I require dating advice.

[the_hessian]

Next time you're there make some small talk and get your name in there, making an opening for a proper introduction, but before you slip out the shop ask her if it would be okies to look her up on whatever networking site she's on. Which you already know of course, creepy creepy man, though it's exactly what I'd do. Or you could slip her your mobile number with the parting line of "Give me a call sometime."
It's about 6 and two 3's when it comes to the success of either course of action, you could try both if one doesn't work. Then of course just react accordingly, if you get somewhere then keep it up, if not then ease it off and try again later.

 

[supermaster1337]

i'm no expert on this but maybe you could wait outside of the supermarket and try to casualy walk in to her when her shift is over and then ask her out .

im not trying to be mean, but wont this kinda seem like he is stalking her? Just wondering. maybe "accidentally" catching her off her shift but not waiting outside the whole time.

 

[Shrubery]

i'm no expert on this but maybe you could wait outside of the supermarket and try to casualy walk in to her when her shift is over and then ask her out .

im not trying to be mean, but wont this kinda seem like he is stalking her? Just wondering. maybe "accidentally" catching her off her shift but not waiting outside the whole time.

hmmm yeh didn't think about it that way :s

ignore my advice and good luck OP !

 

[Specter_]

[small] Awww..
So Cute![/small]

Sorry, I've no advice, but it seems like you're in an adorable situation...

+1

 

[Lord_Ascendant]

*thinks*

Just do it. Don't be afraid to have someone say no. Sure it isn't nice but its not going to kill you.

 

[garfoldsomeoneelse]

 

[Hoxton]

what the fuck dude?
lmao

 

[Hoxton]

Ask her the following questions: "What is your name?" "How old are you?" then "Are you single?" No need to be coy, a man should be direct. Seriously, you may be getting yourself all worked up over nothing. Some men interpret "friendliness" as flirting (and some girls are just shameless cockteases).

If she says she is single then get her phone number. Then WALK AWAY. Call her soon (within a day or two) and invite her to coffee. Good luck!

OMG it's SULIK WAAAAHHH!!!!!

 

[Rascarin]

... but before you slip out the shop ask her if it would be okies to look her up on whatever networking site she's on.

No. Social Networking is NOT a pick-up. Ever.

Facebook/MySpace/Whatever is for nerds and stalkers. Honestly, if she's interested, she'll think more of you if you just ASK HER OUT or ask for her number.

 

[lykopis783]

No/. Social Networking is NOT a pick-up. Ever.

Facebook/MySpace/Whatever is for nerds and stalkers. Honestly, if she's interested, she'll think more of you if you just ASK HER OUT or ask for her number.

Gotta agree. If it's someone you've never met or seen, becoming friendly on a social network is fine, whatever. But if it's a person you have the chance to interact with in-person, then going the social networking route rather than just talking to them seems weird.

 

[tyleroi]

Movie is an okay option but coffee is usually better; you actually get to talk and look AT each other rather then both sitting there starting at a movie not talking. Really, anything you can talk naturally while doing is best. Best bet of all is probably something really different and unique that you like doing. Plus, going out for coffee and discussing movies and learning you both want to go see X means that you have date 2 on a silver platter.

Also, as its been said before, you pretty much have to man up and ask her out; if you don't someone else will. Its not going to be pretty but you pretty much gotta go for it. Steel yourself and jump into the breach; treat it like a boss fight or something

Good luck my man; keep us posted.

 

[GodsOneMistake]

Heres what you do buy nothing but sticks of brotwurst... And when shes about done look right into her eyes and say "so i see your pretty good at handling a mans meat" than just walk out without any buying any of the meat

 

[Arachon]

Serenade her. In the middle of the supermarket.

For best results, use a small stringed instrument, and sing an Italian love song. You know the kind, all drawn out words and stereotypical Italian musical sound.

Nononono, grab your wingman (or RIO) and do a duo of "You've lost that loving feeling", it ALWAYS works.

 

[Xvito]

Here's the deal:

Since a couple weeks, ive been having a crush on this checkout girl at a local supermarket. First time I saw her she gave me this really warm smile. You know, the kind you'll keep thinking about after. Second time I saw her (I chose her counter on purpose) our eyes met and we smiled at each other for what seemed a very long time. I started to think she liked me too, so the third time I met her, I decided to try and talk to her. It was pretty quiet that day, and we had some small talk about the weather and stuff. She told me she only works on weekends and that its a part time job for her vacation. So I told her we'd meet again next week and she laughed and agreed.

Frankly, I feel like im on the right track here. But I think the situation is a little bit complicated. For one, we havent introduced yet. And for two, HOW am I gonna ask her out? Both of these points have one problem, she works behind a counter, and Im afraid I might embarras her if I introduce myself like that or ask her out.

I also contacted the filthy stalker inside of me and found out that shes on a social networking site ( I know her name because of her tag). But I dont feel like I could add her just like that without first introducing myself to her properly, or she might think im creepy.

Maybe Im just thinking too much. Ive already thought up alot of the worst case scenarios. (from no, to GOD NO!, to everyone in the place laughing at me)

How do you think is the best way to aproach this situation?

Ask her out... That's it, there's nothing more to it.

 

[painfull2006]

you could buy something saddening so she feels sorry for you then maybe she will make the first step if you say something like "I just really need someone to be with" or something

Don't ask me what something saddening is i have no idea
Im really not the guy to talk to about this

On the other hand you could be all ninja like and 'Bump' Into her when she is on the way out of work, then i guess ask if she wants to get some coffee, you might want to make a bit more small talk over the checkout before hand though

Good luck my friend

 

[AbsoluteVirtue18]

"you know what, im just gonna ask this. When do you finish working?"

Works like a charm.

DONT i repeat DONT use a crappy pickup line.

What this guy said.

 

[Nmil-ek]

Stare at her chest, ALOT, women love that.

 

[0p3rati0n]

ok how friggin creepy if the women your talking about is a member of this website and she sees this thread! I have no advice but that just popped up in my head. LOL that would be creepy. Any way good luck ^_^

 

[renner-08]

i'm no expert on this but maybe you could wait outside of the supermarket and try to casualy walk in to her when her shift is over and then ask her out .

dont do that she'll think you're stalking her

EDIT: dammit ninja'd again!