The sheer volume of relationshp threads that pop up here is staggering and I'm amazed at the amount of good advice that people give, bu I'm also amazed how many people seem to be stuck in that 13 year-old phase where they glumly wonder where they can go to meet a girl who will do everything for them, and will attempt to justify themselves with "I have low self-confidence!" as if it's some kind of catch-all excuse for ineptness.
And yeah, one thing I learned here recently, and I may as well go for a negative since I already talk about loving this site enough, is that mysoginy is truly alive and well, even among some of the more "polite" discussion groups on the internet.
I've seen it all here, folks, and in just a few recent weeks! Here are examples!
1 "My girlfriend dumped me, therefore it's all her fault!"
2 "I had one bad experience in a relationship, so all women are therefore harpies!"
3 "She dumped me and then went out with another guy, therefore she's a slut who just wanted an excuse to get with him!"
4 "Women think I'm wierd and sef-centred! They must ALL be thick!"
5 "Women go for arrogant jerks over a guy like me? why, they must all be blind!"
6 "she's making choices I don't understand or approve of? well, I'll show her I respect her by judging her harshly for them!"
7 "Women can 'pick and choose' whoever they are attracted to, us men have it tough!"
8 "Some feminist groups have made silly statements/decisions, therefore feminism as a movement must be totally devoid of value!"
9 "She placed me in the friend zone! she must just be doing it because she's foolish, if I pose as her friend and gain a position of trust, only to try to manipulate her behind her back by doing nice things for her to an utterly spineless degree in the hopes it will inexplicably gain her affection so that I don't have to make a stand and rock the boat, I'll definetly prove what a great guy I am and how much I respect her!"