As a gay male, I don't see the problem as questioning your sexuality, but rather questioning your ability to remain faithful. I mean, unless she would never bed with a bisexual man because she is against homosexuality, its pretty obvious that she is questioning your commitment to her. Now if she is okay with bisexuals, then she is, in your own words, "worried". That tells me basically one of three things:
1. You're bisexual, because she's against homosexuality (bisexuality is the coexistence of hetero and homosexuality). She would not stay with you if you were.
2. She's "worried about your eternal soul" or something like that. While personally I'd find that a bit offense, it is sorta sweet, in that it shows she really cares.
3. You're going to cheat on her, particularly with men. There are misconceptions about bisexuals, such as "A bisexual person can't be unhappy unless they are with both genders", which leads to "bisexuals can't be monogamous". I think she may believe that misconception.
So know that I've given my take as to why she asked it (very important so know why, before you can answer as how to react), I'd give the following advice, if the circumstance above is true:
1. It seems that you're fairly alright with homosexuality, but if she isn't, it could drive a wedge between you. Especially if you get married one day, as many people like that see gay union and gay marriage as a threat to their own. She could take hostility and think you demean your relationship by condoning theirs. I've seen a happy, heterosexual couple split over this. I'd probably have a mature talk about it, if it is the case.
2. If its religious fear of what will happen in the afterlife, (assuming she is a Christian) you need to really educate yourself on the Bible. I've discussed with two people who've got a Masters in Divinity, and they both say that its not dangerous, based on a few stories of the Bible (one in particular, where a man has a vision that tells him to eat pork, and that he now has god's grace to do such things). And even if it would be considered sinful, so would eating Red Lobster, or not stoning a potential child to death when it misbehaves. Of course though, this only really needs to be brought up if she persists about your sexuality. Just say "Well even if I were, its okay because..."
3. This is an issue of trust, which means she doesn't completely trust you. This is a big red flag in relationships, and you need to talk about it. She doesn't trust you to not cheat on her (gender of the person doesn't really matter, its the fact you're cheating on her), and she worries she has to keep an eye on men as well as other women when being suspicious. I'm no councilor, so I'd say go to one about it.
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1. You're bisexual, because she's against homosexuality (bisexuality is the coexistence of hetero and homosexuality). She would not stay with you if you were.
2. She's "worried about your eternal soul" or something like that. While personally I'd find that a bit offense, it is sorta sweet, in that it shows she really cares.
3. You're going to cheat on her, particularly with men. There are misconceptions about bisexuals, such as "A bisexual person can't be unhappy unless they are with both genders", which leads to "bisexuals can't be monogamous". I think she may believe that misconception.
So know that I've given my take as to why she asked it (very important so know why, before you can answer as how to react), I'd give the following advice, if the circumstance above is true:
1. It seems that you're fairly alright with homosexuality, but if she isn't, it could drive a wedge between you. Especially if you get married one day, as many people like that see gay union and gay marriage as a threat to their own. She could take hostility and think you demean your relationship by condoning theirs. I've seen a happy, heterosexual couple split over this. I'd probably have a mature talk about it, if it is the case.
2. If its religious fear of what will happen in the afterlife, (assuming she is a Christian) you need to really educate yourself on the Bible. I've discussed with two people who've got a Masters in Divinity, and they both say that its not dangerous, based on a few stories of the Bible (one in particular, where a man has a vision that tells him to eat pork, and that he now has god's grace to do such things). And even if it would be considered sinful, so would eating Red Lobster, or not stoning a potential child to death when it misbehaves. Of course though, this only really needs to be brought up if she persists about your sexuality. Just say "Well even if I were, its okay because..."
3. This is an issue of trust, which means she doesn't completely trust you. This is a big red flag in relationships, and you need to talk about it. She doesn't trust you to not cheat on her (gender of the person doesn't really matter, its the fact you're cheating on her), and she worries she has to keep an eye on men as well as other women when being suspicious. I'm no councilor, so I'd say go to one about it.
Hope I helped
