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Vegosiux

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feycreature said:
Please, more guys, do this! Please? Pretty please? Or some variant. But just walking up, openly saying you think she's cool and suggesting a joint activity? Even if it's just coffee or something. It is SO nice when that happens.
Without the "I don't want to seem creepy" comment. Comes across as insecure.
 

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Good lord people.
As you walk past the person, lock eyes with them.
Don't avert your gaze or turn your head.
If you do, you've gunked it up.
Attractive women are used to guys looking away. It takes a confident, strong man to keep the gaze.
She will pursue you after.
That's it.
Not kidding.
No "IM SORRY CREEPY LOLOL HI THERE WATS UR NAME". Isn't it annoying already when you get those people on campus with clipboards asking you for your signature, name and credit card number? Imagine some random girl blindsiding you like that.
It strikes a really awkward feeling.
I've gotten girls flustered this way countless times.
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Vegosiux said:
feycreature said:
Please, more guys, do this! Please? Pretty please? Or some variant. But just walking up, openly saying you think she's cool and suggesting a joint activity? Even if it's just coffee or something. It is SO nice when that happens.
Without the "I don't want to seem creepy" comment. Comes across as insecure.
Yeah, that reminds me of when people say "no offense, but..." before saying something offensive. It sets an uneasy tone.
 

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Focksbot said:
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Make sure you don't stare at them like you're thinking about wearing their skin though
Gaze-
to look steadily and intently, as with great curiosity, interest, pleasure, or wonder.

Glare-
a fiercely or angrily piercing stare.
 

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I usually look for a reason to talk to someone. Do you two smoke? Ask for a lighter.
Ask where this or that area of the Uni is.

Whatever you do, do not play games, hit on her or do things with an obvious purpose behind it.
If you're interested, you should just want to hang around with her.

The rest comes by itself if you manage to create a regular communication between you.
 

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There are a lot of icebreakers, but honestly how you act and how you say what you say is far more important than what you actually say. How you carry yourself is a factor as well.

Trust me, this is the kind of thing you only get good at with practice. And by developing a thick skin. Get to the point where it doesn't hurt when you get rejected or handed a fake number and you'll find yourself getting a lot more successful.
 

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ravenshrike said:
Since you're attempting to pull a PUA stunt, whether or not you successfully disguise yourself as a non-creep, the reality of the matter is that you are a creep.
That's a bit harsh.

There's nothing creepy about simply wanting to establish contact with someone you find attractive. The creepines starts if you go about it in a creepy way.
Or if she screams rape just for the lulz. Trust me, its not worth doing this.
 

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RaikuFA said:
Vegosiux said:
ravenshrike said:
Since you're attempting to pull a PUA stunt, whether or not you successfully disguise yourself as a non-creep, the reality of the matter is that you are a creep.
That's a bit harsh.

There's nothing creepy about simply wanting to establish contact with someone you find attractive. The creepines starts if you go about it in a creepy way.
Or if she screams rape just for the lulz. Trust me, its not worth doing this.
If she screams rape just for lulz, then she's in for some serious trouble, unless you're in a movie.
 

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[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_ZlZryEKdXE[/youtube]

These guys give good advice. Basically, go up to her, and say something. It works. You just go up to her (or really any person you'd like to meet) and talk to her with confidence. If she stays to talk, she'll give you her number when you ask. If she doesn't, she can go fuck herself, and you don't need to feel bad about anything. If she wants to stop, but is actually in a rush, ask for her number.

Now where to go once you've gotten her number is a whole different ball game.

Edit: Apparently I suck at youtube tags so http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_ZlZryEKdXE
 

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sir.rutthed said:
Asuka Soryu said:
Soviet Heavy said:
RGman said:
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ravenshrike said:
Since you're attempting to pull a PUA stunt
A what?
Pants Under Atention? Propeled Under Arousment? Pizza Und Anchovies (ok, that's cheating)?
Public Urinal Assault?
Pessimistic Urchin Assualt~
Prehistoric Ursine Assault?
Now THAT I can get behind. Preferable several miles and three mountain ranges behind.
 

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Focksbot said:
Good lord people.
As you walk past the person, lock eyes with them.
Don't avert your gaze or turn your head.
If you do, you've gunked it up.
Attractive women are used to guys looking away. It takes a confident, strong man to keep the gaze.
She will pursue you after.
That's it.
Not kidding.
No "IM SORRY CREEPY LOLOL HI THERE WATS UR NAME". Isn't it annoying already when you get those people on campus with clipboards asking you for your signature, name and credit card number? Imagine some random girl blindsiding you like that.
It strikes a really awkward feeling.
I've gotten girls flustered this way countless times.
*Presses Enter*.
What if your walkin the same direction..? And she walks past you at a faster pace. No time for eye contact and if you try to catch up itll come off as creepy.
 

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Vegosiux said:
RaikuFA said:
Vegosiux said:
ravenshrike said:
Since you're attempting to pull a PUA stunt, whether or not you successfully disguise yourself as a non-creep, the reality of the matter is that you are a creep.
That's a bit harsh.

There's nothing creepy about simply wanting to establish contact with someone you find attractive. The creepines starts if you go about it in a creepy way.
Or if she screams rape just for the lulz. Trust me, its not worth doing this.
If she screams rape just for lulz, then she's in for some serious trouble, unless you're in a movie.
Have times changed that much where she gets what she deserves for pulling that crap? Or is it just a slap on the wrist?
 

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joeman098 said:
i personally find Hello to the be best =D I dono make an observation about her come up with some bull like your sisters birthday is comeing up and you think she might like that hat she is wareing and ask where she got it and continue from there
oh my goodness this! prefect!
 

funksobeefy

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sir.rutthed said:
Asuka Soryu said:
Soviet Heavy said:
RGman said:
Baneat said:
ravenshrike said:
Since you're attempting to pull a PUA stunt
A what?
Pants Under Atention? Propeled Under Arousment? Pizza Und Anchovies (ok, that's cheating)?
Public Urinal Assault?
Pessimistic Urchin Assualt~
Prehistoric Ursine Assault?

haha! Pleistocene mega fauna gonna fuck us up for driving them to extinction
 

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funksobeefy said:
joeman098 said:
i personally find Hello to the be best =D I dono make an observation about her come up with some bull like your sisters birthday is comeing up and you think she might like that hat she is wareing and ask where she got it and continue from there
oh my goodness this! prefect!
yea Its pretty good because you don't come off as you are hitting on you and you can get a feel for if she is interested in talking to you or not by her body language and her responses.
 

CODE-D

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Also I always assume girls on cell phones are talking to boyfriends, should i assume this.
 

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Come up with something to do if she says yes like dancing, or a day trap zoo, museum almost anything but movie and dinner that boring, then you go say hi introduce yourself and ask her to the event, it worked for me.
 

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CODE-D said:
Also I always assume girls on cell phones are talking to boyfriends, should i assume this.
No. Just because they might, that doesn't mean they are.