The original flamefusion topic.
This out first: I have asperger syndrome, or high-functioning autism (to what is considered a mild degree). I've known this since I was abut eight and never gave a damn. However, whenever someone hears this, I receive condescension or pity. Getting enough of that as it is (for being openly nerdy), it frustrates me that sometimes a diagnosis colours one's opinion of someone else.
I have been the way I am all my life (as, of course, it's entirely possible to develop autism later in life) and have always held steadfast to the "it's not a disease" argument. To be quite frank, I really never got any of this theoretical downside. I got over all the social problems fairly quickly, and what's better is that I get to keep all the benefits (really great benefits, too; like breezing through school, being incredibly analytical and easy comprehension of logic of any variety). It's almost become a personal point of pride.
Yet, I see that many of my friends at different points along the spectrum (hang around them enough and it can become tellingly obvious to notice anyone who shares your "birth defect") experience much worse social difficulties, and fewer of these mythical "benefits". Frequently they don't notice it (and good on them for it), as I didn't when I had the same issues, but it happens and it can be demoralizing when you do begin to notice it. It disappoints me the amount of condescension and special treatment that is received by people because of social awkwardness, regardless of what's going on inside the head.
So... questions, comments, arguments, funny stories. People with or without. I've really considered it to be an "ignored issue" in society as people consider it a disease like any other (and some go one step worse and say a curable one), so I want to hear anything that anyone has to say on the issue. Honestly, anything is better than completely ignoring the fact that it is one.
This out first: I have asperger syndrome, or high-functioning autism (to what is considered a mild degree). I've known this since I was abut eight and never gave a damn. However, whenever someone hears this, I receive condescension or pity. Getting enough of that as it is (for being openly nerdy), it frustrates me that sometimes a diagnosis colours one's opinion of someone else.
I have been the way I am all my life (as, of course, it's entirely possible to develop autism later in life) and have always held steadfast to the "it's not a disease" argument. To be quite frank, I really never got any of this theoretical downside. I got over all the social problems fairly quickly, and what's better is that I get to keep all the benefits (really great benefits, too; like breezing through school, being incredibly analytical and easy comprehension of logic of any variety). It's almost become a personal point of pride.
Yet, I see that many of my friends at different points along the spectrum (hang around them enough and it can become tellingly obvious to notice anyone who shares your "birth defect") experience much worse social difficulties, and fewer of these mythical "benefits". Frequently they don't notice it (and good on them for it), as I didn't when I had the same issues, but it happens and it can be demoralizing when you do begin to notice it. It disappoints me the amount of condescension and special treatment that is received by people because of social awkwardness, regardless of what's going on inside the head.
So... questions, comments, arguments, funny stories. People with or without. I've really considered it to be an "ignored issue" in society as people consider it a disease like any other (and some go one step worse and say a curable one), so I want to hear anything that anyone has to say on the issue. Honestly, anything is better than completely ignoring the fact that it is one.