Maybe so, but my parents didn't really care because they thought it would be better if I learned to "deal with it myself" or something along those lines. What bothers me is when I tried to defend myself, or tried to stop the bullying my younger sister was going through, they would ground me. It got to the point where I attempted suicide several times. But I'm okay now, because once I accepted my own worthlessness it because a lot easier to admit that I deserved a lot of the crap that happened to me.WingedIncubus said:
how where you bullied
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No one deserves to be treated like that, dude. You've been shafted by the people who have been entrusted to protect you. I've been through that (although I do not suffer from autism), from both school and parents.Chrono180 said:
I'd strongly suggest to find a caretaker, someone you can trust and open up, and tell him or her everything, and ask that person to help you. What you need most, right now, is to find someone you can trust, and there are people like that, I can assure you.
It was years ago, so I honestly don't care anymore what goes on in this town. The police are known all over to be incompetent lunks, so most people take justice into their own hands.Captain Pooptits said:
Not really bullied. There were a couple of incidents of name-calling but they stopped pretty quickly when they realised all they would get is a laugh in the face. Apparently they didn't realise their 'insults' were piss-your-pants funny. "Fucktard" how original. Of course, being in secondary school now and being among the weirdest people in my year you would think I get bullied now but, no. I'm so lucky to be in the best year in a school with one of the lowest bullying rates in the UK. That and my ability to self-deprecate beyond the resistance of any mortal man 
I was never really bullied.
There was this obnoxious tough kid in class in elementary school, but he picked on everyone he didn't like, including me. I just ignored it and moved on, so it didn't affect me too much, if at all.
Sure I keep quiet and am docile and obedient at all time at school, but I'm pretty good at making the class laugh with witty comments I throw out there every once and a while, so I'm generally quite liked.
There was this obnoxious tough kid in class in elementary school, but he picked on everyone he didn't like, including me. I just ignored it and moved on, so it didn't affect me too much, if at all.
Sure I keep quiet and am docile and obedient at all time at school, but I'm pretty good at making the class laugh with witty comments I throw out there every once and a while, so I'm generally quite liked.
My point is that they make you feel like you don't belong because unlike them you are not another Jersey Shore douchebag. You're an interesting person. I'm not defending them, i'm defending you. Being different can make you an outcast but being different makes you interesting.superbatranger said:
...in elementary school I would occasionally get things knocked out of my hands while walking home. I developed a reputation for kicking in the groin in retaliation. When they started anticipating that, I started building a reputation for punching in the throat. When they came in numbers, I got a reputation for carrying large knives and making convincing death threats. The bullying stopped shortly before I made it to high school.
Thank god I was too handy to be bullied...
And by handy, I mean likely to help you out and cheer you up if you were in deep shit. Nothing dirty. T.T
And by handy, I mean likely to help you out and cheer you up if you were in deep shit. Nothing dirty. T.T
TheNewDemoman said:Aylaine said:Mostly emotionally. After my parents died, I became very unsure of myself and a bit out of place to most people. That typically lead to the popular girls teasing me for being sensitive, or causing problems for me whenever I was alone. It became much easier when I started hanging out with my best friends (thank god for lunch switches) though.
I feel sorry for you, one of the few nice people here -_-
But as for myself, well despite my size I am quite the softy. So I am a moving target for insults, also I am 1/2 Black 1/2 White.
This one guy called me a "half breed mother f***er"
I gave him a good shiner
heeeey! One of the few?!
Also, I've never really been bullied. In fact, I used to be the bully years ago (something I really regret, even though I, and those I've bullied have learned to forget and forgive, and some of them are actually really good friends of mine now). The closest was maybe how the whole of my class called me Joshua in a mocking sort of way.
See? My only example of me being bullied is me being called a name that is, by any means, a normal name (and I don't even know why I was so irked by it back then; even considered changing schools (though it was only a thought) and once even left school early. I'm really quite perlexed, since if that happened now, I'd pay no mind to it).
people poking fun at me and not stopping it got worse last year when the teacher said it was my fault and the douchebags where innocent (they said something about "behavioural problems" wich is a terrible excuse). I even thought of killing myself to get rid of the bullying but was too scared to seriously think about it. it ended with me running from the school crying and never returning. Luckily I started a new school last year where the teacher give a crap about their students.
I still want revenge against my bullies.
I still want revenge against my bullies.
I was bullied a bit in the 7th grade and 8th. It continued during the 9th grade, but then I was more confident and hung out alot more with my friends to care about them. Also, all of us hated the people who were bullying be back then, because it wasn't just me, they bullied alot of people, and were generally douche bags. Yet somehow they still had a whole bunch of friends.
Physically:
-Been stabbed because of this
-Beaten by a group
-Nearly killed by a severe concussion
But most of it was just the usual petulant childish bullshit. Name calling; rumors, public mockery, and a completely indifferent faculty.
I learned self-defense towards the end, and payed a few them back in blood...then I moved to another region for unrelated reasons (parents employment moves, we move with it).
As bitter as I was towards the inbred delinquents that bullied me, I'm far more incensed at the school system that let this go on because they didn't want to be known as that school that had to send problem students to juvenile detention/school.
They were more concerned with keeping their perfect record intact than disciplining violent students.
This is why I don't think children are these "Sweet innocent creatures that don't know any better.". That sort of sentimentality is so full of shit it makes me wretch. Children that harm others (physically or emotionally) know damn well what they're doing, and whether or not they would like to have it done to them.
Most kids I knew while growing up were pretty decent human beings, but don't think for one second that they're entirely ignorant as to what's going on.
-Been stabbed because of this
-Beaten by a group
-Nearly killed by a severe concussion
But most of it was just the usual petulant childish bullshit. Name calling; rumors, public mockery, and a completely indifferent faculty.
I learned self-defense towards the end, and payed a few them back in blood...then I moved to another region for unrelated reasons (parents employment moves, we move with it).
As bitter as I was towards the inbred delinquents that bullied me, I'm far more incensed at the school system that let this go on because they didn't want to be known as that school that had to send problem students to juvenile detention/school.
They were more concerned with keeping their perfect record intact than disciplining violent students.
This is why I don't think children are these "Sweet innocent creatures that don't know any better.". That sort of sentimentality is so full of shit it makes me wretch. Children that harm others (physically or emotionally) know damn well what they're doing, and whether or not they would like to have it done to them.
Most kids I knew while growing up were pretty decent human beings, but don't think for one second that they're entirely ignorant as to what's going on.
Middle school was absolute hell for me. For starters, a lot of kids would pick on me just because I was a twin. They would keep calling me by my brother's name. Back then, I wasn't exactly bright enough to realize that I could've just ignored them, as I kept responding to them every time they did that.
One day, after one particular kid decided to call me by my brother's name, I lost it, ran to him, grabbed him and punched him in the stomach. He than responded in kind by punching me in the face. Telling me not to do that again, as if he was the fucking victim. Needless to say, my pride was hurt pretty bad after that.
There was also this one obnoxious black girl who picked on me as well. She called me a slut one time, which was weird considering that I was a guy.
Finally, there was also this one girl whom I only dealt with once, she came up to me and asked if I knew what timid meant. At the time I didn't so as a result she told me that I wasn't "a real middle schooler" or something like that.
Things became a lot better in High School, and even better now that I'm in College.
One day, after one particular kid decided to call me by my brother's name, I lost it, ran to him, grabbed him and punched him in the stomach. He than responded in kind by punching me in the face. Telling me not to do that again, as if he was the fucking victim. Needless to say, my pride was hurt pretty bad after that.
There was also this one obnoxious black girl who picked on me as well. She called me a slut one time, which was weird considering that I was a guy.
Finally, there was also this one girl whom I only dealt with once, she came up to me and asked if I knew what timid meant. At the time I didn't so as a result she told me that I wasn't "a real middle schooler" or something like that.
Things became a lot better in High School, and even better now that I'm in College.
I am at secondary school now and in it you have the cool kids and the 'retards'. The cool kids well thats kind of self explanetory. The 'retards' were anyone who was different to the cool kids.
In middle school I started many fights ,for some reason, and lost most of them. The one person who I got into the most fights is now of my only friends of sorts. (more on that in a bit)
I used to/still do hang out with the cool kids as I thought they were guenuinally my friends and now all they do is take the piss out of anything I do. And I have no Idea how to react to it. It drives me crazy but I have no ability to do anything.
I also hate anyone who is on the same level as me and will try to isolate my self from them.
In middle school I started many fights ,for some reason, and lost most of them. The one person who I got into the most fights is now of my only friends of sorts. (more on that in a bit)
I used to/still do hang out with the cool kids as I thought they were guenuinally my friends and now all they do is take the piss out of anything I do. And I have no Idea how to react to it. It drives me crazy but I have no ability to do anything.
I also hate anyone who is on the same level as me and will try to isolate my self from them.
Dude. NO ONE deserves what you went through. Just because you're different from somebody else doesn't mean you're worthless. I should know, I too have autism, and I had my fair share of bullies.Chrono180 said:
If what you said about your parents is true, than they are just as bad as the people who hurt you at school. You have every right to defend yourself and those you care about. You should really talk with your parents about this. They should be helping you through this kind of thing.