Et3rnalLegend64 said:
Both of you, unfair (at the moment, mostly directed Space Spoons). OP's first fighting game ever and had the insane misfortune of meeting a spammer on his first match. You can't say finding a way around is simple and that he "deserved to lose." While I agree that spamming is a perfectly viable tactic if you want to win (I play Lambda-11), I still hold back when I meet players Level 15 or under unless they start kicking my ass. I don't want to turn them away from the game before they get the chance to get better. I want to see new blood that can eventually put up an exciting fight and hopefully surpass my fairly weak play (PSR is floating around the 110-112 range and won't go any higher).
I understand your point of view, but taking it easy on a new player won't do that new player any favors down the line. The simple fact of it is that most people who play fighting games online don't pull punches. It's better for him to learn that now and adjust his tactics appropriately than it is for him to gain a false perception of his own skill level that will make his inevitable defeat that much harder to handle.
For what it's worth, I think you're right, it's
not fair. But those are the breaks, that's the way the fighting game community has developed; it's not friendly to newcomers who can't develop a thick skin. Personally, I'm just grateful we're living in a day and age when you can play with real people, get destroyed, and not feel
completely ashamed about it, whereas in the old days, you'd get laughed right out of the arcade if you couldn't bring the skills to pay the bills.