How to break away from my girlfriend
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Seriously, the best thing to do is talk to her. Be honest and tell her how you feel. You're not going to get anywhere in this relationship or any other without the ability to be open and honest with someone, so try that first and see how it goes. Maybe she might change her ways. If she does initially then reverts, then think about breaking up with her. If she doesn't straight away, you wanted it to end anyway so you haven't lost anything.
Be honest with her. It's not that much harder than that.
Be honest with her. It's not that much harder than that.
I agree, its like i'm back on TSR where if they get anything below an A they go into a meltdown and the relationship and health gah don't get me started, i don't mind a few relationship threads but there is a mass of them atm.Glefistus said:
Anywho OP: just tell her exactly how you feel, i'll think she'll get the message with "i don't like you find someone else to be your taxi and bank"
More like Teenage Wasteland! Ha ha ha!Glefistus said:
OT: Say to her, "I'm sorry, but you are just using me. I buy most of the things for you. I drive you around but i don't know how to just break off from you because you are just being a *****, by using me and playing with my emotions. I'm leaving you."
My current girlfriend is just using me. I buy most of the things for her. I drive her around but i don't know how to just brake off from her cause she is just being a *****, by using me and playing with my emotions. How should i tell her off?
be honest, and brutal if you have to, after all it's your life, and you are sharing it with her, not the other way around. cheating on her isnt the solution tho, remember: would you ever trust a cheat? just tell her how you feel, and if she changes: good for you, if not: throw her purse outside, then lock her out, and call the cops saying she is trespassing, sure it sounds brutal, but it's funny as hell, one of my friends exes burned his house down, so it's never a bad idea to drop her if she's a psycho
The following are highly reccomended (not nessercarily in this order though):Ninja Tank said:
1- Threaten to commit suicide due to the sheer misery she's put you through.
2- Calmly explain your problems with her and ask her to tell you if she has any problems with you and what you can do about them (makes it a compromise which should help).
3- Start chatting to and flirting with other women (that'll get the message across), fight fire with fire so to speak.
4- And finally my least reccomended (this is really just a 'if all else fails' and partially a joke), suffer in silence and bottle your emotions up until the day comes when you snap and wound/kill the populace of a small suburb in the South-East.
Seriously though, the ideas I suggested for 2 and 3 are your best bets for attaining equilibrium in a relationship here without making matters worse (preferably 2).
dress up as a ninja and hide in her pairents wardrobe. when they go to get clothes, bang NINJA!
im sure that should work.
alternatively tell her youve lost your job, if she really is a gold diger she will more than probably leave you if not well.... heh problem solved (that is if you want to continue seing her)
Or the more simpler option, talk to her about this, not some random people on the internet who will get sidetracked by ninjas *smokebomb*
im sure that should work.
alternatively tell her youve lost your job, if she really is a gold diger she will more than probably leave you if not well.... heh problem solved (that is if you want to continue seing her)
Or the more simpler option, talk to her about this, not some random people on the internet who will get sidetracked by ninjas *smokebomb*
Agreed. Why would they trust us anyway? We're all manic, psychotic, social rejects. What are we supposed to do?Glefistus said:
And OP? In all fairness, just end it. Can't be hard.
I wonder why a load of people have given advice saying "if you stop buying her things, maybe she'll get fed up and break up with you".
For the love of God, don't do that. Not only will you be waiting for something that might never happen, but you're not giving either her or yourself any closure.
Grow some balls and sit her down, tell her you're unhappy and you want to call it a day. If she asks for justification, be frank with her and tell her that you shouldn't have to feel manipulated or like a bank for her own selfish needs.
At least then, you can walk away knowing that the matter is closed, that you were honest, and that you were at least a fucking man about rather than a whining little pussy who thinks the best way to break up with someone is to become so obnoxious that the other person feels they have little choice but to dump you first. There is no reason to walk away from a relationship in a manner that completely gives up any last shred of dignity you have.
Take this from a woman, and from someone who's sister-in-law is experiencing the above scenario off some weedy little prick at this exact moment in time.
For the love of God, don't do that. Not only will you be waiting for something that might never happen, but you're not giving either her or yourself any closure.
Grow some balls and sit her down, tell her you're unhappy and you want to call it a day. If she asks for justification, be frank with her and tell her that you shouldn't have to feel manipulated or like a bank for her own selfish needs.
At least then, you can walk away knowing that the matter is closed, that you were honest, and that you were at least a fucking man about rather than a whining little pussy who thinks the best way to break up with someone is to become so obnoxious that the other person feels they have little choice but to dump you first. There is no reason to walk away from a relationship in a manner that completely gives up any last shred of dignity you have.
Take this from a woman, and from someone who's sister-in-law is experiencing the above scenario off some weedy little prick at this exact moment in time.
Escapistmagazine hotline! How may I help you with your problem today? (Sorry, I had to make the bad taste joke).Glefistus said:
Well, OP...Just say "It's over".
Wouldn't it be easier to just carve "I think we should start seeing other people" in her car's windshield?Gene O said:
Or burning it in the lawn... But that's too weird. You shouldn't burn in her lawn anything except for your name. And that's only if you want her to go out with you, not go crazy.
Hmm, I'd suggest a wild and crazy idea
Talk to her, she might not even realise she's coming across like this, let her know you're feeling kinda taken advantage of, and if you still care for her, let her know , but let her know things need to change and you need to feel like she wants you for you, not for what you can do for her.
Talk to her, she might not even realise she's coming across like this, let her know you're feeling kinda taken advantage of, and if you still care for her, let her know , but let her know things need to change and you need to feel like she wants you for you, not for what you can do for her.
