Thought i'd share another of my random essays with you dudes/dudettes =P. Realise it might be perceived as somewhat preachy, but thats not the intention man, just thought id share some general ideas i guess. =).
Whereever you are in life, no matter how dark it might seem, know that there is always hope and light at the end of the tunnel, and that the forces of light will always prevail over darkness.
The Human rat-race
Why is the human race called the human race? Is life really a race? What are we racing towards so quickly? Getting old? Death? Seems a bit stupid to be racing towards death to me, for this reason i shall stubbornly consider "the human race" to be a wholly inappropriate name for our species, and as such shall endeavour to not title it so in future.
What makes a human being a human being? What is humanity? If you keep saying "human" a few times why does it not even sound like a word anymore?, it sounds almost Chinese in origin. I think there are a few distinct traits that make a human being a human being, and not a parasite (although parasites do share at least one good human trait, that i shall elaborate on further in these apparent ramblings).
So what (in my humble opinion) makes a "human being"?
Love - To love one another regardless of our differences, to try to understand the differences that each of us have, to help each other throughout life, rather than trip each other up, But most fundamentally i think to truly love is to put others in front of ourselves.
Compassion - To put ones self/mind in another fellow humans situation, to "feel what they feel" out of love and empathy. To share their pain and to help to ease their burden. To be compassionate towards others that are in pain/suffering or in a worse situation than ourselves, this i think is part of what it means to be human.
Respect - To show respect to our fellow human beings is an important thing, Respect i feel is born out of love and compassion, and i think it is the ability to consider others thoughts and feelings to be equal to our own, regardless of whether or not we agree with them

Too little respect can be a bad thing, but as can too much. Too much respect unduly awarded could be considered to overly inflate our fellow human's ego. And there is truly nothing uglier than an overinflated ego. *note - Perhaps though i am wrong about this,as maybe too much respect is never a bad thing, and to judge the respect that you show to others as 'over-inflating' their ego, could maybe considered somewhat judgemental, and thus un-cool/non-triumphant. =P
Humbleness - We are all equals in this world. The world wants you to think that this is not so, it wants to tempt you with power (Money, over-Inflated ego, E.t.c) and then try and get you to use that power over your fellow human beings (to further only yourself). I say to you rather than see whatever good things life awards you with, as "power" or an asset to only yourself, instead see them as a "responsibility to others".
If the wholy

righteous dude that is Jesus is willing to wash the smelly feet of his follower dudes, and if you consider Jesus to be son of God, (and even if you don't =) then be cool to each other as we are all equals and no man/woman should be considered above another. Treat your fellow human beings with the respect they deserve, whether they be a street urchin or the king/queen of England.
Faithfulness / Trust / Truth - Whether in terms of God or man/woman, faith and trust in God/each other, is i think, an extremely important asset to have.
When in a relationship it is important to know that your other half is faithful to you, as otherwise seeds of doubt are easily planted in your mind. And seeds of doubt when given a mild sprinkling of paranoia, quickly bloom into little tiny seedlings of uncertainty, these seedlings of uncertainty if not plucked out, will grow up into fully grown flowers of despair, whose cruel pollen will then breed more flowers of despair, and give rise to a whole field of nasty little evil flowers. And that is totally not cool.
Sooooo....
What plants seeds of doubt? Lies for one. However seemingly small or trivial will always plant seeds of doubt.
Par Exampler...
Well he/she lied about that, so maybe their lying about where they were, or who they were with e.t.c. And so i cannot stress the importance of trying (*trying at first, if you are prone to a bit of fiberaci

to tell the truth, at all times, even when it does not benefit yourself. Otherwise you are perhaps unwittingly planting little seeds of doubt into your loved ones sub-conscious, and this will just not do, if you love them and want to stay with them, which im sure you do. =P. These weeds of doubt when enough have been planted will try to undermine any tree of trust that is growing in your proverbial gardens. =P. Be aware of this.
Hope / Resilience - Resilience is, i think, "Hopes" tougher more bad-ass big brother. It could be said, in my humble opinion, that in its rawest form, it is the will to live. Perhaps "resilience" is the protector of its little brother "hope" =P.
Resilience is the fighting spirit that keeps us going no matter how tough the going gets, no matter how dark it gets, no matter how painful, with true resilience, you will keep fighting until your last breath. Parasites though also have resilience, so what sets us aside from parasites?
When you combine love with resilience you get something very special. You get the ability to withstand great oppression, to stand against your enemies even when your legs are all gnarly and broken and you are outnumbered 100 to 1. Why? To do what is right. To defend those that cannot defend themselves.
Add younger brother "hope" to this mix, and you will know, that you will not lose, even though it seems the odds are stacked 1,000,000 to 1 against you. Not only that but you will face your enemies with a smile on your face, a middle finger extended in their general direction and a glint in your eye.
Looking death straight in the eye and saying "that all you got?", to protect the innocent, to love each other, and to try to do what is right and just.
Human beings though are far from perfect. We are easily tempted by things. We make mistakes and take paths in life that are not cool. We can be envious or jealous of others. Negative traits can start to consume us if we are not careful, which lead to bad feelings, and these can spread to affect others also. To prevent this from happening - perhaps as Jesus generally said, *disclaimer* might not be his exact words though (dont wanna get smited or anything man

. More than anything love one another, as it covers over a multitude of sins. And to be fair the dude is kinda talking sense. =P.
You only really get stronger by swimming up a stream, its far easier to give up and go downstream with the current, but if your a koi carp and you happen to make it to the top of the stream, then apparently you become a dragon, which is kinda awesome. Haha and so ends pointless mini-fish story.
The only person your really competing with in life, is yourself, so hey dudes/dudettes, less of the human rat-race and more of the human-chilledness please.
- End.
ObiDan Kinobi