How to get out of the "Friend Zone"?

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Amnestic

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PrivatePuFF said:
Okey, I will try to take it slow and show her some signals. And THANKS again :D
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That's a terrible plan. Go all out. Be a man, be assertive, lock lips on her birthday if you indeed are watching a film with just the two of you and stop being such a pussy.
 
Woodsey

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ZOMG!!1!

Enough with the relationship threads!

My answer to everyone one of these reads as such: Grow a pair of balls.

EDIT: Having said that, I read the bit about you 2 going to the cinema and it being just you 2. Now, make sure the film's OK so that you can watch it if nothing happens, but not so interesting she'd rather watch that then say... Wank you off.

Now, let this be the last of the relationship thread. Forever.
 
the_dancy_vagrant

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Ammadessi said:
Short answer, you don't.

Long answer: If she sees you as a friend it's not likely that she's going to see you as anything more, ever. Unless she gives you some more obvious signals, I wouldn't kiss her or make any other drastic moves or you're in danger of ruining your friendship all together.
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This.
 
JanatUrlich

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I don't get this whole "friend zone" thing. Do a lot of girls have it??? I literally have people that I'm attracted to and people that I'm not attracted to.

I just don't get it. The people that I wouldn't go out with, I wouldn't go out with because I don't want to have sex with them. Sometimes I think this "friend zone" thing is a totally made up concept
 
damselgaming

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Oh just kiss her for gods sake. It's either she will or she won't and you won't know until you try. If the kiss goes well get her into bed, rock her world and you're set.
 
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well, dont just up and kiss her, the guy who said wait for more signals is pretty much correct.

and if you want to risk it, after she does know how you feel and just wants to be friends, just try to completely remove yourself from her

she might just come running after
note: the above advice has a very very low success rate, and the other has seen it end poorly far far more often than it succeeds

and there are better ways to go about this
I just want to hear the story when you screw it up
sorry
 
zahr

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Don't be nice. Be an asshole. I hear women like that.

I can't say from experience since I've never approached a girl (or a guy). It's nice being an aspie; while people have described loneliness to me, I've never actually felt it.
 
Canid117

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You seem a bit young to me so I think you should take it slow and be careful. I would not suggest you make a move unless you are sure she is into you.

And just because I feel like being a dick I am going to point out that it isn't "learn you to write good poems" it's "teach you to write poems well."

And it seems odd to me that she said she thought you were good at writhing (twisting in pain) poems? Did you mean to say writing?

Sorry about the dickishness, I have a quota I must fill
 
skywalkerlion

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You don't. Sorry to be negative, but you are gonna have to find a new girl.

Unless you plan on becoming outrageously sexy and attempt to kiss her ever time you see her. Cause you can't get out of the friend zone non-aggresively.

If that makes sense.
 
Serge A. Storms

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Start doing a lot of drugs and see if she takes pity on you. I'm not sure if that'll work, but I've seen a lot of people try it, maybe there's something to it.
 
quiet_samurai

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Just make a move dude, she will either go with it or tell you no. And if she really is your friend she won't hold it against you. Remember sometimes girls tend to say things they don't mean, or they will vocalize the exact opposite of wht they want.... nobody can explain it.
 
DracoSuave

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Really. It's really simple.

'I am attracted to you. I would like to date you.'

If she says no, fuck it, move on with your life.
If she says yes, fuck it, move on with your life.

And after this, -never- become really close friends with someone you're attracted to like this. It only leads to confusion.
 
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