i've had the homophobe thing happen too-i was looking at this girl, because she was HOT (she was also wearing a pride shirt and rainbow socks, so i was thinking about going over to start a conversation), and she came up to me and said, "do you have some kind of problem with me? yes, i'm a lesbian and if that bothers you, you can go back to your church, you stupid homophobe." i just told her, "yeah, so am i, and i kind of thought you were cute, but now i don't," and i left.