Frank Miller has some great work. I won't call him misogynst or sexist, as people forget he wrote Martha Washington. I refuse to make any sort of judgement until I've read that.
I will say Miller's writing hints towards a troubled relationship with how he visualizes and internalizes the female sex. He just tends to use female characters in the same ways and it's boring. After awhile the females stop being people and become some sort of window dressing. Worst yet he seems to apply the same style again and again, so we get window dressing everywhere. His style tends to kind of come across as a variation of the whole Maddonna-Whore complex. He writes pretty crap filled worlds, but at this point Frank Miller is a parody of himself, where gritty equals profanity, women will be tortured, women will be whores, and the hero either is or becomes an anti-hero.
The problem is not that society hates sex. No it's that people are becoming tired of every female character being broken, dependent on a man, or about sex. It's fine to enjoy sex, but often its a weapon against females. If you enjoy sex, particularly casual sex, you're a whore, and if you don't you're killed, or you're raped.
I like to say that you can't have a female Seth Rogan unless she's fat and funny. There are not any average female characters or not sexy females, and it's unrealistic. Part of the problem is related to artists who can't do bodily variation. Not every female has HUGE breasts, or a perfect figure. Not every female is going to dress provocatively once she becomes a hero.
Male heroes are power fantasies. The perfect physique, the personality, the heroes journey, etc.
Female heroes are often sexual fantasies. The perfect body...umm...tight clothes
Male Villians are varied in appearance
Most female villians are equated with sexuality or being old(which is a thing thats always been around, but should change)