How's life treating you?

[gostlyfantom]

suffice it to say that life is being a ***** right now.

 

[chromewarriorXIII]

I've actually been doing pretty well.

After this semester ends I'll graduate high school and already be half-way to my AS.

I just had my community aspect of my senior project yesterday and raised $400 for Child's Play.

After a long time, I'm no longer single and am with an amazing girl.

So life has been pretty nice to me lately.

 

[sushkis2]

That's some psychologically heavy stuff going on in this topic.

My life? Obviously, it treats me like a total nerd,
1. I've never had a GF nor i kissed a girl properly in my life, i'm turning 17 in 2 months.
2. I'm stuck in limbo of education - do I study well, or piss poor? My parents say: absolutely the second, friends say, I'm #1... And, do i stay in my shithole of a country to study in a local Uni or go to Germany? I'm totally willing to go to Germany, and study biotechnologies, and chemistry (which I'm pretty good at ATM) but, as my parents are indecisive pricks, they'd rather have me stay here under their wing, but, it's mostly their decision, cuz, who else is going to finance my studies?
3. My health is AOK, got over my inherent (it's pronounced that, right?) asthma in time, and am ok in sports. BUT! I dont look perfect, in fact, most people i know tell me, that I look as if i was 12 (look at my avatar, that's me, how much would you give me?), and have some body fat, although i weight only 65 kg (140 pounds) and am 1m 80cm (6'), and still people think, that I'm overweight and call me fat ass.

So... only time will tell if life is going to be better, or, going to make me cry a river...

 

[figday]

I'll get back to this part.

1) I'd say to hear that, but there's simply just no "one" out there.
There are several you fit together with and there's nothing no-no with long distance, it's just harder.

2) I wouldn't say that it's because your brain is too logical.
It's someother reason because I'd argue that logically, it's impossible that we only live once.

3) That's a harmonic and wishful way of thinking about it; "Things will get better".
The sad fact of it is that it won't. Life can get infintely much worse.

4) Yes. You are a puppet to your family and you need to ask yourself - To who do you live your life?
Yourself or your family? If you've been a puppet for so long, do you think they'll just let you move away?
No, you'll have to fight your way out most likely because you've let them decide your life so far there's just no way they'll let you do what you want. No doubt they already have a job for you in mind very close by~

5)As for my own life.

So yeah, that's how life is treating me.

1) i truly hope so, in my case, this is the first and so far the only time ive fell in love with the thought of 'i cannot live without her' thing. i'm sure i'll find someone else, hopefully.

2) now this i really cant comment much because its faith-related. but i respect your opinion.

3) as i've mentioned, my brain never stops thinking. yes my positive thinking part is the one in front, but i'm always prepared for the worst.

4) at first, i lived for my family, i love my family, i'd die for them. but now i've had enough, i've been too kind, time for me live my own life. and its just a matter of time.

5) life's a *****... as you've mentioned 'Life can get infintely much worse', but always keep a positive mind in your pocket. who knows.

thx for the reply btw

 

[The_ModeRazor]

I am depressed and alone. Nothing unusual. I guess life can't be pleasant for everyone.

 

[figday]

That's some psychologically heavy stuff going on in this topic.

My life? Obviously, it treats me like a total nerd,
1. I've never had a GF nor i kissed a girl properly in my life, i'm turning 17 in 2 months.
2. I'm stuck in limbo of education - do I study well, or piss poor? My parents say: absolutely the second, friends say, I'm #1... And, do i stay in my shithole of a country to study in a local Uni or go to Germany? I'm totally willing to go to Germany, and study biotechnologies, and chemistry (which I'm pretty good at ATM) but, as my parents are indecisive pricks, they'd rather have me stay here under their wing, but, it's mostly their decision, cuz, who else is going to finance my studies?
3. My health is AOK, got over my inherent (it's pronounced that, right?) asthma in time, and am ok in sports. BUT! I dont look perfect, in fact, most people i know tell me, that I look as if i was 12 (look at my avatar, that's me, how much would you give me?), and have some body fat, although i weight only 65 kg (140 pounds) and am 1m 80cm (6'), and still people think, that I'm overweight and call me fat ass.

So... only time will tell if life is going to be better, or, going to make me cry a river...

1) in two months, go to a club, get acquainted with a chick (hot one preferably), and mention to her its your birthday. your bound to get something ^^ (works for me)

2) most parents are simply unable to satisfy whatever you do (mine's a living example). as for your studies, that would be your call. stick around so your financially safe, or try making money or find scholarships. your friends said your #1 right? give it a go!

3) nobody's perfect. as for your weight, iirc the ideal weight for men is height minus 110 = x kg (correct me if im wrong). and ignore what people say, if you think and feel your healthy, then you are!

 

[Vancleef]

I can't complain...

My grades are decent and my parents are nice to me.
I have some friends who I sadly don't hang out with outside of school.
I don't get bullied and I'm not really depressed.
I'm slowly getting better at guitar.


But I'm just 15, so I'm guessing these things you talk about have not happened to me yet...

 

[figday]

Friendship is magic.

+1
nuff said, companions are your main sanctuaries.

 

[sushkis2]

always glad to hear older people's advice According to your formula, i must be below perfect lol

 

[Da pyro man 999]

In answer to the question, can't complain.

 

[silasbufu]

I didn't get to read the other comments, so I don't know if someone else asked this or not. Is there a possibility for you to move out?
I realize that's a big effort financialy, but if there's even 1% chance you could do this I think you should leave that shit behind you. I'm sure the day that will happen, you will start living, as your motto says.

 

[sushkis2]

That's some psychologically heavy stuff going on in this topic.

My life? Obviously, it treats me like a total nerd,
1. I've never had a GF nor i kissed a girl properly in my life, i'm turning 17 in 2 months.
2. I'm stuck in limbo of education - do I study well, or piss poor? My parents say: absolutely the second, friends say, I'm #1... And, do i stay in my shithole of a country to study in a local Uni or go to Germany? I'm totally willing to go to Germany, and study biotechnologies, and chemistry (which I'm pretty good at ATM) but, as my parents are indecisive pricks, they'd rather have me stay here under their wing, but, it's mostly their decision, cuz, who else is going to finance my studies?
3. My health is AOK, got over my inherent (it's pronounced that, right?) asthma in time, and am ok in sports. BUT! I dont look perfect, in fact, most people i know tell me, that I look as if i was 12 (look at my avatar, that's me, how much would you give me?), and have some body fat, although i weight only 65 kg (140 pounds) and am 1m 80cm (6'), and still people think, that I'm overweight and call me fat ass.

So... only time will tell if life is going to be better, or, going to make me cry a river...

I just wanted to butt in here.
You're 17 - Where are you looking for a girlfriend and how do you look like?
As for education - What is it you want? Your desire is the key here.
You weigh 65kg and is 1.80?! You're lucky. That's the weight I'm trying to get to as it's ideal if you look it up at BMI. Those who call you fat are idiots who know nothing. Only reason I can think of why is if you wear very baggy clothes but still, 65kg is ideal for 180cm - You're the exact same height as I have.

Well, i tend to stay away from clubs, in our area, clubs are notorious for the need to call a cop car twice every week, cuz ppl who go there are quite agressive, and most fights break out, cuz some guy like me hits on someones GF, and then goes the usual protective bullshite...
And i don't wear baggy clothes, I really have some body fat, and its particullary noticeable when i sit down. Also, i suck at fistfights, I tend to avoid them, cuz I always lose, and ppl think that I'm a pussy for that. When i was going to light athletics a while back, i got into an argument with a little crazy fucknugget, who was 3 years younger than me, and he made me a black eye, even tho i kicked him in the stomach, that he bled piss the next morning, and the kick pushed him against a table corner, he smashed particullary well against the spine, and couldn't sleep on the back the whole night, that didn't count, as I had an effing black eye and everyone knew who did it...

 

[sushkis2]

I dont even know where to look, as there are no such online sites around here where i could search for single girls from my area.. also it seems i have the same bad aura lol

 

[Talon_Skywarp]

Life?

I got far too drunk last night and caused a spot of trouble.

So pretty much the same as always

 

[googleback]

change your environment, leave your comfort zone (even if you're miserable there you've still been at college for 6 years, so... UNcomfort zone?) You'll have a very good opportunity to fuck off for as long as you want and find yourself man, it'll be great! I wish you luck.

 

[Rarhnor]

I just had my community aspect of my senior project yesterday and raised $400 for Child's Play.

[Highfive]Fucking boss, man.[/Highfive]

Now...Go end world hunger

 

[BGH122]

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Have a nyan on me guy, it'll cheer you up:


I guess life is quite tough for you at the moment. I get depressed a lot, but there's no real tangible reason so I can't really complain all that much.

Hang in there guy.

change your environment, leave your comfort zone (even if you're miserable there you've still been at college for 6 years, so... UNcomfort zone?) You'll have a very good opportunity to fuck off for as long as you want and find yourself man, it'll be great! I wish you luck.

I agree. You're old enough that wherever you go you can find enough work to survive. Leave your family, they sound like unsupportive arseholes.