if your girlfriend cheated on you with another woman...
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Being a woman, who has been with a woman, we aren't just playing around.
As much love can go into a lesbian sexual encounter as any other and that, is what you shouold be worried about. Anyone can have sex with you, not anyone can love you.
As much love can go into a lesbian sexual encounter as any other and that, is what you shouold be worried about. Anyone can have sex with you, not anyone can love you.
YES, of course it's cheating, and it's just as bad as if she'd done it with a man. It doesn't matter if she's fucking around with a man or a woman, she's still fucking around behind my back and if you have such little respect for someone that you won't even break up first then you are a scumbag.
it is cheating.
n as your sex is something you cant change... from that point its worse...coz you'll never be able to change in a way that would stop the urge to cheat (asuming you'd want to in the first place)(and yes i know you can have the op n change it,,,but i dont see why anyone would go that far for someone )
n as your sex is something you cant change... from that point its worse...coz you'll never be able to change in a way that would stop the urge to cheat (asuming you'd want to in the first place)(and yes i know you can have the op n change it,,,but i dont see why anyone would go that far for someone )
Damn it I hate to agree with you but when you're right you're right.Pirate Kitty said:
Cheating is cheating regardless of gender.
One proviso: If she is Bi and tells me up front that she would like to occasionally sleep with other women then I wouldn't consider it cheating so long as it would be just sex,
It would still hurt but if I went into a relationship already knowing that she would, I couldn't (or at least wouldn't) complain.
This actually happened to me and it hurt, i knew it was stupid but i couldnt help not wanting to share her and it didnt seem right because one of the special things we did exclusivly was being done with her friends at some party. I didnt exactly count it the same way i would have had it been a guy but i still saw it as technical cheatingdisturbed_one said:
Seriously.. What does it matter what gender it is? (About to repeat a line used about 100 times so far) cheating is cheating! And you sir have no business judging your friend badly for being upset that the women he loves went out and banged someone else.
I can only facepalm very hard over the original poster's attitudes.
"It's not cheating if it's lesbian"
"Can I watch?"
Seriously, cheating is cheating. And no, most lesbians are not going to let you watch, the same as most hetero couples aren't going to let you watch. They are human beings, not things there to entertain and excite you. There are plenty of movies out there for that.
Now, me personally, my girlfriend DOES see other people. Men and women. And tells me about it. I am okay with this, as we have an open polyamourous relationship. She is also perfectly okay with me seeing or dating other people. So for me, my girlfriend can't 'cheat' on me, unless she's hiding things. It doesn't bother me in the least that she sees other people, in fact I find it kind of fun and makes me happy for when I can't be there for her.
However, if I were in a monogamous relationship with the expectation that neither of us saw/dated/slept with other people and I found out that my partner was going behind my back... I would be hurt regardless of the gender of the person they saw. It's not a matter of who they were seeing, but the fact that they broke the trust we had that makes it cheating.
"It's not cheating if it's lesbian"
"Can I watch?"
Seriously, cheating is cheating. And no, most lesbians are not going to let you watch, the same as most hetero couples aren't going to let you watch. They are human beings, not things there to entertain and excite you. There are plenty of movies out there for that.
Now, me personally, my girlfriend DOES see other people. Men and women. And tells me about it. I am okay with this, as we have an open polyamourous relationship. She is also perfectly okay with me seeing or dating other people. So for me, my girlfriend can't 'cheat' on me, unless she's hiding things. It doesn't bother me in the least that she sees other people, in fact I find it kind of fun and makes me happy for when I can't be there for her.
However, if I were in a monogamous relationship with the expectation that neither of us saw/dated/slept with other people and I found out that my partner was going behind my back... I would be hurt regardless of the gender of the person they saw. It's not a matter of who they were seeing, but the fact that they broke the trust we had that makes it cheating.
I would have a serious talk to her! And then ask if she's bicurious and/or threesome curious.
And from your point of view: Men can be disgusting, non-elegant and un-emotive creatures.
But sometimes a woman just want a strong pair of arms wrapped around her and feel the safety and comfort of a loving man. A man can give a practical solution to problems so the woman can calm down and feel good. (it works the other way around with men, women just need to talk about problems to vent their emotions) A man can take away her uncertainty and shame and sometimes make a stupid joke that makes her smile.
And from your point of view: Men can be disgusting, non-elegant and un-emotive creatures.
But sometimes a woman just want a strong pair of arms wrapped around her and feel the safety and comfort of a loving man. A man can give a practical solution to problems so the woman can calm down and feel good. (it works the other way around with men, women just need to talk about problems to vent their emotions) A man can take away her uncertainty and shame and sometimes make a stupid joke that makes her smile.
My mate went out with a bisexual girl and when she dumped him she swore off men completely and went fully gay. He was so broken up about it, but that was more the being dumped than the turning her off men thing. Still, if my gf cheated with a girl and genuinely had feelings for that girl, I'd be broken up about it because cheating is cheating but I'd also think it was pretty hot as well... so it wouldn't be as bad as cheating with a guy, somehow
There are at least 2 butts involved! Hey-oh! (Do you get it?)superbatranger said:
Maybe its to highbrow.
