I'm unsure what this sexuality is... [No google results]

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Eamar

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DrgoFx said:
Yay, confusion. It's not based of the type of porn I watch, this decision goes hand-in-hand with my personal experiences as well. It's not "There needs to be two other people" it's more so in any sexual experience I'm part of, my partner needs to be the opposite sex to me. My sex is just as important as theirs. In sex ed terms: I'm attracted to putting the key in the keyhole, and not the keyhole itself, if that makes sense. The actual act of heterosexual sex is what attracts me, and not the opposite sex in general.
Congratulations, you just completely defined heterosexuality. No really, that's as hetero as it gets. Not enjoying watching people (in porn or IRL) masturbate doesn't change your sexuality

For the record, I'm bi and I don't get anything out of watching an individual of either gender masturbating. Just doesn't particularly do it for me. No big deal :)

Also, this thread is fantastic XD


Behold, the glorious combination of fruit and delicious, unhealthy dessert... *drools*

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I'm attracted to putting the key in the keyhole, and not the keyhole itself
I don't think you'd find all that many straight women who find penises (in and of themselves) attractive. Seriously, they're not exactly pretty :p
 

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Did any of you even read the OP? He clearly states that
DrgoFx said:
What my attraction towards is not solely female or male, but the interaction between male and female.
which means that he could be attracted to men if he was biologically female but retaining his current mind!
He's not solely attracted to a gender, but the interaction itself between man and woman.
OT: I have no idea if there is a word for it. But hey, it does not need to have one to exist. :)

So, he likes watching porn? That might explain it...
 

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That is heterosexual, period. You are attracted to the opposite sex. Really, there is no confusion about this. It doesn't matter if you are male or female, if you are attracted to the opposite sex, that is heterosexual.

Note that sexual attraction and what porn you watch are not related. A straight man watching lesbian (or gay male!) porn doesn't make them gay or bi or anything else. Sure, most people stick to watching stuff they would like to be involved in themselves, so you won't see a whole lot of straight guys watching gay male porn... But it doesn't matter if they did. The only important issue is who you are attracted to.
 

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wintercoat said:
You my friend are a very interesting variety of heterosexuality. And yes, you are heterosexual, though instead of being attracted to the opposite sex as per the usual definition, you're attracted to being with the opposite sex, rather than the opposite sex itself.
Sounds a lot like heteroception to me.

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DrgoFx said:
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Yep, it looks like it has happened.

We have now officially reached the point where people start forgetting there is such a thing as heterosexuality.

The conservatives were right!
I hate sleeping...

No, it's not heterosexual. I'm not attracted to the opposite sex. I'm attracted to the interaction between opposite sex. If I was attracted to the opposite sex, I'd find a woman alone satisfying, but I don't.
The real question is, if a girl was getting off in front of you, would you substitute for the man in your porn stories? It seems you would, but you'd disconnect yourself from the engagement and say you're just doing it for the interaction between man and woman.

You're straight. Perhaps crazy. Perhaps really weird. But straight non-theless. I you're a guy, and you like having sex with girls, you're heterosexual. That's what the term means.
 

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Good old fashioned red-blooded heterosexual. For some reason, the stereotype that all hetero sexual men enjoy lesbians had become almost a given.
 

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Eamar said:
DrgoFx said:
Yay, confusion. It's not based of the type of porn I watch, this decision goes hand-in-hand with my personal experiences as well. It's not "There needs to be two other people" it's more so in any sexual experience I'm part of, my partner needs to be the opposite sex to me. My sex is just as important as theirs. In sex ed terms: I'm attracted to putting the key in the keyhole, and not the keyhole itself, if that makes sense. The actual act of heterosexual sex is what attracts me, and not the opposite sex in general.
Congratulations, you just completely defined heterosexuality. No really, that's as hetero as it gets. Not enjoying watching people (in porn or IRL) masturbate doesn't change your sexuality

For the record, I'm bi and I don't get anything out of watching an individual of either gender masturbating. Just doesn't particularly do it for me. No big deal :)
No...That's actually not it at all. It's not "I don't like a woman pleasing herself." It's "I like the interaction between male and female." Due to some weird logic I had, I wasn't thinking that as heterosexual, which it is. But again as someone stated, I'm not attracted to the opposite sex, but being with the opposite sex.

EDIT: Also,

I'm attracted to putting the key in the keyhole, and not the keyhole itself
I don't think you'd find all that many straight women who find penises (in and of themselves) attractive. Seriously, they're not exactly pretty :p
Er...I meant that differently. Yeah, penises and vaginas aren't terribly pleasant to look at, but that wasn't my point...Keeping in the realms of sexuality, and although I do have my preferences, I like fucking the woman rather than the woman herself. Even though guys don't turn me on, I do have my own idea of "An attractive man" and "An attractive woman." but if you just so me some sexually appealing form of either, it's not going to do much for me...unless of course the imagery of sex comes to my mind.
 

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Wow, so many people didnt read/understand the OP. Merely skimmed over it and i got the gist of it immedediatly. If you ask me, which most likely you wont anyway, 90% of the people who answered are trolls themselves.

Let us all now insult each others intelligences and call everyone else trolls!

Whatever wind which steers your boat OP, is perfectly normal but doesnt have a specific label.
 

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BlindWorg said:
Wow, so many people didnt read/understand the OP.
Dunno, man, I read it and it seemed pretty obvious it was heterosexuality. TC himself admitted to it. Or do you have a different actual name of that sexual orientation?
 

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Huh, so it wasn't a troll... honestly OP, I think you're trying to subcategorise sexual orientations just a little too much. When it gets this hard to explain the subtleties of what you are compared to basic heterosexuality to other people, maybe you're better off just not trying. You would still sleep with a woman, but not sleep with a man as you are now, right? To my understanding, that pretty much is heterosexuality.
 

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so you'd only be aroused by a threesome with a man and a woman? that seems rather specific :p why come up with a name for it? Explaining it seems half the fun... I mean really.... it'd seem like so weird on a date :p

"yeah... I'm only interest in threesomes" they'd think you're lieing
 

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DrgoFx said:
So I recently found out what my sexuality is specifically but I haven't found a name for it. I googled the "requirements" for it, but I'm really uncertain. I'm not pansexual, because gender is still a factor, but it's close...I think. What my attraction towards is not solely female or male, but the interaction between male and female.

Hmm, the only thing I can think of that would somewhat describe what you are talking about is some sort of physical orientation of "Interpersonal attraction". ( http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Interpersonal_attraction )

Basicly, interpersonal attraction is the attraction that leads us towards friendship and romance. Could it be that this percieved attraction is what "gets you going"? Be it on a concious or sub-concious level it is a possibility.

Edit because my connection died: It's still heterosexual attraction, possibly with a twist of voyeurism (since that is what you basicly described you are turned on about when it comes to porn and erotica).
 

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DrgoFx said:
EDIT: Fuck sleeping...No, it's not heterosexuality. Unless I missed something, I'm not attracted to the opposite sex alone. I'm attracted to the interaction between opposite sexes.

In other words: I will not find a masturbating woman appealing, but the moment a guy gets involved I'm all for it. Two girls using dildos does nothing for me, but once a guy jumps in I'm all for it. Same with guys, not appealing until a girl is involved. Unless I'm missing something, Heterosexuality is the attraction to the opposite sex alone, but that's not what I'm attracted to.
Here's the million dollar question: Would you have sex with a man? If you wouldn't have sex with a man, then I don't think you can call yourself anything but heterosexual. Guys with girls may turn you on, but if you won't have sex a guy, then the way I see it that doesn't affect your sexuality.
 

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DrgoFx said:
Glass Joe the Champ said:
Wait, so you're attracted to the idea of having sex with a woman and nothing else?

[HEADING=1]SEND HIM TO THE LAB IMMEDIATELY![/HEADING]
Xanadu84 said:
If you are interested in having sex with a single girl, you are straight and have a specific taste in pornography. If you would only do a threesome or more, you are bi with a specific fetish.
Back to explaining: It's not that I'm attracted to a single girl. In the most simplest of terms, I'm attracted to a guy fucking a girl. I'm not attracted to the guy, or the girl, but the interaction in-between. As someone stated before, I'm not attracted to the opposite sex specifically, but being with the opposite sex. In other words, if I for whatever reason became a woman, I would no longer find sex with a woman attractive, personally.

I don't know why I thought it was something else, because it is technically Heterosexual, but it's not the heterosexual everyone thinks of...if that makes sense.

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Cheesepower5 said:
What exactly did you search? "I like to see a man and a woman doing it"? So do I buddy, you just don't seem to get off to lesbians or male homosexuals. Nothin' wrong with that long as you don't judge, eh?
Just for your satisfaction, I searched "sexuality for men and women interaction." Then again, it was 3 in the morning and my variety thinking did not want to work.
Okay, don't talk about pornography. You are in a room. What combination of other people can be in the room that you would want to have sex with those people? Would you as a guy, and a girl, work? I assume you and another guy wouldn't. Would you, a guy and a girl work? At some point in every sex scenario, you only want to put your penis in a girl, your straight. If you would put your penis in both a guy and a girl, your bi. Everything else is just fetish, although a remarkably..."normal " one. There's a wide world of kink. Base sexuality is pretty broad as far as definitions go. Being straight or bi doesn't make your sexuality any less complex.
 

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It seems that we need to brush up on our troll-detection skills. I tip my hat in respect OP!