direct about things. I speak my mind and don't give a damn if you like it or not. Don't ask a question if you can't handle the answer.
Robin
One thing I do NOT do, is to talk about or name people I have had sex with. I'll tell about what I think about sex and/or other sexual and erotic relevant subjects. The persons my sexual activities are shared with are between me and the partners, because I don't kiss and tell.
It takes a lot to embarress me I guess, as well as me being part British and therefore somewhat direct about things. I speak my mind and don't give a damn if you like it or not. Don't ask a question if you can't handle the answer.
Robin
I'm my self am virgin by choice but It doesn't bother me at all to talk about sex. As long a it doesn't get to the point of being illegal I'm fine. And due to my lack of "experience" I mostly just get told stories.
I don't really talk about it, partly because it's gross but mostly because it's boring. If someone else wants to talk about it I don't mind, just like I don't mind when my brother feels compelled to describe to me what his faeces looked like that day. That is, it doesn't disgust or horrify me to hear it being discussed, but I personally don't see the appeal.
I'm open with my partner to an incredible degree (and won't hide behind a passive-aggressive front if things are not working for me), I don't tend to discuss anything sexual with /anyone/. I will listen to stories (only if there is some point to it) but the whole discussion just makes me feel awkward and I just blush a lot.
I'm not a prude - I just don't like to know how you specifically enjoy aspects of sex (I've got a vivid imagination :/). General details (I had sex with so-and-so), fine. Important details (or issues you have) that you need to discuss, also fine. Gratuitous details for no other purpose than reliving an encounter, I don't want to hear it.
I'm not a prude - I just don't like to know how you specifically enjoy aspects of sex (I've got a vivid imagination :/). General details (I had sex with so-and-so), fine. Important details (or issues you have) that you need to discuss, also fine. Gratuitous details for no other purpose than reliving an encounter, I don't want to hear it.
