Is Hitting A Girl All That Bad?

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Snake Plissken

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My opinion has always been "You aren't allowed to be a feminist until I'm allowed to punch you in the face."
 

Evil Earlgrey

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Straitjacketeering said:
Nah if its hand to hand i wont waste my time, if that said girl pulls a knife or a gun she's getting knocked the fuck out.
I smell a loss of reality there. U serious?
If she pulls a gun or a knife you can't do anything except do what she tells you to do and hope that you fucking survive. I am very advanced in martial arts (3.dan black belt, won international tournaments) and i practice a style that is perfectly suited for street self-defense. Once someone holds a gun in my face, the fight is over. Period. Same goes for knives (if you are not well trained. And chances are noone here is, because even i would rather do what im told before attacking someone with a knife).
 

vxicepickxv

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Two rules

1)Did she start something that could injure or kill someone

or

2)Did she ask for it(of course, that limits it to my hand, a paddle, or riding crop)
 

DazBurger

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I'm 232 pounds... And not fat... And I generally don't hit people, even if they hit me.

At least not when they are just distressed or something like that.

But if they are just being a douche, ill put em to the floor, regardless of gender.
 

Angry Camel

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I really try not to hit and I make sure to block hard instead (the painful martial arts sessions are paying off). However, if the girl is really trying to hurt me, I have little hesitation hitting them in the arm. Worst comes to worst, I'll throw them to the floor. Being larger than most girls I know, I can get the point across pretty quick.

Since we should treat everyone with equal respect, hitting a girl is the same as hitting a guy. Just gotta remember hitting them in the chest is like them kicking us in the crotch.
 

Nurb

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I'm of the younger generations raised with equality and "I am woman hear me roar" stuff, so I don't think hitting a woman is worse than hitting a man. None of this 3 hit rule or crap like that. It's assault no matter who does it and abuse to a spouce is equally harmful to both men and women.

That's not always the case with people in the 21st century, as even cops will ignore domestic violence if it's against a man.
 

Korolev

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It's really not right to hit anyone for any reason other than self defence - regardless of their gender. Men shouldn't hit women for no reason and women should hit men for no reason. Let's hit no-one for no real reason. That should be the rule.

I am perfectly willing to hit a women if she is trying to attack me or harm me physically in any way, or if she tries to hurt any of my family. Then again, I'd hit any man who did the same. But so far I haven't hit anyone because I've never felt the need to. What's the point of hitting someone just because there's a verbal altercation? It just makes you look bad.
 

Torrasque

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For others: if someone attacks you, no matter their gender, consider the situation and react accordingly.
It is unlikely violence is required, but if it is, try to get yourself out of the situation, not make it worse.
If its a guy, hit them as they hit you. If its a girl, hit them as they hit you.

I really don't see what the big deal is with hitting girls, so long as you do it as a reaction to violence. They seem ok to give pain, they should be ok with receiving it as well. I hate how girls demand equality with guys, yet still think its terribly rude to hit them when they strike you.

For me: I'll try to resist hitting a girl, and I'll usually just avoid them, but if they are bigger than me, stronger than me, or older than me, I will probably hit them. The act of hitting a girl (for myself mind you) just seems low, so I try to avoid it. I will still hit a girl if the situation calls for it, but I'd really rather not.
 

Odbarc

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A man walks into a bar and says, "I just kicked the shit out of somebody. I won, I want a beer."
Everyone's like "YEAH! Tell what what happened?"
The man says, "It was a 115 pound 19 year old girl."

A) Everyone goes "YEAH! How'd you do it? Are you okay? Shit man, that's epic."
B) Everyone gets pissed off regardless of your age, height, weight.


You have no note that despite being relatively the same weight, women have almost twice the fat-weight as men. She may weight about 115 but her lean muscle mass might be only 90lbs where as your lean muscle mass is closer to 100lbs. Plus you've got more reach so in a real fight, you'd probably win 8 times out of 10.
 

PaladinMJ

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my general rule is this:
open hand / no weapon = free pass ONCE
closed hand(fist) / weapon = gender is irrelevant you are a threat you will be dealt with according to my desire to survive and be as unharmed as possible.
 

The Dr0w Ranger

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1. I think hitting a girl in the same instances I'd hit a guy is perfectly acceptable. Those situations include great bodily harm or things that can potentially leave scars, like a punch to the nose(can WRECK your face).

2. I don't understand the where words cross into the physical realm, unless you attack me or my valuables(I will defend things like my laptop that I can't afford to replace), I'm not gonna touch you, the risk of me getting in trouble is too great. I don't care what you say, if you are the kind that says nasty evil shit, you will only have the chance once, I'll be gone before the next chance arises. I don't see how anyone gets talked into punching someone, learn to fucking control yourself, or at least pick better people to be around.

3. Touching =/= hitting. If I was assaulted in a fashion that prevented escape and threatened great harm, I'd jab a mofo in the throat. But up until that point, armlocks and pushing are fully suitable. I can lift a person 300 pounds, I can take him off his feet and lay him out mostly unharmed, unless I positively have to waste him(really REALLY unlikely) I won't be punching or kicking anyone.

4. Bill Burr puts a funny spin on it, although I have seen real cases of what he is talking about.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5W4J6pGkUBo
 

solemnwar

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Might of been said, but:

If you are a man, the majority of of women are much, much weaker than you. Despite what a lot of feminists may want you to believe, women are smaller, weaker, and more fragile than men (I am a woman myself, I KNOW THIS) for the most part, and thus a dude hitting a woman is kind of like kicking a kitten.

There are exceptions, of course.

But, if anyone has attacked you first, then woman or not they deserve to get punched.
 

TheDarkestDerp

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I'm a girl.

Hitting me completely unprovoked is a bit bad, unless we're in the bedroom, that can be foreplay.

If I hit you and you don't hit me back, I'm a bit miffed, honestly.

Otherwise, use your best judgment.

Sexism, blah blah, all been said before...
 

AWAR

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Twilight_guy said:
Hitting a girl is bad if you are a gentleman. Of course the idea of gentlemen and ladies isn't fashionable anymore because its inherently sexist and sexism has been a hot topic for quiet some time. If you really believe in the equality of the sexs then hitting a girl is no worse then hitting a boy.
What about hitting a boy is as worse as hitting a girl? It's a matter or perspective :p
 

sebbe8985

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its not about girls and boys.
you arent supposed to hit anybody. in your example its about two siblings witch will always tease and fight with each other and that is completely normal wether you are girls or boys. but the idea of violence is something so wrong in its nature.
you are violating the right of another human being the same thing goes when you are mocking somebody ore in anyway making them feel less valuable.
violence is the last resort of a conflict and its in our nature to resort to it in different situations. since it is in our nature we often feel a rush or some euphoria when we do it, not everybody and not all the time, but people like to be in control and seeing yourself triumph with violence is a very basic way of getting that.
now the physical violation that you make the other person go through, especially if you are stronger, can never be justified.
you are dominating him or her with violence and therefore depraving him of his given right to freedom from tyranny.
it may sound a bit over the top but its actually not that farfetched. violence is never okay wether its between boys, girls ore anything in between.
 

Capt. Crankypants

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Everything about the modern world and all it's so-called 'equality', including the incredibly annoying radical feminists, makes me want to say "Yeah, if you're pushed to the brink, go for it". That said, if it ever came to it, I just KNOW that I personally wouldn't hit a girl.

Food for thought though blokes (and ladies too if you feel the irrepressible desire to contribute), and that is, for all of you who believe it's acceptable to hit a girl, what is the tipping point? Is it under the same circumstance that you would hit a man? Like if she threw a drink in your face, or spat on you? Where's the line, or, to put it another way, what's the least that you'd hit a girl for? Hurling incessant verbal abuse, or an actual physical act?

Discuss.
 

Jedoro

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Hitting a girl = bad
Hitting a guy = bad
Hitting anyone back = perfectly legit

My friends know I'm fine with hitting girls back. Some looked pretty surprised the first time they witnessed it, but I just tell them that every action has an equal and opposite reaction. I return the strike with the same force and target I received it in, until it breaks out into a full-on fight. Then I fight til my enemy is unwilling or unable to fight back, but thankfully it's never gone that far with a girl.