As others have said above me, glad you came to terms, but... you didn't like Elfen Lied? From your description of it, you either only watched a tiny, tiny portion of it, or never understood it at all. It raises valid points about important topics such as rape, dysfunctional families, family dynamics, ostracization, murder, morals, forgiveness, humanity, and so many more. I may or may not be blinded by nostalgia, but Elfen Lied is still one of my favourites. The gore is there to prove and strengthen certain points, and the nudity, well, I don't see how that should bother anyone. I mean, it was never used in a sexual way, and there shouldn't be a reason why anyone should find a naked body disturbing.
All in all, EL is awesome, and definitely not just blood and tits.
/rant