My current girlfriend is just using me. I buy most of the things for her. I drive her around but i don't know how to just brake off from her cause she is just being a *****, by using me and playing with my emotions. How should i tell her off?
How to break away from my girlfriend
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I know what your going through, the best way to end it is to just be honest. If she is going to ***** just walk away, you don't have to take that kind of crap. You your own person not her personal slave. I hope it works out well for you man.Ninja Tank said:
the usual, it isn't working out might do the trick.
But maybe you should do a little abusing back, or maybe even try to psyche her out.
I don't know, something that'll make you look back and say
"remember when I dumped that ***** by *insert whatever you did here*...good times, good times."
Or call her a fat, selfish pig, whose only concern is herself, where she wants to go, and whether or not her wallet has enough money to buy a new pair of shoes.
that might work too.
But maybe you should do a little abusing back, or maybe even try to psyche her out.
I don't know, something that'll make you look back and say
"remember when I dumped that ***** by *insert whatever you did here*...good times, good times."
Or call her a fat, selfish pig, whose only concern is herself, where she wants to go, and whether or not her wallet has enough money to buy a new pair of shoes.
that might work too.
"Hey, listen, it's not working out between us, you see you're an annoying git who just spends my money and abuses me, so i'm gonna go find a girl who isnt a total *****, best of luck to you sweetheart"Ninja Tank said:
used it many times, always leaves you satisfied
Do what I do:
1. Wait it out and ignore EVERYTHING. EVVERRYYYTHINGG.
or
2. Cut all contacts with her and just ignore everything like option 1.
But seriously though, I'm not too sure what is the best advice to give since apparently I'm a shitty boyfriend and I never broke up with someone. Ever. Because I KNOW exactly what I'm getting into before I do anything with a relationship. I also never make a move on someone unless I'm ABSOLUTELY sure I really like this person, alot.
1. Wait it out and ignore EVERYTHING. EVVERRYYYTHINGG.
or
2. Cut all contacts with her and just ignore everything like option 1.
But seriously though, I'm not too sure what is the best advice to give since apparently I'm a shitty boyfriend and I never broke up with someone. Ever. Because I KNOW exactly what I'm getting into before I do anything with a relationship. I also never make a move on someone unless I'm ABSOLUTELY sure I really like this person, alot.
^This^ Like seriously we've had like 8 of these threads today.Glefistus said:
OT Three simple words. I AM GAY. That or simply tell her to fuck off and grow up.
Just out of curiosity, how old are you?
I doubt the girl thinks she is using you - girls actually don't do that as often as some people think. It's probably that the two of you simply aren't a good fit for each other. Girls are significantly more emotional than guys, so she is probably just a self-centered person, and it seems you aren't exactly chauvinistic yourself. What she needs is someone who is willing to treat her like a princess, and some guys are better at that than others. What you need is someone who will ask nothing of you. Personally, I always feel it's the guy's responsibility to want treat the girl well (and do it), and a girl's responsibility to not be demanding, and there seems here to be a lack of both.
I doubt the girl thinks she is using you - girls actually don't do that as often as some people think. It's probably that the two of you simply aren't a good fit for each other. Girls are significantly more emotional than guys, so she is probably just a self-centered person, and it seems you aren't exactly chauvinistic yourself. What she needs is someone who is willing to treat her like a princess, and some guys are better at that than others. What you need is someone who will ask nothing of you. Personally, I always feel it's the guy's responsibility to want treat the girl well (and do it), and a girl's responsibility to not be demanding, and there seems here to be a lack of both.
call her up one night and tell her "Hey babe, I'm gonna make the cut right quick" with luck her reaction will be "wait, what does that mean?" at which point you reply "Thanks for understanding, by!" *click*
the next day or so, if she asks if you want to do something later you say "We broke up remember? I made the cut right quick" and just walk away...
the next day or so, if she asks if you want to do something later you say "We broke up remember? I made the cut right quick" and just walk away...