If you had the ability to choose you idea partner...
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Someone who can stand talking to me for more than 5 minutes. 
Seriously though, I'd like for a girl to be someone who will give me that extra push. Someone to really inspire me, help me to be more optimistic. I'm not sure if we'd have similar tastes, but if not, then I'd like for her to respect my differences from hers and not let that get in way of how we feel about each other. I may not be the easiet person to get along with, but I'd suspect that one girl would still like me regardless of my flaws, and would need me as much as I'd need her.
Oh, and appearance-wise, she'd have a slight goth influence.
Cause yeah.
Seriously though, I'd like for a girl to be someone who will give me that extra push. Someone to really inspire me, help me to be more optimistic. I'm not sure if we'd have similar tastes, but if not, then I'd like for her to respect my differences from hers and not let that get in way of how we feel about each other. I may not be the easiet person to get along with, but I'd suspect that one girl would still like me regardless of my flaws, and would need me as much as I'd need her.
Oh, and appearance-wise, she'd have a slight goth influence.
Cause yeah.
Well if giving i would chooooose a girl of mein dreams.....great bod...great hair that changes weekly.....eyes...that just are blue...a republican historian....ohhhhhhhh and a German....OHHHHHHH...well i got to excited.
I did find my ideal girl once. And she stepped on me on her way into the arms of another man... who dumped her as soon as she got pregnant. Ouch karma is a ***** aint it?
My fiance is certainly not the ideal I was looking for. Hell, our first date was an unmitigated disaster. Been together almost three years and we are blissfully happy together.
So, in my opinion, you can't create your perfect mate. Because you can't really know who you'd find happiness with until you've already found them. Being in love is finding that someone's faults attract you as much as their perfections.
My fiance is certainly not the ideal I was looking for. Hell, our first date was an unmitigated disaster. Been together almost three years and we are blissfully happy together.
So, in my opinion, you can't create your perfect mate. Because you can't really know who you'd find happiness with until you've already found them. Being in love is finding that someone's faults attract you as much as their perfections.
I'd have to point in the general direction of my girlfriend, heavily implying that yes, it is indeed my girlfriend.
a girl that has been genetically engineered to be perfect with a few alterations such as a doubled life span, pointed ears, and red hair as a dominant trait
as for her personality i want her to be absolutely brilliant but also absolutely adore me and completely subservient as well as liking everything i like
as for her personality i want her to be absolutely brilliant but also absolutely adore me and completely subservient as well as liking everything i like
hmm...
married woman here. I say the ideal person should be a surprise. If I had made a list, my husband may never have made the cut. But ... aww geez... he completes me. (barf)
Honestly, he just makes me a better person. He softens my edges, I create edges in him. make sense? no? just me? okay.
married woman here. I say the ideal person should be a surprise. If I had made a list, my husband may never have made the cut. But ... aww geez... he completes me. (barf)
Honestly, he just makes me a better person. He softens my edges, I create edges in him. make sense? no? just me? okay.
The concept of making up my own partner - seems bizarre. Like I'm ordering from a catalog. Even if I could conjure up this person, who says they'd choose me? Who says that I am AT ALL, their ideal partner?
And even if I made him/her want me or love me, it wouldn't seem right. I think what's even more bizarre is some of the people just describing themselves with a different pair of sexual organs (or whatever genitalia you find appealing).XD
Really, my husband is my ideal partner; differences, flaws, quirks, weird fears an all. (Ugh,.. so corny)
And even if I made him/her want me or love me, it wouldn't seem right. I think what's even more bizarre is some of the people just describing themselves with a different pair of sexual organs (or whatever genitalia you find appealing).XD
Really, my husband is my ideal partner; differences, flaws, quirks, weird fears an all. (Ugh,.. so corny)
Well excuse me, I didn't realize that we had Mr. Hefner is this forum. /sarcasmDeadlyYellow said:
OT: Preferably a girl who accepts my faults and excels at seeing my heavily veiled emotions and the ability to see past my "whatever" attitude and see what I really mean. But I think that is just what everyone kind of wants. But I'll be honest, I wouldn't someone innocent who wouldn't mind getting 'dirty'. Be honest, we would love a little bit of that.
I've already chosen my ideal partner, and she's chosen me. And I can't imagine being happier than I am when I'm with her. She's perfect, I can't believe I've got her.
yeah, that would be nice. call me shallow however, but i do not think i could be in a relationship with someone i do not find attractive. to be fair, this varies a LOT depending on how much i like someone, but if i cant look at someone, how am i supposed to love them?bruein said:
but besides acceptance and understanding, someone who is at least mildly interested in my interests, and vice versa, and who is social enough to be able to talk to and be fun to bring to places and do things.