I dont know who to beleive.
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If she is lying, dump her. Sometimes when the other cheats they deserve atleast one second chance, but if they continue to lie after being found out, then they probably are not going to change. Learn as much of teh truth as you can though first. Too many movie plots caused by people who jump to conclusions.
How could you possibly get back with those two after what happened?
I'd stay away from them until more shit clears up. For now, both seems to be in the wrong.
If nothing new comes up, cut both the bonds. Again, how could you possibly go back to how it is after such shit anyways?
I'd stay away from them until more shit clears up. For now, both seems to be in the wrong.
If nothing new comes up, cut both the bonds. Again, how could you possibly go back to how it is after such shit anyways?
Do you honestly believe that? That she was "forced"?Killercheesepuff said:
Did someone put a gun to her head? Did he rape her? To me, that is "forced". If that is the case, then you should report your friend because he committed a crime. If that is not the case, then I'm sorry but your girlfriend is a lying coward who won't admit that she's to blame, and your "best" friend? Last time I checked, friends don't sleep with their friend's girlfriends.
You're better off without them trust me.
What do rodeo clowns, Glenn Beck, and your girlfriend all have in common?
Sorry, I know, terrible, terrible joke.
BUt seriously, dump that *****. "forced her too" my ass.
Of course, I'm not there and I don't know the exact situation, but honestly I deal with enough friends drama to know that 90% of what they do and say is for pure drama effect. As such, my faith in humanity has dropped a little.
They all work with bullshit!
Sorry, I know, terrible, terrible joke.
BUt seriously, dump that *****. "forced her too" my ass.
Of course, I'm not there and I don't know the exact situation, but honestly I deal with enough friends drama to know that 90% of what they do and say is for pure drama effect. As such, my faith in humanity has dropped a little.
Far too many people. Especially in cases where drugs are used, because they aren't entirely sure of themselves, and by the time they become sure it's too late to do anything about it. I had an ex who was date-raped by a bunch of guys, and whatever they slipped her made her so high she thought she'd dreamed it. Then she saw a few of them out in a club and it started coming back to her, but she never reported it because it had been too long.Swarley said:
This kind of thing is hard. Especially when people don't come clean.
Due to the actual filing of a police report, you should wait it out indeed. It's pretty serious, your (former?) mate can get in LOADS of trouble, and I don't think she'd just do that to him merely to save her good name.
As to what you do afterwards; that's up to you. But remember that you have to make your own life pleasant, no one else can ever make it up to you. You'll have to deal with the emotions yourself.
Due to the actual filing of a police report, you should wait it out indeed. It's pretty serious, your (former?) mate can get in LOADS of trouble, and I don't think she'd just do that to him merely to save her good name.
As to what you do afterwards; that's up to you. But remember that you have to make your own life pleasant, no one else can ever make it up to you. You'll have to deal with the emotions yourself.
He forced her? So, is he a rapist then?
If he "forced her", he is a registered sex offender. And since I really doubt that, she is lying.
If he "forced her", he is a registered sex offender. And since I really doubt that, she is lying.
The obvious weakest link here is actually your friend. Because either way if he is telling the truth or lying he betrayed you. He either willingly enganged in a mutually agreed affair with your girlfriend or (and this seems unlikely) forced her in some way to do so. Either way doesn't paint a good picture.
Still unless she can prove she was violated or he blackmailed her or something it seems unlikely she could ever have been 'forced' to betray your trust. So if it were me I would call it quits, at least until one can disprove the other.
Still unless she can prove she was violated or he blackmailed her or something it seems unlikely she could ever have been 'forced' to betray your trust. So if it were me I would call it quits, at least until one can disprove the other.
Three words- FIND BETTER FRIENDS
Personally I never understood why people have to be so reliant of constant interaction with other human beings. I get along just fine being drip fed friendship by one fantastic friend who visits every couple of days. SO I say fuck those bastards! I bet they talk about you behind your back and suchlike they sound like just the people who would do such a thing. Stop talking to them until they realise what a good friend you were and try to be nice to you.
Personally I never understood why people have to be so reliant of constant interaction with other human beings. I get along just fine being drip fed friendship by one fantastic friend who visits every couple of days. SO I say fuck those bastards! I bet they talk about you behind your back and suchlike they sound like just the people who would do such a thing. Stop talking to them until they realise what a good friend you were and try to be nice to you.
So this girl Megan was dating your friend the sex offender, and she was fine with him 'sexually offending' other women as long as he told her about it?Killercheesepuff said:
That sound like some pretty fucked up and twisted shit, unless you've just used a poor choice of words and what she actually said was:
"It's OK what you do with other women..."
It sounds like you need to get a new group of friends, or at least stop hanging around with sex offenders, and girls who date sex offenders and want to hear all about their dastardly deeds.
Force implies rape. I highly doubt she was 'forced' to. Maybe she felt guilty/doubtful and he convinced her, but I'm sure it's more that she felt horrible after realizing what she had done and is now trying to convince herself that she did nothing wrong by claiming your 'friend' forced her to.
The fact is she cheated on you, and that is something incredibly hard to forgive, especially if you decide to stay in the relationship and work through it. If you love her, and either believe her excuse/reason or her apologies, or if you are hurt, disappointed and think she's lying, break up. You deserve someone who won't cheat on you, or justify their actions after the fact.
But you know the situation better than any of us, so good luck with your choice bud. Sorry to hear about it.
The fact is she cheated on you, and that is something incredibly hard to forgive, especially if you decide to stay in the relationship and work through it. If you love her, and either believe her excuse/reason or her apologies, or if you are hurt, disappointed and think she's lying, break up. You deserve someone who won't cheat on you, or justify their actions after the fact.
But you know the situation better than any of us, so good luck with your choice bud. Sorry to hear about it.
Forced her to?
Either she thinks that persuading is forcing
or
She can pin it on him
or
She's a horrible liar.
In any case, ditch her, talk to your friend, and, seeing on how he is, what he says, etc, probably get rid of him aswell.
Either she thinks that persuading is forcing
or
She can pin it on him
or
She's a horrible liar.
In any case, ditch her, talk to your friend, and, seeing on how he is, what he says, etc, probably get rid of him aswell.
*Note to self: Never get tangled with Paksenarrion*Paksenarrion said:
Ditch the pair dude, you don't need this shit.
(Shes lying to get out of trouble, it's a very lame excuse)