I honestly don't mind, if people around me starts to liek somethign i like.
I never needed to have "my own bands" so i could feel special or something.
The more people there are, who appreciate stuff i like, the more people there are to talk to about said stuff, be it games, music, movies or something else.
I won't start pretending to liek something just cause others do, sure i'll listen to stuff my friends put on, even if it's not what i like, but thats just to not be the ass-hole who says "you can't put that on, cause i disliek it" but i'm not gonan go buy the CD if i din't liek it. But if my friends show me something, and i'm like hey thats actually awesome (and mean it) thats perfect, and also the other way around, cause then we'll have another thing to talk about, or anotehr band we'll both wanna see live, or a game we can play together.
I never really udnerstood how people "got off" on knowing that they liek something which others don't. We all liek stuff, and most of us likes something not a lot of others do, it doesn't make you special, it doesn't make you a rebel, it doesn't make you cool.
So i'm almost disgusted when someone starts whining that a certain band is "their" band, and that people are stealing away their coolness, by liking it as well if it becomes popular.
People are so fucking scared of not beeing super unique in every way possible, not realizing that they are just beeing shallow when they can only define themselves, by the music they listen to and their "style" and starts acting patheticly whiny when they realize that this doesn't make them "cool" or "unique" anymore cause suddenly a lot of people like it.
Well guess what, it never made them cool or unique in the first place, they were clothes and listened to music just like everyone else, and the fact that every otehr peerson now knows their favourite band doens't change them.
I honestly wish most of my friends could find some love for metal, cause then i'd be able to put on the music i liked at parties, without someone instantly changing it to some dance music.