How to tell a girl you like her
- Thread starter Quiet Stranger
- Start date
Recommended Videos
Less talking, more poignant slow-motion moment, culminating in a kiss. Preferably during a quiet moment in study hall (or similar 1 on 1, semi-public environment). Ideally, a lull occurs in the conversation, and you happen to be leaning towards each other, and *bink*, you kiss.
Yeah, sometimes I'm a softie.
Yeah, sometimes I'm a softie.
Im in the same position as you, but I've already got it figured out in the form of a multi-step plan which I myself am planning on using.
1) get yourself a job and a vehicle(not needed but it makes you look better)
2) if you haven;t already, get to know her better(common ground that you share, her likes, her dislikes, hobbies)
3) invite her to go do something with you and your mates(but makesure she's not the only girl on the outing)
4) ask her if she wants to go get dinner and while out tell her.
1) get yourself a job and a vehicle(not needed but it makes you look better)
2) if you haven;t already, get to know her better(common ground that you share, her likes, her dislikes, hobbies)
3) invite her to go do something with you and your mates(but makesure she's not the only girl on the outing)
4) ask her if she wants to go get dinner and while out tell her.
Just straight up tell her? It worked for me.
What is the worst that can happen, her saying no? Pah, if she says no she is just realizing you are too good for her
What is the worst that can happen, her saying no? Pah, if she says no she is just realizing you are too good for her
THEY STILL MAKE MARS BARS?! ON WHAT PLANET IS THIS AND HOW CAN I GET THERE?!RaphaelsRedemption said:Flowers.
With a mars bar in the middle
Anyway, I'd just tell her. Tho, that could get awkward. But it beats trying to figure a different way out. The flowers and a Mars bar thing may be a little thick, however.
Be completely upfront about it. Tell her that you think she is an amazing person who is beautiful, funny ect. Tell her straight up, don't sugar coat it or drag it out, let her know how you value her and how you are interested in becoming more than friends.
If you get rejected, than at least you did say everything there was to say, and you shouldn't really have any regrets about it.
Another way is, if you are fairly sure she likes you the same, lightly push her into a wall and kiss her. I say lightly because on the offchance she doesn't you can be easily pushed away and not get sued for rape.
If you get rejected, than at least you did say everything there was to say, and you shouldn't really have any regrets about it.
Another way is, if you are fairly sure she likes you the same, lightly push her into a wall and kiss her. I say lightly because on the offchance she doesn't you can be easily pushed away and not get sued for rape.
Like it's been said a million times already. Direct approach is usually the best. It may suck when mustering up the courage to just do it. But it works best. Plus, you two have already made out so that should have removed any awkwardness that may have happened.
Usually, putting a mars bar or any other kind of candy may send a wrong kind of message if you send it to the wrong girl and she may look at you with a mad expression and ask "What. You think I'm fat?" smack you, and run away crying. Whether she is overweight or not. Just a warning for anyone who really thinks that's a good idea.
Kinda off topic, but one of the sappiest/geekiest ways I know of a guy asking a girl out is he sent her a piece of mail through their Pokemon games asking if she would go out with him. May not be everybody's kind of thing, but I found it maybe a bit endearing and nerdy as all hell.
Usually, putting a mars bar or any other kind of candy may send a wrong kind of message if you send it to the wrong girl and she may look at you with a mad expression and ask "What. You think I'm fat?" smack you, and run away crying. Whether she is overweight or not. Just a warning for anyone who really thinks that's a good idea.
Kinda off topic, but one of the sappiest/geekiest ways I know of a guy asking a girl out is he sent her a piece of mail through their Pokemon games asking if she would go out with him. May not be everybody's kind of thing, but I found it maybe a bit endearing and nerdy as all hell.
There are several approaches:
1: I like you.
2: Would you like to go on a date some time?
3: Um... Well... Stammer... Would you like to do something some time?! Her: Of course, you're a good friend.
4: You seem like a good person, and I would like to try the dating thing with you.
1: I like you.
2: Would you like to go on a date some time?
3: Um... Well... Stammer... Would you like to do something some time?! Her: Of course, you're a good friend.
4: You seem like a good person, and I would like to try the dating thing with you.
Ba dum pish!Trebort said:First of all, you are a genius.RaphaelsRedemption said:Flowers.
With a mars bar in the middle
"Now then sausage... do you wanna make babies?".... no wait, don't say that. Go with the flowers with a mars bar. (I'd love to get flowers off anyone with a chocolate bar in them, it'd have to be a snickers instead of mars though...I like nuts.)
I don't care if people have done it before, nor that you posted that post a long time ago.
I wanted to do it!