I think my parents might think I'm gay...also I have bad parents...slightly

[Quiet Stranger]

Now I've been wondering this for a while now and I think my parents think I'm gay, or there's something wrong with me. Tonight my dad had brought over my brothers stuff from my brothers old place, when he left I think he was eyeing my pink pillow case with an anime girl on it. If you must know, it is from the "Record of Agarest War" collectors edition and I only got the game for the collectors edition (I'm crazy about these things) but he was eyeing it for longer then then just looking at it, he also had a certain look on his face, almost like a look of disgust.

Now my mother, while I was in her room talking to her, a Twilight Eclipse commercial came on the TV and she said "Look *insert my name here* it's your favorite show" now...why would she say that? That's not even funny, it just...FUCK it makes me so angry, I fucking hate when people make jokes about that, it's in bad taste and not funny (I fucking hate that series) so why would she do this??? Last but not least she has made two fat jokes about me recently....and I'm not even fat.


So my question is what should I do? Should I talk to them about this or just grin and bear it and have my paranoid mind put thoughts into my head? Also what do you think of parents who judge their own kids?

 

[delet]

You're paranoid. Be comfortable with your own sexuality and ignore them. What the fuck does it matter what they think?

 

[The_Healer]

Bring the hottest girl round that you can reasonably pull.
That will shut them up.

Otherwise just chill, who cares what they think. You are your own person and eventually they will stop misinterpreting your likes and dislikes.

 

[Rusty pumpkin]

their parents. its their goal to bother the hell out of you. this is why im moving to maine in a few years.

 

[Quiet Stranger]

You're paranoid. Be comfortable with your own sexuality and ignore them. What the fuck does it matter what they think?

Well I live with them.....plus if they're gonna start do it constantly

 

[Quiet Stranger]

You're almost 20 ffs. Perhaps in that time you might have learned that when someone takes the piss out of you, the only way to handle it well is to brush it off and laugh along. Grow up, stop sleeping on pillowcases with anime girls on (that look of disgust was both warranted and NOTHING to do with anyone thinking you're gay - he thinks you're pathetic), and stop whining.

I have to hate you but also slightly respect you because of your avatar, now how the fuck was that look warranted??

 

[Julianking93]

I agree with Aby. Why does it matter?

Even if you were, who gives a shit? If they think it's bad or something, fuck 'em.

Not literally of course, but you know what I mean.

My parents think I'm gay and I don't care. I'm comfortable with myself and I know who I am.

Don't let it get to you.

 

[Satin6T]

bahahahaha
honestly just bring home a girl
or let them find some of your porn
that'll work
but i don't really recommend the second one unless you can't pull an attractive girl

 

[PHOENIXRIDER57]

Do you watch Glee (bad question) but a character struggling with sexuality has this problem with his dad. He brings a girl home and puts a sign on his door that reads: Do not enter, I'm making out with a girl. Ha, classic.

But I would just not care. If it really bothers you, next time they say anything about it just blurt out, "I'm not fucking gay!" and that should send the message to your parents that they should stop making jokes about you.

 

[RhombusHatesYou]

I think your parents might be gay. You should confront them about it.

 

[EboMan7x]

The Pillow: Well frankly, I'm a bit grossed out about things resembling Japanese love pillows as well.

Twilight: That doesn't have to do with sexuality, its just because she knows you don't like it.

 

[DMonkey]

You're almost 20 ffs. Perhaps in that time you might have learned that when someone takes the piss out of you, the only way to handle it well is to brush it off and laugh along. Grow up, stop sleeping on pillowcases with anime girls on (that look of disgust was both warranted, and NOTHING to do with anyone thinking you're gay - he thinks you're pathetic), and stop whining.

I will have to say this too.
Sorry.
Time to grow up, friend.
When you do, you will be laughing about this.

 

[DarthFennec]

Move out? That's what I did. Simplified everything ^_^

 

[Gralian]

Are you gay? If not, just put on some girl-on-girl porn on your computer. And crank the speakers up nice and loud. Then when they walk in mortified they might get the message.

If you are gay or not, you could always just come out with it. "I hope you don't think i'm gay." or just say if you are. Or if neither one of those options are suitable, and it looks like they're going to ask you outright, you could just say 'my sexuality is none of your business'.

You could always introduce your dad to the metrosexual culture if you're not gay, i think an anime-girl pillowcase would seem pretty tame by comparison.

 

[delet]

You're paranoid. Be comfortable with your own sexuality and ignore them. What the fuck does it matter what they think?

Well I live with them.....plus if they're gonna start do it constantly

Yea, I live with my parents too. Maybe I'm disconnected, but I pretty much don't see them at all and they attempt small talk every now and again but it's obvious that neither of us really care.

And again, you should feel comfortable with your own sexuality. So your dad doesn't like your pink hug pillow? Put it away, or ignore it. If you're ashamed of it because of your dad, then you should put it away if you can't take it. So you can't take a light joke by your from your mom? I hate to say it, but man up. It's a joke; you need to learn to roll with it.

Stop taking everything so personally, or confront your parents about it if it's really getting to you.

 

[Sikachu]

You're almost 20 ffs. Perhaps in that time you might have learned that when someone takes the piss out of you, the only way to handle it well is to brush it off and laugh along. Grow up, stop sleeping on pillowcases with anime girls on (that look of disgust was both warranted and NOTHING to do with anyone thinking you're gay - he thinks you're pathetic), and stop whining.

I have to hate you but also slightly respect you because of your avatar, now how the fuck was that look warranted??

You have a picture of an anime girl on your pillow. You. Have. A. Picture. Of. An. Anime. Girl. On. Your. Pillow. You... Have... etc. you get the point.

 

[Luftwaffles]

Let them catch you watching porn. Subtle yet effective.
If you dont like the idea of actually having them watch you watching porn, get a few dirty mags or dvds and leave them somewhere.

 

[Nmil-ek]

Yeah anime pillow case aint helping your uhh case, it's creepy and no not eccentric or whatever you have convinced yourself creepy.

Ask yourself do you really want to look like this guy?