How to tell a girl you like her

[Shru1kan]

Do an "all-in" gamble, give her an engagement ring.

I don't know the details really, ask her out?

details being, on the same day (except at supper time) that I first actually meet her, I take her to subway for supper (it's the dinner date! you never do the dinner date! It's the do-or-die date! cookie for reference) and we go back to my place, go to my room, sity in my bed and watch cartoons, make out, massage each others backs, and I smacked her ass a couple of times....so yeah I still don't know if we're going out after all that

Hate to say it but if not, she's easy and you wouldn't want her anyways.

But really, if you've waited longer than a week or so she might feel like you aren't interested and move on. Hate to say it but I doubt she could be any less subtle at hinting that she likes you, so you best hope you didn't break her heart.

 

[Shru1kan]

Accidental Double post. Weird connection tonight.

 

[Blueruler182]

Try coming up with a better line than "We might as well be together". That doesn't seem like the best approach.

Oh, and don't ask her out in an alley. I learned that one the hard way...

And it comes down to two things: Is she over the top romantic type or is she a quiet type. I can't give advice on the former, but for the latter it might work best if you just tell her. Maybe you could get fireworks to spell her name out and ask her out for the former, but that'd cost one hell of a pretty penny...

 

[Penguinness]

Do an "all-in" gamble, give her an engagement ring.

I don't know the details really, ask her out?

details being, on the same day (except at supper time) that I first actually meet her, I take her to subway for supper (it's the dinner date! you never do the dinner date! It's the do-or-die date! cookie for reference) and we go back to my place, go to my room, sity in my bed and watch cartoons, make out, massage each others backs, and I smacked her ass a couple of times....so yeah I still don't know if we're going out after all that

Sounds pretty fast! Maybe I was right with the engagement ring

 

[Blair Bennett]

Coming from one of the female persuasion, I'd have to say that the most romantic thing would just be asking her out. If she laughs at first (this is vital), don't be put off, it's kind of one of those things where you're not really sure if the other person is serious or not. Do you have a tendency to joke about this kind of thing around her? If so, you might have to tell her that you're serious a few times. If she's in any way humble, she'll want to make sure you're not jerking her around. I'm not implying that you would do any such thing, but us women tend to have difficulty accepting the fact that anyone might want to be in a relationship with us. The best thing you can do is be honest without trying too hard.

 

[Dags90]

I feel stupid for asking but....placards?

A fairly large rectangular sign that one would expect a person to be able to read from a reasonable distance. Sort of like a roadsign, but I'd probably go for poster board unless you want to simultaneously show off how ripped you are.

 

[khaimera]

Tell her with confidence and eloquence.

Nice new Avatar.


Anyway On topic, Just tell her.

Just. Tell. Her.

Thanks for noticing

*blushes

Oh, and OP don't use the word eloquence, its a deal breaker.

 

[Plurralbles]

I've only been able to do it with inviting her to hang out and going from what her body language tells me to do and after a kiss asking her out. Probably not the best way to start a more serious relationship but I enjoy it as it's more comfortable to me.

I have no idea how to read body language!

Well, that's a problem! : D

Maybe you should ask people for help to help you learn some tricks to knowing what people are wanting with specific stances.

Of course, then you might get into the trap of over thinking things so... meh.

 

[child of lileth]

I personally think the best way is to just approach her, and just be honest about it, and ask her out. The worst that would happen is she might not feel the same way about you.

 

[swolf]

I'd go with just tell her. It may make it awkward if it she doesn't return the affection or it could work out great. It's a gamble you'll have to take. Think of it this way: the odds can be viewed as 50/50, that's better odds than any casino bet. OR, if you want to complicate matters, plan a night out but don't say that it's a date, just have that kinda be a subtly indicated but not stated outright, know what I mean? Like, compliments (try to make them part of the normal ebb and flow of normal conversation), paying for her, etc. Just don't say "this is a date". She how she reacts to that. If she has these feelings for you, it may draw them out in to the open. Also, this would give you an idea of what a date with her would feel like and help you learn more about her (for example, if she's totally mean to the server and advises against you leaving a tip for no reason, she may be inconsiderate of others. So, that tells you that she may act that way towards you.) If it gets late and nothing happens, you may want to decide whether or not you want to take the gamble mentioned earlier. That might work, good luck.

 

[dududf]

"Hey nice tits! *grabs tit* See you around!"

In all seriousness, I don't know.

 

[DkLnBr]

Run up to her and yell "I LIKE YOU!!!!!!!". that usually gets you their attention... and a face full of mace.
As for real advice, dont talk any of my advice on relationships

 

[Russian_Assassin]

... >.>
...<.<
...Surprise Buttsecks? No but really, you should just ask her out to a romantic location (I do not know where you live so can't help you with that) and at the right moment come out with it.

Then you may or may not receive mouth sex OH GOD why am I so perverted!

 

[bassdrum]

Try and have a friend help you tell her?

I shall respectfully disagree with this. I completely understand that it can be intimidating to tell someone that you're into them (trust me, I've been there), but having a friend drop not-so-subtle hints isn't the best. You won't seem very confident, and you'll also not be giving the girl the honor of putting your own neck on the line.

OT: You don't have to be formal about it, just show an interest, ask her out, and she'll probably figure it out on her own.

If all else fails, just pull out a leather jacket and a boom box and blast ballads (preferably by Rick Astley) outside her house. Or rather don't.

Off topic: A friend of mine used a calculator program to ask a girl out. When she said yes, it graphed flowers. That's probably the most nerdy yet badass way to ask a girl out that I've ever seen.

 

[quantumsoul]

I'm not sure how old you are but the best thing to do is to ask her out, don't just say you like her. Girls know what you mean if you ask them out. If she likes you she'll say yes. If she makes excuses just politely excuse yourself and move onto a better girl.

Oh and if you don't know where to take her. It really doesn't matter. Try doing something you like and that will make you feel comfortable. You're more likely to be your best self then and you'll want to bring her into your world anyways. But use commonsense too, like don't do anything gross like skin animals on a first date.

Good luck to ya, it's learning process. So don't be hard on yourself if you make mistakes.

 

[Quiet Stranger]

Do an "all-in" gamble, give her an engagement ring.

I don't know the details really, ask her out?

details being, on the same day (except at supper time) that I first actually meet her, I take her to subway for supper (it's the dinner date! you never do the dinner date! It's the do-or-die date! cookie for reference) and we go back to my place, go to my room, sity in my bed and watch cartoons, make out, massage each others backs, and I smacked her ass a couple of times....so yeah I still don't know if we're going out after all that

Hate to say it but if not, she's easy and you wouldn't want her anyways.

But really, if you've waited longer than a week or so she might feel like you aren't interested and move on. Hate to say it but I doubt she could be any less subtle at hinting that she likes you, so you best hope you didn't break her heart.

waited longer then a week for what? telling her I like her? Maybe she already knows, or maybe I've told her already....I have a fuzzy memory, also in her defense at the time of the ass smacking she was drunk, also she's told me she's committed to her man, her last boyfriend cheated on her and had pictures of another girl on his laptop and something like that, so I don't think she's "easy" but she probably will be if we go out (easy for me I mean, not anyone else) also....what does "needing some ass" mean? she kept saying that (while she was drunk) but I had no idea girls were saying that these days

 

[MegaManOfNumbers]

As Mari from Evangelion 2.22 once said:

"nothing ventured, nothing gained."

ask her out, after a few dates to bond with each other, ask her how she feels of you, if she doesn't like you... bail.

it ain't worth dating her if she doesn't like you.

the worst feeling ANYONE can feel is regret... and pain.

 

[Verex]

Flowers.

With a mars bar in the middle

If I was a female, if a guy gave me a Mars and said "I love you" I would do him on the spot.

Not kidding.

You're such a whore. xD

Just go out with some friends and then sneak away for some private time.

 

[Penguinness]

waited longer then a week for what? telling her I like her? Maybe she already knows, or maybe I've told her already....I have a fuzzy memory, also in her defense at the time of the ass smacking she was drunk, also she's told me she's committed to her man, her last boyfriend cheated on her and had pictures of another girl on his laptop and something like that, so I don't think she's "easy" but she probably will be if we go out (easy for me I mean, not anyone else) also....what does "needing some ass" mean? she kept saying that (while she was drunk) but I had no idea girls were saying that these days

She was drunk at the time and at the moment she's in a relationship? Hmm some women (some, from personal experience) get drunk very easily and also aroused. You say she kept saying she needed some ass? If it was fairly repetitive and she was repeating other things then that's the pretty fucked and won't remember tomorrow talkin in circles stage.