I need a hug...

[Robyrt]

*hugs* I've been in similar situations and they are terrible - but the good news is, it gets better eventually.

I would definitely not burn your bridges with this girl - you may have to put some distance between you for a while as you work through your feelings, but she can still be a good friend. Don't nurse a grudge - promises not to date someone else right before going to college and being exposed to a huge new dating pool are notoriously unreliable, and should generally neither be asked or given.

 

[CloggedDonkey]

Damn, man. Sorry to hear that. You have my condolences, and I think we need to get a digital pint sometime soon. But hey, if it helps, *hug*.

 

[Legion IV]

Find it funny breaking news threads get a some veiws yet these get millions.

Its just a women. I was in a long relationship went on for years. Sure it sucked when it ended but later i finnaly was like ok? Am still happy and fine. Find it odd this needs a fourm topic if you need emotional support you got friends for that. Its just another relationship of the MANY of you will have am sure.

I could go on but am sure i'll be called a troll and everyone will say. You dont know what love is. BS. I very well know what it is and experianed it.

Look it'll suck for a bit but eventually you'll be over it and be sorry to put this on a forum in the first place. Time heals all my friend.

 

[Judgement101]

Actually that EXACT same thing happened to me. (minus the college part) What I did was attempt to forget her, sadly if you have read my one thread you would know I love her. Here's what to do, tell her you fell betrayed and you like her.

 

[Withall]

Have a hug from Sweden *hug*. Wow... The best advice I can give is ask her what made her decide to go against all that she said she wouldn't do. If anything, demand that from her: there must be a very good reason for her to back down from her word.

That is the least you can demand of her. Other than that, learn from what's happened, and for God's sake- EAT A BLOODY SANDWICH!

 

[Ziggy109]

Thanks for the help, everyone. I'm feeling a lot better now and have a much clearer idea of what to do with the situation. Again, thank you all for your encouraging words and support.

 

[Jake the Snake]

Women, well, women can do many things that drive us men absolutely crazy. This would be one of them. I have a "shrug it off, roll with the punches" kind of mentality when it comes to relationships. Does it sting that someone you loved basically kicked your heart in its ass? Yep, you betcha. But trust me, people capable of doing such things without regarding how the other party will feel in the slightest, you're better off without.

To quote the Shins: The worst part is over, now get back on that horse and ride.

Hm...now that I think about it, buy the song Turn On Me by the Shins. I think you might be able to relate to the lyrics quite well. Music can be a great source of therapy

 

[The-Story]

hey there, I'm guessing you've more or less had your debaucle solved. I read the first couple of pages of posts and just wanted to generally shout out to the escapists for being so kind. It's rare to find, even in 'real' life, people who are so supportive and kind and don't fall into these terrible habbits (flaming, calling out, denouncing, etc) that we hear happen in the interwebs so much (I'm looking at you youtube)

Anyway, I wanted to thank everyone for helping this young man here with his problem, and offer my advice if you still need or want it. Times are trying when things like this happen to you but knowing that you have an entire communitee that wishes the best for you and will always be there for you to talk makes a world of difference, between healthy coping, and felating a gun barrell.

You're awesome Escapist.

Hope you're keeping well, friend.

~Nicholas

 

[A-Heart-Of-Gold]

I give you the biggest hug known to man!

this hug will take a while!

 

[Meggiepants]

*Distraction!!!*

Spoiler: Bunny!

Now, seriously, the only good way I've found to get over a broken heart is to keep busy and do something that makes you happy.

I can't honestly give you advice more than that, but if you feel things are too much, you should see a licensed therapist or some other professional to help you. Despite how friendly the people on the Escapist are, it is still the internet, and you have no real idea of their credentials or their intentions. Don't let your health get any worse. See someone. I've seen what depression can do to people, and it ain't pretty.

 

[Nayr]

It's rough and a part of growing good luck *Hug* happens to the best of us, just keep your head high.

 

[Naheal]

Sit down, take a deep breath, give yourself a hug and think to yourself "this, too, shall pass". Now go do something you enjoy.

 

[LostTimeLady]

*Massive hug*

Chin up mate, you sound like just the kind of person that any girl would be honoured to date. You are committed, loyal and honest, all brilliant qualities.

I hope someone very special comes your way really soon and makes you a million times happier than that other girl.
You deserve it.

(P.S. You're right mate, the Escapist has some of the nicest people on the internet on here.)

 

[Lullabye]

*Blegh*
4 pages of googly eyes and rainbow hugs. Who knew the Escapist was so damn nice?
Well, OT: I feel for ya mate. I really do. My only advice would be to stop talking to her since she only seem only deliver you more depressing news.

I know, I'm terrible with people. now excuse me while I head to R&P to wash off all this freakin niceness.

 

[Sir Thomas Sean Connery]

Well, I WAS going to post something nice, but since it looks like it was solved,

here is your hug from someone very special:

[spoiler/][image/]http://www.cognitivedissident.org/images/20100413-pedobear.jpg[/IMG][/spoiler]

 

[Sebenko]

Also, I'd give you a hug but I think the bunny could give a much better one. Oh, what the hell *hug*

Looks like a wild rabbit to me. Probably has fleas. Or myxomatosis. I could list more things, but a disease that

Spoiler: yeah, symptoms aren't nice

Spoiler: text-based eeeew

makes an animal's eyes rot in it's skull

is nasty enough to bust that bubble.

Stick to hugging people. And cats.



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