if your girlfriend cheated on you with another woman...

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everfreeDragon

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I'd be as hurt as I would if she was with another man. Cheating is cheating the details on who it's with mean nothing if she is doing things that is meant to be exclusive to our relationship I'd be extremely hurt.
 

Ossian

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"Somebody told me that you had a boyfriend that looked like a girlfriend..." sorry.
 

Anadinolin

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GamesB2 said:
Yes it's still cheating it doesn't matter what gender it's with. Cheating's cheating.
this is my view.

they are still something other than yourself for your partner for so long to pour their emotions and attention into, plus its downright dis-respectful...

conversely if its ok in your relationship and your relationship views are more open then i guess it's ok, i guess its down to your personal relationship dynamic and where you set your boundaries and wether they are willing to cross those boundaries or accept them and maybe convince you to change them, maybe for the good of the relationship if they are too choking.
 

dsmops2003

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I would have to be sure. I would hide in the closet until I am convinced she was cheating. Finish. Then break up with her.
 

Radoh

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That's absolutely absurd, how isn't it cheating? What you are saying is that a homosexual relationship there could be no cheating unless you went straight. Plus, if you are in a relationship and they cheat on you by "switching teams" so to speak, then it would hurt all the more as you would assume you were the reason they "switched".
 

disturbed_one

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I know I sound a little like a redneck here, but if the other girl was good looking, I wouldn't have any objections to that. But since I was the first one for my girlfriend, she's still not looking the other way. Hope it lasts for another year.

BTW a quick question here. If you do know any lesbians, are they like the media stereotpyes them to be? I know three lesbians, and all three are nicely built, with very decent sized breasts and curves, nothing like the tomboy-ish crap that I see on T- oh wait I don't watch TV anymore.
 

havass

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Well yes, it's cheating. It'll probably hurt less for me though.

Unless the other girl is ugly.
 

crudus

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Yeah, I would be hurting. Yes, it is wrong. At some point some reactions would be screaming and pulling in opposite directions.

Suki the Cat said:
Kill her. Kill her dead. That's what I'd do anyway >>.
We think too much alike.
 

Anadinolin

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Radoh said:
That's absolutely absurd, how isn't it cheating? What you are saying is that a homosexual relationship there could be no cheating unless you went straight. Plus, if you are in a relationship and they cheat on you by "switching teams" so to speak, then it would hurt all the more as you would assume you were the reason they "switched".
agree'd
 

Nimcha

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disturbed_one said:
BTW a quick question here. If you do know any lesbians, are they like the media stereotpyes them to be? I know three lesbians, and all three are nicely built, with very decent sized breasts and curves, nothing like the tomboy-ish crap that I see on T- oh wait I don't watch TV anymore.
That stereotype is severly outdated, not every tomboy is a lesbian and not every lesbian is a tomboy :3
 

Ekonk

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Of course its cheating. I can't see how it could be seen as anything else.
 

LooK iTz Jinjo

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It's still a betrayal of trust, how do you think she would feel if she walked in on you fucking another man? My friend had that happen to him and he was really cut up about it and who could blame him? It's the same as cheating with another man, or you with another girl. It's a betrayal of trust, it's not about the sex it's about the fact that how can you be with someone who has that little respect for you?
 

magicmonkeybars

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I guess it is cheating however I'd be curious to know what side she's really playing for but I wouldn't really mind.
I'd be more upset if she cheated on me with another man.
After all a woman brings a different experience to the bed room so why should I begrudge my gf for looking into an experience I can't provide.
 

Ultress

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Pirate Kitty said:
Yes.

I would just about die from hurt.

Hell I was going to say something but this just about sums it up perfectly. I would add that I would not trust anyone for quite awhile.
 

Mr.Incognitus

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To say that I would would be pissed off would be a huge understatement, I do think I would break quite a few things in the immediate vicinity of myself. It doesn't matter what gender it is, cheating is cheating to restate what has been said by many others so far. Trust takes a long time to build, and so little time to break