How's life treating you?

[figday]

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Have a nyan on me guy, it'll cheer you up:


I guess life is quite tough for you at the moment. I get depressed a lot, but there's no real tangible reason so I can't really complain all that much.

Hang in there guy.

change your environment, leave your comfort zone (even if you're miserable there you've still been at college for 6 years, so... UNcomfort zone?) You'll have a very good opportunity to fuck off for as long as you want and find yourself man, it'll be great! I wish you luck.

I agree. You're old enough that wherever you go you can find enough work to survive. Leave your family, they sound like unsupportive arseholes.

LOL, thx for the nyan! i laughed for the first 10 seconds, but after that it just got annoying

and yeah, i know im old enough to get the hell out, and im on my way of doing it. btw, its not my family, its my dad only. the rest of us are victims. im just worried that if i take off then my siblings and my mom would continue to suffer. the only solution for me to go with ease is when my dad dies (not that im hoping, he might be nuts but he's still my dad).
anyways, thx again ^^

 

[BGH122]

LOL, thx for the nyan! i laughed for the first 10 seconds, but after that it just got annoying

It's like heroin. You don't like it now you're on the downwards heaves, but you'll be back for more.

and yeah, i know im old enough to get the hell out, and im on my way of doing it. btw, its not my family, its my dad only. the rest of us are victims. im just worried that if i take off then my siblings and my mom would continue to suffer. the only solution for me to go with ease is when my dad dies (not that im hoping, he might be nuts but he's still my dad).
anyways, thx again ^^

He sounds like a real arsehole, but it's your mother's choice to stay with him. Don't feel that you are obliged to make a bad decision because she did. That may sound very harsh, but you only get one life and if you're spending it feeling (avoidably) miserable then you're wasting it.

 

[figday]

LOL, thx for the nyan! i laughed for the first 10 seconds, but after that it just got annoying

It's like heroin. You don't like it now you're on the downwards heaves, but you'll be back for more.

and yeah, i know im old enough to get the hell out, and im on my way of doing it. btw, its not my family, its my dad only. the rest of us are victims. im just worried that if i take off then my siblings and my mom would continue to suffer. the only solution for me to go with ease is when my dad dies (not that im hoping, he might be nuts but he's still my dad).
anyways, thx again ^^

He sounds like a real arsehole, but it's your mother's choice to stay with him. Don't feel that you are obliged to make a bad decision because she did. That may sound very harsh, but you only get one life and if you're spending it feeling (avoidably) miserable then you're wasting it.

you cant put him in the arsehole category, he's in the mentally disturbed/crazy one.
an arsehole can be predictable, but a nutcase..would be a tough nut to crack (no pun intended)
as for my mom, she's my dad's 2nd wife, she was originally the babysitter for my dad's daughter from his 1st wife (yep).
my mom chose to stay with him for our sake, the children, the one that soothes and take care of our bruises when my dad's goes apeshit. thats why we love and owe her so much. and after the last world war, she clearly stated that she wished she never got with my dad, so she can never see her children suffer like now.
man, if my life was a movie, itd be a tearjerker

 

[Bezza27]

your dad sounds evil

 

[Alon Shechter]

I was born into two parents that constantly fought. in the age of 5 they divorced and I moved to a new place and the entire two years in there are a trauma I am currently recovering from. I have mental issues, compulsive thoughts that constantly ruin my good mood, I see psychologists, I live at a psychiatric hospital, I used to cut myself not a long while ago, I am considering suicide on a daily basis,
I'm also surrounded by fantastic people (who are also trapped in a psychiatric hospital) and every day their release comes closer and I panic that I won't survive without them (and I KNOW that I won't, I wouldn't be here today without their support), I never experienced love with another woman that loved me back (love not being the sex, just love), my bestest friend whom I love very much is a chain smoker that is in post trauma from being raped, my other friends are pretty much the same, some were raped and some experienced some other sort of trauma.......

Fuck it.

 

[BGH122]

you cant put him in the arsehole category, he's in the mentally disturbed/crazy one.
an arsehole can be predictable, but a nutcase..would be a tough nut to crack (no pun intended)
as for my mom, she's my dad's 2nd wife, she was originally the babysitter for my dad's daughter from his 1st wife (yep).
my mom chose to stay with him for our sake, the children, the one that soothes and take care of our bruises when my dad's goes apeshit. thats why we love and owe her so much. and after the last world war, she clearly stated that she wished she never got with my dad, so she can never see her children suffer like now.
man, if my life was a movie, itd be a tearjerker

I'm putting your father in the arsehole category. No-one has a right to make other peoples' lives abjectly miserable. He sounds like scum to me, I don't care what his excuses are.

 

[XHolySmokesX]

dont bother replying if u dont want to.

This sentance may have just told me why your life isn't going the rout you want it to. Your self esteem is at a level where you believe that other people on the site would be right to ignoore your posts.

If you want your life to get better and you want to be happier with where it's going, you need to stand up for yourself and start believing you are worth other peoples time, that you are an asset to humanity and that there are lots of people who care about you and what you have to say. =)

Now i'm not saying your a whimp that lets everyone walk all over him, i don't know you and from what you read i recon you have a lot more self respect than that, however it does seem like your valuing your wants and needs as lesser than everyone around you.

It's OK to do something because it's what you want to do, and not worry whether it'll please someone else or not =)

here's a toast for life, for what has happened, what's happening, and whats going to happen in the future.

And let the best of your todays, be the worst of your tomorrows. Cheers =)

 

[figday]

your dad sounds evil

evil would be an understatement D

I was born into two parents that constantly fought...

Fuck it.

whoa.. i..sorry man..

you cant put him in the arsehole category

I'm putting your father in the arsehole category. No-one has a right to make other peoples' lives abjectly miserable. He sounds like scum to me, I don't care what his excuses are.

you're right, ill put him in the crazy-arsehole dept

And let the best of your todays, be the worst of your tomorrows. Cheers =)

thx CHEERS!

 

[BGH122]

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Don't worry man, my mother's father was a mean drunk and after a lot of psychotherapy (I'd recommend the attachment-based psychotherapy) she's really well balanced these days, much more so than anyone else I know. I really can't stress enough that you need to get as far away from that man as possible and encourage the rest of the family to join you.

 

[Valknott]

My life is actually starting to get better. Nothin' but up from here... hopefully.

 

[kidwithxboxlive]

I'm 13 so I still have a life ahead of me but what a load of shit it is. My dad doesn't spend time with me outside of squash (google it), I am being bombarded with stress rising tests, talk of the future making me scared cuz i think that my life is going to go tits up, and the girl I fancy... she made up with her boyfriend. so I don't think life is going TOO well at the moment...

 

[Marter]

I'm too lazy, and nobody will really care anyway, so I'm not going to type out everything that's wrong with my life. Or more so, how life's treating me. It's not very nice. Life is mean.

But I'm happy regardless, because it's the only way to get through it. I've been through worse.

 

[OhSnap]

>_>

Life?

Let's see. Grew up living with two parents who quite literally were trying to kill each other, dad was an alcoholic. They divorced when I was 6 and then spent the next 10 years trying to turn me against each other. Two years or so after they broke up, mom got with my future stepdad, both started treating me like I was nothing more than an inconvenience. Grandparents are the ones who took me to and paid for my riding lessons, came to my shows, picked me up from school if I was sick.
Blah blah blah, they both made my life miserable until I was 17 and finally got thrown out of the house for not getting along with my stepdad.
I do believe I am within my rights to not have to put up with him yelling things like "you lazy thing" and "stupid child". There's other things that I don't much feel like sharing.

Moved in with my now ex. He spent the year without a job, leeching off me and my grandparents who were kind enough to help me when I really needed help. I was trying to finish high school at the time and was on pretty much welfare where he spent any money he got on clothes. Hell, he would do things like tell me the phone bill he had promised to pay for was overdue and we were getting cut off that day, meaning I had to use what little money I had set aside for myself on the phone so it didn't get cut off. He cheated on me, lied and all that fun stuff. Wound up going through some sort of emotional crisis/depression whatever.

My first bf was an ass who didn't know the meaning of "will you please keep your hands off me, especially in public and with my friends."

Right now I live with my dad at barely 20. Can't find a job. Don't have any friends. Tried to go to college, but after a few months I almost had another breakdown. So now I spend all my time online, talking to people, watching scifi shows and playing world of warcraft. And funny thing is, I don't even care anymore. Never was a people person, really, but now I've just lost absolutely all interest in going out with friends or anything.

There is more I could rant about, but I could scream and cry that life sucks and isn't fair, but that won't fix anything. My life in a nutshell. Sorry for the overlong complaint >_>;

 

[Pimppeter2]

Like a little *****.

Apparently it finds it hilarious to play with my emotions. Worst part is I can't even talk about it.

 

[chromewarriorXIII]

I just had my community aspect of my senior project yesterday and raised $400 for Child's Play.

[Highfive]Fucking boss, man.[/Highfive]

Now...Go end world hunger

[Highfive]It's actually over $500 now, my dad donated some and we had more money from auctions[/Highfive]

I'll try to

 

[GameNeo]

eh, ok but could be alot better.

 

[astrav1]

So hi guys, i dont know why i'm making this thread, maybe i just needed to get stuff outta my chest.
so yeah, just wanted to talk about life, which ill start with mine.
hmm, where do i start?

i'm 24, im still in college, in my 6th and final year of it. majoring a major that i never wanted because my folks wont let me go for it for the sake of the 'family' business. shit.
lost 2 years of college because i had to work for my dad, who doesnt give a flying fuck about what i do with my life as long i help him get more and more money (greedy fuck), and killing my family in the process (my mom nearly died out of stress). and now he wants me to quickly finish college, what an asshole, a genius yet crazy asshole (proven by a shrink), but he's still my dad so ill let it slide. damnit.

just ended a 6-year relationship with a girl which i thought was the one, and still think she is, so there goes my sanctuary. and cant blame anyone but myself for being such a lousy boyfriend, which lead her to getting a new one, she's on the other side of the globe, shes hot, so i kinda new this would happen. long-distance is a no go.

those stuff made me unable to think properly for around a week, sometimes i even forgot what day im at. surprised me big time, finding out that my brain went from a quad-core (thx dad), to a pentium II at that period. when i came to, i knew i had to wake up and re-focus myself. so now i'm in the process of getting back on track, and all the shit that happened, fuck em, shit happens, cest la vie.

sometimes i think, why life? why do you keep throwing these missiles to me for 20+ years? whats next?
i've lost faith in religion, not because the 'unfair' life, but my brain is too logical. guess i'm an atheis/agnostic now.

i'm a positive thinker, which is good because my brain never stops thinking, i always think that from every shit, there's always gonna be a bright side. and that thought always kept me sane and controlled.

but im totally afraid of one thing, and this quote will explain it :
'dont be afraid your life is going to end, be afraid that it will never begin' /forgot where from, a manga iirc
i've always felt like a puppet to my family, because i just cant say no to family, i love em too much. i cant wait to graduate and the fuck out this current 'life', and country.

oh well, enough Q_Qing from me. just needed to get this out. i did it here because my best friends are in different continents, and this site has got great peeps in it

dont bother replying if u dont want to. flame or troll away to your heart's desire. i know there are tons of people that are in worse condition than mine.

here's a toast for life, for what has happened, what's happening, and whats going to happen in the future.

Well sir I am glad I read until the end. I appreciate this thread, and your way of thinking, keep holding on and as Courage Wolf would say, "Life getting hard? Means God is afraid of your progress!" For the topic, I'm doing pretty well, thanks.

 

[noble cookie]

"Life's a *****, then you die"

Pretty much.