I'm super depressed about sexism in gaming...

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Kpt._Rob said:
You do know that you can love something, and still think that it could be changed for the better.
But how exactly do you "love" something you disagree with at it's core?

It's not like you love a person and then he turns into someone else - that person has been like that all along. If you have phobia of heights, you don't skydive - skydive has always been about jumping from really high altitudes.

Heck, if you're scared about skydiving but absolutely want to do it, you don't come up to a skydiving club and say "Well, I want skydiving to be less risky!". For that we have those indoor skydiving fans.

Or BASE jumping. That's even more risky than actual skydiving.

Kpt._Rob said:
Imagine if everyone who made hamburgers insisted in putting horseradish sauce on all burgers. Most of us wouldn't be very thrilled with that, but I imagine that we'd just wipe the horseradish off before eating our burgers, and put up with the minor nuisance. But we'd also probably complain, and rightly so. There's no reason people couldn't serve burgers without the horseradish and burgers with.
No. I would go away and find another place. If it happened to every burger, I'd stop giving a damn about burgers entirely.


Kpt._Rob said:
Sure there are some games that stand as exceptions, but they are just that... exceptions.
That's my point. Stick with the exceptions because nobody forced anyone to enjoy whatever they don't like. Or just give up on gaming as a whole if what you like is so rare. This is the part where I say that there are lots of games that don't even feature women. I'm not saying that everyone should be giving up on gaming as a whole.

I am just suggesting that if people are so eager to find everything that is wrong with gaming while ignoring that a lot of games don't even feature the evil gender thingies everyone is complaining about... then they probably should find another hobby instead of making themselves feeling miserable while cherry-picking everything they don't like

If you hate horseradish on burgers, you don't go to that place with the horseradish to keep complaining - just choose another burger restaurant. They are dime a dozen.

Kpt._Rob said:
And of course the OP isn't speaking for all women in the world. But she is speaking for herself (and speaking an opinion which is shared by many people of both genders)
Opinions that honestly is only found on the internet. The average person doesn't give a damn, I look like a lunatic when I ask any woman about her feelings on PVC nuns in gaming or whatever is the hot topic.

Kpt._Rob said:
she has every right to do so
Yes. There are just hundreds of threads on this topic, no reason to start a new one.
 

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Moonlight Butterfly said:
I'm not depressed about video games I'm depressed about the attitude towards my gender. Sometimes I think it would be easier to be a guy.
That is not a problem withing gaming. Like I said, it's only a symptom.

Yeah, it's easy being a guy. I keep being thrown money at my face every morning and people always give me job offers.

Really, there is no way to compare who has it easier. Whatever we are discussing never made my life easier. It's a videogame. Doesn't reflect in my real life achievements.

If the situation was backwards and women turned male characters into attractive, intelligent men showing off their attributes but actually no depth at all... oh wait, that already happens.

Anyway, gaming is still too young. I can't blame it for being shit when it comes to characters.
 

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BRex21 said:
I don't think it's good to have gender separate cons but I think men are still welcome at GGC. As far as I know. It's not like they don't let men in.

Anyway I have to go to hospital tomorrow so early night for me! have fun all.
 

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I sticking to my guns of, If you know how a game works, how to play that game, and you are not quite as good as me at sed game, we can play together. And anyone can play videogames, Y chromosome or no Y chromosome.
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Trilligan said:
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Lara Croft has a distinct character. This is a well worn argument, you can focus on the breasts, but woe be in you if you think you can ignore the character there.
The question nobody has yet answered to my satisfaction is this: why is it that Lara needed large breasts as a character?

If there isn't an intrinsic need for the character to have some sexualization, then why sexualize her at all? And yes, pumping up her bust size is a form of sexualization, because it puts the focus on her breasts. It's unnecessary pandering.
Because she didn't ever "need" large breasts. Her breast size has ranged in various depictions from average size to well below average. She is an adult female, so she is going to have breasts as a secondary sexual characteristic.

She didn't show any cleavage, she wears a tank top that goes up to her neck. What else is she going to wear in a tropical rainforest? This obsession with her breasts is TOTALLY UNWARRANTED!

The focus is not on her breasts, if anything it is on her eyes and her iconic dual wielded pistols:





This is what makes Lara Croft, her guns, that look. That demeanour. She is something unique, in other games or in film Lara is a distinct and potent character.

Just contrast her with the likes of Megan Fox in the transformers movies.
 

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Once upon a time someone did something that hurt my feelings.

I was sad, and then I got over it.

Then someone else did the same thing. I wasn't really as sad as the first time, and I got over it a lot faster.

Fast forward 10+ years. People STILL call me a fag on the internet. I'm not even gay!

Somehow though, I don't make forum threads about how fag shouldn't be used on the internet anymore. It's got a lot to do with hardening the fuck up and not letting dumb people bother me. You may want to consider trying it.
 

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Moonlight Butterfly said:
I think all of the women except one are dressed provocatively in soul calibur and even then the one exception is often posed in boobs and butt poses.
I don?t personally know, so I can?t really comment. Are the men dressed in equally ridiculous fashion? I would wager a guess that no character is wearing anything mildly appropriate and/or utilizing weapons that are realistic.
Moonlight Butterfly said:
As for you pondering of why this issue has come up recently I think it's becuase of the rise in online gaming and the increase in graphical quality...
Because now we?re able to distinguish a pair of breasts when we used to see pictures and/or poor texture maps on shitty resolutions? I suppose I can consider that, but I?m not convinced that?s really the heart of the issue. No one raised a stink with Ms Pacman and Samus beforehand. So it seems more character related than anything else. A lot of people have mentioned they don?t mind if it?s an integral part of the character.
Moonlight Butterfly said:
and jiggle physics :p
Aren?t we interested in the realistic portrayal of the human form? ;)
Moonlight Butterfly said:
Also this is how Sophitia was dressed in the first Soul Calibur game I played
They look like two completely different characters to me. But I accept that people are resistant to any change of a favored character (I?m looking at you emo Dante!).
Moonlight Butterfly said:
Even rooster teeth revealed how this clothing was bloody silly to fight in resulting in a 'bashful panda' style where the woman would fight with her elbows on top of her boobs as her clothes fell off. :p (Also note the first picture she looks determined and competent and in the second one she looks like she is going to pee herself and she just picked up the sword because it was laying around the house .) Surely you can see why I'm annoyed at the change in her portrayal.
I can see that the frustration. I don?t know what ?rooster teeth? is, but I imagine it?s pointing out sword fighting in a g-string isn?t realistic?
Trilligan said:
Well, for starters, it gets tricky when you start arguing what is 'appropriate to the character' and 'her own volition'. She has no volition outside of what is ascribed to her by her creators. It's very easy to say "Oh, she just likes to dress sexy" and leave it at that. Sometimes this works, and sometimes it doesn't. Emma Frost, for instance, is a character wherein the sexy dress and attitude is built in, essentially from the ground up. It's her personality and her representation, and as such her sexy attire works.
Perhaps it would solve some issues if people did just ask the creators without jumping to conclusions. ?Backlash? happen because people assign their own perceptions to someone else?s intentions. Then suddenly the situation is either cooled because they get an answer or heated because once again they don?t ask for clarification opting to further interpret someone else?s meaning. Shall we ask the creators of Soul Caliber? And if we do, will the answer satisfy?
Trilligan said:
Then you take someone like Wonder Woman, who was created explicitly as a part of the original author's bondage fantasies. Her sexy attire comes across differently in light of the greater context. It's no longer quite enough to just say "well, it's just the way she likes to dress" because there are other elements to those design decisions.
Wonder Woman?s origins being well known to me, the character has *dramatically* changed since her creation. All things considered, modern Wonder Woman is not the same character as Original Wonder Woman. I?m having trouble phrasing this, but; I have trouble accepting positions built upon mistaken premise. Like arguing regarding modern Wonder Woman when you apply Original Wonder Woman characteristics. Does that make sense?
Trilligan said:
So yes, you can't divorce your judgement completely from the narrative. But neither can you divorce it completely from the intent of the creator.
I agree completely. So why do so many people assume the intent was to harden penis?
Trilligan said:
You are assuming that the other nine female characters aren't also dressed in a way that could be considered pandering. Also, what do we know of Ivy's backstory? Is there anything in it about why she dresses the way she does?
No idea to be honest. I?m going to assume all those characters are over the top and unrealistic. I?m of the opinion that the characters reasoning wouldn?t make a difference to various people?s perceptions of the character and what she represents to them.
Trilligan said:
I don't play Soul Caliber, so I can't answer to any real degree. But, without some clearer picture between the two of us, statistical analysis of what may or may not be an acceptable level of pandering isn't going to be very informative.
It?s merely to illustrate that what can be objectively determined as statistically insignificant can?t be argued as a systemic issue. If 1 out of every 10 games (if that) has examples of gender related material that be discussed, either in pro or con of any ideology, it doesn?t support the argument that the entire industry is misogynist (or whatever position you argue).
Trilligan said:
I can say, however, that when you're fighting a bunch of people armed with swords and other sharp and deadly things, exposed skin is probably not a good idea. Even if the design of the clothes was endorsed by Ivy and given some realistic justification within her character and backstory, it would still be insane because she's fighting people with deadly weaponry. So there's that.
It?s a stylized game. I don?t expect them to consider what?s realistic or feasible. Ancient armor in many periods didn?t completely cover human skin; just the bits those sharp and pointy objects has a tendency to poke.
Trilligan said:
Another game I haven't played. I've seen Gay Tony from the GTA IV DLC considered both a great example and a bad example of how to make a gay character, but I haven't played that either. I do know there are well done gay characters out there (Arcade Gannon, for one), and I imagine there are poorly done ones as well. But that's kind of tangential, anyway.
It merely further illustrates the idea that a single character among many is often the focus of controversy as if they were in a vacuum. And of course, that there ?poor? or ?good? representation is often a matter of debate.
Trilligan said:
Don't watch that show, either. You are just full of references I don't get.
My bad, I work with what I know. Just trying to use examples where people have often taken a single character archetype and applied it to the entire genre they exist in without consideration of their individual circumstance. Perhaps using a broader example; Princess Peach being a representation of how all women are portrayed in games.
Trilligan said:
But, as I kinda expressed elsewhere, it's less this or that specific example and more the big-picture; the general trend in place. The general trend is that women are hypersexualized whether they ought to be or not.
And that?s where I simply don?t see the evidence people claim exist. We have few examples where this actually occurs; it can?t nearly be the trend people make it out to be. If we examine all the games of a specific year for evidence of hypersexualization of females, I?d wager real money that the ?trend? comprises a miniscule amount, probably not even 5% (pulling that number out of my ass). A ?general? trend would indicate a significance of more than 50%, making it ?normal?.
Trilligan said:
I'm guessing reasonable discussion of the topic. Do I win a cookie? Of course I don't, because you're trying to imply that feminists are inherently unreasonable, which is bullshit, because you're conversing with an inherently reasonable man who considers himself a feminist.
Feminism comes in many colors sir, some are entirely unreasonable. I?m merely pointing out that it?s difficult to argue against the position that there is a systemic issue of sexism because it?s met with the argument that doing so supports a systemic issue of sexism. Sort of like how people who point out the real statistics of Domestic Violence are accused of supporting a system which advocates and/or ignores violence against women.
Trilligan said:
More to the point - the fact of the matter is that none of these examples exist in a vacuum. Any single one of them taken on their own, in or out of context, is not indicative of anything more than the fact that someone on the art team liked this or that design and it was generally well-received by the development team and the game testers. It's the collective weight of the whole - when all those design decisions and poorly represented characters are taken in sum, rather than as individual cases in isolation - that is when the underlying attitudes become a problem. You say that they are statistically insignificant, but they really aren't. There are a lot of these kinds of characters. Even if there's only one per game, there's still a lot of games, and one per each game still adds up to a lot.
I?m asking for some real evidence to support that the sum of these cases actually adding up to a significant amount. As far as I can see, people are merely applying the coverage of media as indicative of the problem. Say for example you looked at these games http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7274/7619451560_2371b4cffb_z.jpg what percentage do you really think are going to indicate an underlying problem of sexism, hypersexualization or any issue which is argued as damaging to/for women? Keep in mind that most of these are A titles, not taking into consideration of a multitude of additional web based games, PC games (other than Blizzard created) and mobile games created in the same time frame. I don?t think it?s too much to ask for those arguing a systemic issue to be able to provide some actual evidence that isn?t taken in a vacuum, because I haven?t seen any; and I?ve been looking.
 

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Moonlight Butterfly said:
BRex21 said:
I don't think it's good to have gender separate cons but I think men are still welcome at GGC. As far as I know. It's not like they don't let men in.

Anyway I have to go to hospital tomorrow so early night for me! have fun all.
Welcome is a funny term isn't it, as i sincerely doubt being given admission would really amount to welcome more than "you can come in and keep your mouth shut." Besides there are plenty of women only events that are exclusive. Would you close all university womens centres?
Safe space is a very valuable thing, it allows people to discuss experiences from a group perspective. It should not be ones only world view, but it is important and totally denied to males.
But think about this for a second, the people who are harassing you are doing so because they want to enjoy their hobby without you. If they HAD their own safe space not only would you experience far less harassment but they would be happier as well. However that would be sexist and clearly offensive. It is very rarely that women are gaming that offends, but rather womens belief they should be both welcomed everywhere and entitled to change what they disagree with.
 

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Moonlight Butterfly said:
I think all of the women except one are dressed provocatively in soul calibur and even then the one exception is often posed in boobs and butt poses.


No boob or butt poses there. I will admit most of the female cast is dressed fairly provocatively, but the males are just as ridiculously outfitted.
 

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And every male looks like tom cruise in the last samurai with there open shirts. particularly miitsurugi in his ripped torn showing his chest outfit.

I dont really see where laras tits are a problem. Sure thats what some people latched onto but

A:Sexualization is only bad when it takes away from a character and

B:Just because its fanservice to men does not make it sexist or exclusionary. Some people look to be offended when trying to livin up there lives when overreaching arguments are made.

Catering to men is not bad. When a waitress or my girlfriend brings me a drink or something she is choosing to "cater" to me. This by itself is not wrong. Does it perhaps make it less appealing to prudes whenever DoA adds bikini fighting,perhaps. But no ones telling you to play that game.

Covering up all the tits in DoA to cater to "YOU" for example would perhaps also make the old doa fans feel left out for "your" benefit.

Lastly Sexism is not this big sweeping problem where tons of men are cracking beers and learning the best way to slap a woman by the likes of master chief or Nathan Drake. A large amount of videogames today is very respectful and only a select few get called out and then brought up as though there were 100 more like it.

The only truly sexism Ive seen is the online gaming scene. Can you really see the guy going "hur dur a black girl" as being politically or hatefully motivated? More like juvenile deliquancy. You have to come at it right or else to mister hur dur previously mentioned your just being preachy.

edit: also itagaki him possibly harassing that staff member. THAT is an example of sexist men in game design. Not "URR MA GERRRD her tops showing thats unrealistic. hates womenz forever!!!! lmao
 

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ElPatron said:
Kpt._Rob said:
You do know that you can love something, and still think that it could be changed for the better.
But how exactly do you "love" something you disagree with at it's core?

... hold the phone here. Are you really going to contend that sexism is the core of gaming? Are you literally trying to say that the reason you want to play a game has to do with outdated portrayals of women as sexualized objects? Because if sexist traits are not the reason that you buy a game, then they are not the core of gaming. The core is the part that you show up for, it's the meat in the burger from the metaphor in which, yes, EVERY single restaurant and chef in the universe puts horseradish on burgers. And see that's the thing, the complaint here has nothing to do with the core experience (I.E. the part that people love), it has to do with the fact that the core experience is all too often accompanied by troubling offensive stereotypes which don't need to be there.

We find ourselves at a crucial turning point for video game culture, as the artist potential of the medium is beginning to be recognized. That is to say that the social perception is changing, so that video games can be viewed in the same way as movies... not a childish waste of time, but instead as a potentially enriching experience. But one of the biggest problems that stands in the way of that happening is the fact that a sizable portion of the industry is still bogged down in these outdated trappings of a less than enlightened past.

All people are asking is that the industry shift, these elements don't have to go away completely, but they really shouldn't be as pervasive as they are. And while we've seen a lot of these threads, and all the points have been made time and again, that's just a part of the process that we have to go through to change the attitudes of the industry as a whole. As our own Jim Sterling was pointing out in his most recent video, it seems that repeatedly complaining actually has a greater affect on the way games are made than boycotting. The whole "love it or leave it" attitude doesn't change things for the better, but beating a dead horse to a pulp does.
 

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Here's one aspect of this controversy I'll never understand: women are attacked for challenging the status-quo BEFORE they offer their alternative solutions. How can gaming be different? How should we create female characters? How can the gaming world accommodate for all, while still satiating the corporeal indulgences of particular demographics? We can never get to these questions, because the debate is prevented from ever starting.

I want the gaming culture to be broadened for female gamers; BUT, I don't believe we should be policing how others behave, or as Moviebob Chipman said in regards to hateful comments "there shouldn't be any place where it's okay, because it's not okay!" This statement, I couldn't disagree with more. Let the jerks have their private little parties online, because the internet is an infinite plane. The rest of us will find likable people elsewhere.
 

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To make it easy for you and ALL GAMING in general. Just make females in the OPPOSITE DIRECTION that Metroid Other M went and humanity will be grateful.

http://moonbase.rydia.net/mental/blog/gaming/metroid-other-m-the-elephant/article.html
http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/lb_i.php?lb_id=13373815860B43920100&i_id=13373815860I43921400&p=1

No need to discuss anymore. But if you really need to, you have the sick fucks be........."relocalized" into somewhere else along the people who like Call of Duty ONLY because they felt that the fall of comunism in 1989 was a big BETRAYAL because they have lost the "right" to kill commies, and now they have to masturbate all over our games.
 

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I'm sick of hearing about these issues that affect me in no way whatsoever, what I'm more sick of however is being grouped together with the bad men you just can't win!