I wish I was a gay man...(updated on Page 4)

[Psykoma]

I swear to you I am not, in any way, joking about this. I struggle with this, just about every day of my life.

The thing is I'm not sure why, but it seems the older I get the more I feel like being Hetro is just...I mean all the horrible things Hetro people have done.

I feel guilty, by proxy.

Sexuality doesn't determine your morality.

Honestly the only hatred I've received for being myself was from LGBT people. Asses are found amongst heterosexual and homosexual groups indiscriminately, so are good people.

Honestly, I don't mean to offend. But get your ass to a psychiatrist. You really sound like you need one.

 

[Vicarious Reality]

It is probably because men are more naive than women, and homo relationships are stronger because the people are more similar and less scared of the unknown sex

Also, the bits are just much noticeable on men

 

[Valis88]

Honestly the only hatred I've received for being myself was from LGBT people.

Wait...really? In what way? I've never hard that before.

I will seek professional help for myself but, I just wish I knew why I feel this way. I guess when I see stuff like the articles I posted, I yearn to be on the other side of that sexual segregation.

 

[Zhukov]

The thing is I'm not sure why, but it seems the older I get the more I feel like being Hetro is just...I mean all the horrible things Hetro people have done.

I feel guilty, by proxy.

Huh?

That makes no sense.

It would be like me feeling guilty about all the horrible things that have been done by people who have grey eyes and like iced coffee.

 

[Kae]

Honestly the only hatred I've received for being myself was from LGBT people.

Wait...really? In what way? I've never hard that before.

I will seek professional help for myself but, I just wish I knew why I feel this way. I guess when I see stuff like the articles I posted, I yearn to be on the other side of that sexual segregation.

Ma'am there are jerks on all sides, every single side has a whole lot of jerks, it just may seem to you like Hetero's are the jerkiest, because there are way more of them, therefore there are more jerks there, but labeling the entirety of heterosexuals jerks is a little extreme and very wrong, besides you have no reason to feel guilty of what other people have done, now considering everything you have said, I really doubt we can help you here, and as you said you should probably go see a psychologist or therapist or psychiatrist or whatever it is those guys are called, anyway good luck with that problem of yours.

 

[Strazdas]

I think you just need to find a guy like mr in your life and you would see all the problems you so worried about arent real.

 

[Doclector]

*sigh* I just wish I could belong somewhere, to someone, to an organization, peoples, and culture...but not the one I belong to now...

The grass isn't greener on the other side?

If it isn't then how can we work on making heterosexuality less the bane of jerks, ignorants, and other complete undesirables.

I can never say that I'm proud of who I am. :/

I can remember feeling that. If you don't fit in anywhere, it's so easy to look at the unified LGBT movement and want in on it, but the fact is that you can't force that kind of thing. If you're straight, you're straight, nothing's gonna change that. You'll eventually find somewhere you fit in, if you just don't stop looking.

As for relationships, stop thinking about it so much. The pursuit of a relationship when there's no-one right for you around has destroyed many a person.

I wonder whether I should tell you to give up completely, but it's unlikely that's necessary. My situation is that I am far too hideous for any affection to ever be reciprocated, yours is different, you could start looking out of town and for anyone who isn't completely abonimable, it's definately possible to find someone, but I don't want to set you on the track to desperately searching everywhere you can. Just try to enjoy yourself, and forget about getting into a relationship as much as possible.

Hope it helps.

 

[Grygor]

Honestly the only hatred I've received for being myself was from LGBT people.

Wait...really? In what way? I've never hard that before.

Well for starters, hatred/distrust of bisexuals - especially bisexual women - is rampant in the lesbian and gay communities, to say nothing of the hatred for religious or conservative homosexuals. Or the chasm between effeminate and masculine gay men. And so on and so forth...

The fact of the matter is that LGBT people are every bit as small-minded as their straight peers.

 

[BiscuitTrouser]

The thing is I'm not sure why, but it seems the older I get the more I feel like being Hetro is just...I mean all the horrible things Hetro people have done.

I feel guilty, by proxy.

This is biggoted.

You feel that simply by sharing a simple feature with some people it makes you responsible or even related to them? Not at all! I cant feel guilty for people who like ice cream. And you feel the best way to escape the "guilt" of those dirty ignorant evil straights is to join the super nice do no evil other side? Both sides are PEOPLE. They are just people. Assigning "personality" to a sexuality is steriotyping and its biggotted. It was pretty damn likely Hitler was gay. Should all gay people feel guilty? Should all vegetarians feel guilty about hitler? NO! Of course not! It has NOTHING to do with anything! Nothing at all. No one should feel guilty about what that guy did since they have nothing to do with him.

If it isn't then how can we work on making heterosexuality less the bane of jerks, ignorants, and other complete undesirables.

Youve used bane wrong and youve applied a pretty offencive steriotype. The gay community isnt the saints you want to think they are.

A gay friend of mine was wronged recently by another gay person. Can you handle the guilt by proxy you will feel for this incident should you beocme a gay man?

 

[hazabaza1]

To be honest, this thread kind of feels insulting. The whole, 'guilt by proxy' thing.
Also, hate to say it, but I'm finding it hard to take you seriously when your avatar is Mid-Boss.