I need my best friend to realize his girlfriend is worthless

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370999

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lightningmagurn said:
No idea. Try making her hate you enough to drive a wedge between them. That may backfire and get you kicked out on your butt tho. If you have an attractive friend that doesn't know him try to get them to hook up?
I think that is an utterly stupid idea. If I was the friend I would stop being friends over that. Trying to manipulate people into sacrificng their happiness for your comfort under the patronising guise of "knowing what's right" is an utter douchbag thing.
 

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I've been in both positions, yours and his minus the woman looking like a troll and from my experience when couples get together it's quite common to see each other in the first few months so much that it's sickening or to be the friend that misses hanging out with your friend because he found a lady. For your side just have a sit down and tell him your side, leave nothing unsaid even if it might suck to have to say it just be sure to use some tact. I lost a good friend to a similar situation and she dumped him and went back to her ex-husband not long after he moved out to be with her. I felt pretty insulted that a guy I knew since 3rd grade valued a piece of ass more that nearly 20 years of friendship but hey sometimes things dont work out the way we want them to. If he's truely your friend he'll at the very least hear you out, just dont expect all the warnings to sink in. I would also like to suggest one last thing, make sure she hears it too even if they're both in the same room so there's none of this bullshit about not being informed. Some trolls get sneaky when they know their new toy might be considering alternatives.
 

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370999 said:
lightningmagurn said:
No idea. Try making her hate you enough to drive a wedge between them. That may backfire and get you kicked out on your butt tho. If you have an attractive friend that doesn't know him try to get them to hook up?
I think that is an utterly stupid idea. If I was the friend I would stop being friends over that. Trying to manipulate people into sacrificng their happiness for your comfort under the patronising guise of "knowing what's right" is an utter douchbag thing.
Well said, 370999. It sounds to me like the OP is uncomfortable with the fact that his friend has a new interest in his life - very highschool. If you are truly a friend, you will support him in his relationship, comfort him if it goes wrong (of its *own* accord, mind), and try to avoid situations where you will be tempted to say or do something non-constructive. I'm not suggesting you have to become best friends with this girl too, but try to remain neutral toward her. If she really is trying to bug you, the more you rise to it, the more she'll do it. The most effective thing you can do is nothing.
 

DatCracker

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Slap a ho.

Bitches need to be taught respect.

Keep your pimp hand strong, man.

Keep it strong.
 

Izakflashman

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myogaman said:
Izakflashman said:
That sounds like a great idea!

I wrote you a little ditty, I hope it helps. (Sorry for the tinniness, I didn't exactly take my time. Ha ha)

http://www.newgrounds.com/audio/listen/373520
My god...thank you :'D
No problem man =). I read your initial post and I felt it deserved something more. Your descriptions of things are epic btw.

k-ossuburb said:
I downloaded that for its sheer awesomeness. Anyway, loved it and it's now sitting in my music collection ready to be launched at the most opportune moment, I'm sure it'll come in handy at some point, I'm sure. Actually, this would make a great intro for a vlog.
Ha ha awesome, If you ever use it for anything I gotta hear the story or see the link =D.
 

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Izakflashman said:
k-ossuburb said:
I downloaded that for its sheer awesomeness. Anyway, loved it and it's now sitting in my music collection ready to be launched at the most opportune moment, I'm sure it'll come in handy at some point, I'm sure. Actually, this would make a great intro for a vlog.
Ha ha awesome, If you ever use it for anything I gotta hear the story or see the link =D.
Only if you don't mind me cutting it down a little, mostly just getting rid of the speaking part at the beginning since that would grate on people after a while. I do actually hope to start vlogging soon, I just don't have a decent camera or editing software to do it right now.
 

Izakflashman

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k-ossuburb said:
Izakflashman said:
k-ossuburb said:
I downloaded that for its sheer awesomeness. Anyway, loved it and it's now sitting in my music collection ready to be launched at the most opportune moment, I'm sure it'll come in handy at some point, I'm sure. Actually, this would make a great intro for a vlog.
Ha ha awesome, If you ever use it for anything I gotta hear the story or see the link =D.
Only if you don't mind me cutting it down a little, mostly just getting rid of the speaking part at the beginning since that would grate on people after a while. I do actually hope to start vlogging soon, I just don't have a decent camera or editing software to do it right now.
Oh yeah, of course, Get rid of that beginning bit. I know I wouldn't want to listen to it more than a few times.
 

myogaman

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I'd hate to re-awaken this old whore of a thread but we had a bro moment and turns out he's already slept with her. And somehow that made everything smooth. I really don't care now because I know my best friend cares and that makes it all better. I told him that nothing he could do would make me angry and that I'd always be there to help and then, drifting off into the drunken haze I find myself in now, I went into my room to type this post.

So everything will be alright.
I've done everything I can.
And although it may sound gay, I'll never lose my best friend to anything.
12 years strong, I'm sure we could add a few dozen more years to it.