Is being a jerk online fun?

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HaloHappy

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Or is it just me? Cause it seems like every game I play online, Live in particular, there's always some jerk who does nothing but insult people, curses every sentence, calls me a cheater for killing them and rage quits, etc. I know its something that comes with playing online, but it's wearing my nerves fast. Here's an example: when playing Left 4 Dead 2 yesterday, there was this one guy who did nothing but shoot us, use every medkit in sight, or ditch us when we were in trouble......and no, none of us had the right of mind to kick him, we were too busy yelling.
 

DuplicateValue

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So, he was yelling............and you were yelling back?
And you didn't have the common sense to just kick him?
Bit of an easy target, aren't you?
 

Nobody_You_Know

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Seems that way, I offered some cost price parts on a car forum I use earlier today (instead of selling them on ebay for profit I offered them to people on the forum cheaply).
All I got was a load of criticism and abuse, really pathetic.

Not gaming I know but seems to be the way of the internet.
 

orangebandguy

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For some people it is, but they're just people who feel powerless in the real world because they get bullied at school.

Take no notice of them. Luckily for me I regular with people from the TF2 group on here so I always have good experiences in TF2.
 

Volstag9

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well its not fun for me but perhaps to someone it is. I really have no idea why.
 

TheEvilCheese

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Usually, they don't enjoy it, but are bitter heartless people who have little to live for.



But if you are intentionally winding people up (trolling) it can be funny as hell.
 

HaloHappy

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DuplicateValue said:
So, he was yelling............and you were yelling back?
And you didn't have the common sense to just kick him?
Bit of an easy target, aren't you?
No, we were too busy yelling and stupid to kick him
 

Pimppeter2

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No.

I wish Live/PSN/WIi whatever was more like the Escapist. Dumb shit could get you booten
 

GreyWolf257

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Apparently, because I find those people all the time. I think I must be a dick magnet... hmm... Oh, God!
 

HaloHappy

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ziggybogidou said:
Usually, they don't enjoy it, but are bitter heartless people who have little to live for.



But if you are intentionally winding people up (trolling) it can be funny as hell.
I'm not trying to do that, I just want to know what other people find appealing about pissing people off online.
 

LogicNProportion

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YES! FUCK YOU!

But seriously, no. You're just proving to the aliens watching us that we are the stereotype they depict us as: We're all just a bunch of howler monkeys.
 

DuplicateValue

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HaloHappy said:
DuplicateValue said:
So, he was yelling............and you were yelling back?
And you didn't have the common sense to just kick him?
Bit of an easy target, aren't you?
No, we were too busy yelling and stupid to kick him
Yes, I know - they were rhetorical questions.
What I meant was that the fact you were so easily annoyed by it just made it more fun for him.
 

Vrex360

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I have my own theory on why people behave like jerks on online games, ahem:

It is not just the fact that they are anonymous that has the effect of jerkness, rather I believe it stems from the competative nature of the game itself. I mean lets have a look at a grand stadium football match (I'm talking Aussie rules here), you take one look and you can see that the players are getting up in each others faces, throwing punches and generally being as mean spirited as possible. Then you look at the audience and it is divided according to fans and let me tell you, I've seen some really angry people getting riled up over what is essentially a game. People who have never even met are swearing at each other, players get booed on mass by the audience and the losing team leaves with bitter and empty hate in their veins.
Now you take that same 'must win, must win, must win' attitude and then go to a video game and have the addition of no one knowing who you are and what your face looks like and then bam, suddenly your allies are only getting in your way, everyone who is against you is scum and there's no fun involved. Only victory, no matter how petty.
That's my theory anyway, anonymity plays its part, but the competatative side of people who see it as more then just a game, are the main cause.

To answer the OP though: I do not try to be a jerk online, because in agreement with Yahtzee, I believe there is nothing more cowardly then insulting someone on the othe side of the world who you know nothing about just to feel 'tough'.
 

Arkhangelsk

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People = Shit. There, I summarized all our thoughts. I can see the "fun" in watching other players jump frantically up and down and yell at you and having no real effect. It's like bullying, making yourself feel bigger to compensate. But I don't do it, I'm a fair player as often as I can.
 

magnuslion

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only if you are 12, have no life outside of gaming, or get beat up at school and have to live out your passive aggressive crap in an environment where no one can kick your sorry ass.