Well, ignore the cloud comment, I was talking to someone else. Also feel free to ignore the first sentence of the second paragraph, I speak my mind online quite often. The second sentence seems like good advice to me though.NeonZebra said:
i need romance help!
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Ok, out comes Wikipedia.NeonZebra said:
He means if you end up having Sex [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex] with this girl, then use a Condom [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Condom] to avoid her getting Pregnant [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pregnant].
You should've had "The Talk" by now...
Aww, thanks.Major_Sam said:
I don't know if you really want help at THIS point, (24 posts into the thread) but it's pretty simple.... either you think she still likes you more, in which case you will try.
Or she likes the other person more, and you will try something outrageous to get her to notice you.
Or she likes the other guy more and doesn't care about what you try.
Or she likes you more and doesn't care about what you try because you fucked up.
... it's not like the movies. Either she knows you and is considering hooking up with you, or she knows what she wants and is going to marry the person anyway.
Or she likes the other person more, and you will try something outrageous to get her to notice you.
Or she likes the other guy more and doesn't care about what you try.
Or she likes you more and doesn't care about what you try because you fucked up.
... it's not like the movies. Either she knows you and is considering hooking up with you, or she knows what she wants and is going to marry the person anyway.
Where? [img="http://i524.photobucket.com/albums/cc328/LazarusLong6/mikevatar.jpg"]Cpt_Oblivious said:
EDIT: Gah! Well, just imagine there's a little picture here of Mike looking the other way.
Yeah, at your age, I would say that a friend is more important than a girlfriend. Especially a female friend. My friends in my early teens were almost all girls, and I think that helped a lot with my then-developing empathy. Of course, it did sweet FA for helping me understand the blasted creatures. Be her friend, her Duckie if need be. If something should develop later on, when you're both older and better prepared for an adult relationship, then huzzah!NeonZebra said:
Knowing teenagers the way I think I do, let me put it to you this way: Where would you rather be on her chronological list of boyfriends? The beginning, or the end?
What are you, 13? oh wait.
Honestly, this isn't exactly a forum where I'd expect that kind of post, but never the less, you'll get no where in life if you don't have some ability to make these *sarcasm* incredibly tough calls *end sarcasm* for yourself.
Not forgetting that you are 13... does it matter? There's far more important things and if she did go out with you it'd likely be for a few weeks, adults would watch on and comment about how sweet or cute it is, then you'll be bored of each other and move on.
Honestly, this isn't exactly a forum where I'd expect that kind of post, but never the less, you'll get no where in life if you don't have some ability to make these *sarcasm* incredibly tough calls *end sarcasm* for yourself.
Not forgetting that you are 13... does it matter? There's far more important things and if she did go out with you it'd likely be for a few weeks, adults would watch on and comment about how sweet or cute it is, then you'll be bored of each other and move on.
Ladies and Gentleman, an open-minded individual who doesn't bother to state his own opinion.Simriel said:
Don't ask her out right away on 'a date'. Spend some more time with her 'as friends'. Invite a few other people along so she doesn't feel uncomfortable and then late make then dissappear. Stuff like that. Once you've made headway there, think careful before you make the jump. If your patient, things might not work out with th other guy (they often don't) and you can come in 'as a friend' on the rebound.
Well, I wish you luck and courage in your attempts. Don't worry, it might be a little weird after you ask her out (especially if she rejects you) but that won't last. I'm speaking from experience here, so yeah.
I'd suggest that you don't act timid or doubt yourself. Again, speaking from experience. This girl I liked from ages rejected me, then we became friends again, and I found out the only reason she rejected me was because I doubted myself too much and was a little too depressed. But I digress.
Some people might say ignore her and focus on your studies, but I know that if you really like her, that'll be almost impossible. So I'd say ask her sooner rather than later and avoid losing your chance to tell her how you feel.
Again, good luck and I hope fate smiles upon you.
I'd suggest that you don't act timid or doubt yourself. Again, speaking from experience. This girl I liked from ages rejected me, then we became friends again, and I found out the only reason she rejected me was because I doubted myself too much and was a little too depressed. But I digress.
Some people might say ignore her and focus on your studies, but I know that if you really like her, that'll be almost impossible. So I'd say ask her sooner rather than later and avoid losing your chance to tell her how you feel.
Again, good luck and I hope fate smiles upon you.
Keep at it. Persistance and patients works better than anything. And who knows, you might find you really like the girl, or you might find you don't and manage to avoide embarrassment, heartbreak and anger.NeonZebra said:
That's the worst way to be let down. Ever. In my experience, girls trying to let you down lightly end up doing the most damage.corroded said:
Seriously, personality is way better to have than looks. I see the good looking people go out and split up after a week. But I see the guys with an awesome personality staying with their girlfriend for ages.NeonZebra said:
I was quoting on an iPod. Not exactly good for text heavy replies. Also, saying 'Use a condom' is pretty much tantamount to saying 'its okay for 13 year olds to have sex' and while schools DO need to focus more on children's individual talents, at the end of the day, if I had not gone to school, I would still have my vast intellect, but I would have far less knowledge.bushwhacker2k said: